What to do with a FMF and MFM

[PSULioness 847]

Unlike many on here who swap with other couples, my husband and I go to parties or have 3somes.

When playing with our guy friend I don’t like what some call double penetration. What are some things others do. The guys are straight. Most times I am having sex with one and do oral to the other. Sometimes my husband just lets me play with our friend.

When with a girl friend I find more things I can do even if he is in her.

[adamgunn 1,460]

My wife and I enjoy MFMs.

 

I like watching in the beginning as my wife begins foreplay with the other guy. Then I join in. I like kissing her and fondling her tits as the man is performing oral on her. When they are actually in coitus, if they’re in a position like cowboy, I’ll twiddle her clit - she really enjoys that! Basically, I look at myself as an enhancement to her enjoyment as she’s playing with another man.

 

We’ve tried DP a few times, it didn’t work out that well. You have to be very patient, it’s physically challenging, and both men have to be very hard.

 

One thing I’ve enjoyed is I’ll recline, my back on pillows and my head against the headboard. My wife will sit on my lap, facing away from me, and we’ll both open up our legs. The man crawls between them and enters her. For him, it’s much the same as missionary when her ass is raised up on pillows. As they’re screwing, I can put my arms around her and fondle her tits, rub her stomach, fiddle with her hair. I get to feel their movements. My dick is in her ass crack, a most delicious feeling as she slides up and down on it.

[ViSexual 1,008]

I enjoyed, and I believe my wife did too, doing her doggy while she gave our friend oral one time.

 

But I think the most fun was one time she was being attended to in the missionary position and her partner wasn't kissing her. In fact, he was so intent on his pleasure that his face wasn't close to hers at all. I know my wife likes to be kissed during intercourse so I joined them and my wife and I had a long, passionate, kiss while he continued.

 

I think it worked well for all three of us.

 

He may not have even knows that we were kissing and he enjoyed a very nice ejaculation.

 

My wife must have liked his movements because I could feel her thrusting back up at him and her kisses became more passionate as she orgasmed.

 

And, for me? It was hot. When I'm having intercourse with her and we're kissing, I'm divided on which pleasure to concentrate on. It's like oral, I don't really like 69 because I have to switch between enjoying the feel of her mouth on me and the pleasure of her taste and feel on my mouth. So, that kiss really let me know what kissing her is like when she's in her throes of passion.

[Numex 2,416]

.. I like kissing her and fondling her tits as the man is performing oral on her. ... As they’re screwing, I can put my arms around her and fondle her tits, .

When I'm in an MFM, the other guy and I share and decide who gets which tit. That's why there's two.

 

I often would kiss my wife while someone was getting her off, but also find it a turn-on to be the workhorse fucking her while another man or woman is kissing her.

 

Generally, my wife likes to take guys' dicks in her cunt one after the other instead of being poked two places at the same time.

[Thegreyarea 100]

My wife likes the normal mfm play of performing oral on one while getting fucked by the other. I usually let them start out and join in when she wants but we usually finish with dvp. It does require the other guy to be ok with close quarters because well we’re sharing the same space. She loves it, and I love giving it to her. The look on her face when the second cock enters her is priceless.

[njbm 2,871]

What position do you use for DVP?

[couplers 4,640]

.. When playing with our guy friend I don’t like what some call double penetration. What are some things others do. The guys are straight. Most times I am having sex with one and do oral to the other. Sometimes my husband just lets me play with our friend.

When with a girl friend I find more things I can do even if he is in her.

With us too, the guys are straight. I prefer when they take turns sharing me going back and forth. It's exciting not knowing what's going to happen next - Are they getting ready to switch? Will he want to flip me over or stay the way I am? Does he want me to get on top? Which one will cum in me first? Is it going to be this time? After the first guy cums, the second is quick to follow. Although vaginal/oral is fine for me when just getting started, as I get closer to orgasm I hate having a dick in my mouth. I need lots of air to cum and breathe really hard. Licking pussy is fine because I can move away an inch and there's nothing blocking my airway.

 

More and more because of everything going on in our life, especially the kids, it's often one-at-a-time alone play, although the time between those one-at-a-times can sometimes be pretty short.

 

With an FMF, which I prefer, you are right there is more to do - the girls 69ing while he goes between us, or he doing oral on one of us while being in the other. But what we three women all prefer as a FFM is one of us taking him doggy while doing oral on the other girl. Then switching with her - a couple of times.

[Thegreyarea 100]

So is it the general consensus that you can’t do dp/dvp and be straight?

[padoc 1,703]

I don't see how, from the above posts, that you can draw that conclusion.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Years ago, there was a hilarious site called "threesome sex positions" or something like that, where somebody had devised dozens of scenarios using those wooden artists' mannequins to populate a diorama of a bedroom. It'd be perfect for this thread if only I could find it somewhere.

 

They started off serious, then got increasingly ridiculous. One was the two female figures in bed doing 69 while the man stands off to the side, looking away, hanging his head.

 

"In this position, my female partners perform oral sex on each other while I gaze at the floor in disappointment, for I have ejaculated too quickly."

[Billygoat 443]

We have had a number of MFM....MMFMM....MMMMFMMMM for her pleasure. She has always preferred the men involved be comfortable with her engaging 2 or 3 at a time....sometimes more. Most MFM and MMFMM have been with those we were very friendly with and all where comfortable around each other. She could mouth or lick two cocks at a time without either guy feeling homophobic. No one squeamish with her letting each of us cum inside her either in turn or two at a time....when the sizes allowed. She preferred interactive play so one or two working her upper body kissing, breast play tummy or clit massage. A number of variations each event, never any bi male play.....it was all about and for her.

[Lee714 81]

There are 16 positions for double penetration! Anyone tried them all? 16 Positions For Double Penetration - Swingers Blog By SwingLifeStyle

[Kimasianwife 32]

With us too, the guys are straight. I prefer when they take turns sharing me going back and forth. It's exciting not knowing what's going to happen next - Are they getting ready to switch? Will he want to flip me over or stay the way I am? Does he want me to get on top? Which one will cum in me first? Is it going to be this time? After the first guy cums, the second is quick to follow. Although vaginal/oral is fine for me when just getting started, as I get closer to orgasm I hate having a dick in my mouth. I need lots of air to cum and breathe really hard. Licking pussy is fine because I can move away an inch and there's nothing blocking my airway.

 

More and more because of everything going on in our life, especially the kids, it's often one-at-a-time alone play, although the time between those one-at-a-times can sometimes be pretty short.

 

With an FMF, which I prefer, you are right there is more to do - the girls 69ing while he goes between us, or he doing oral on one of us while being in the other. But what we three women all prefer as a FFM is one of us taking him doggy while doing oral on the other girl. Then switching with her - a couple of times.

 

I'm being persuaded to let a few men take turns with me today. I think u and u enjoy the same your of treatment. Like u said u like them taking turns. I want to start there. In ur situation did they wear condoms? And where did they cum.

 

I don't know y but I like when men talk dirty to me. They ask me where I want it and I tell them. Id love to contact u.

[couplers 4,640]

I'm being persuaded to let a few men take turns with me today...

Whether they are taking turns or going into you at the same time, it needs to be your choice - you shouldn't be persuaded.

 

... I think u and u enjoy the same your of treatment. Like u said u like them taking turns...

In an MFM situation, I prefer that they take turns. It's better when there is a woman there too who I can enjoy. I will take two at one time, usually one in my pussy and one in my bum.

 

... I want to start there...

You should start however you want. Having a good first experience is important to continuing on.

 

... In ur situation did they wear condoms?..

We don't use condoms, but in our situation we aren't really swingers. I have sex with the same three guys, and two women, all of the time.

 

.. And where did they cum...

Usually in my vagina because it makes me orgasm and I like the idea afterwards that a living part of a man is inside me for several days. Sometimes in my bum (I can't orgasm that way unless a man has his dick in my pussy as well or someone, usually Clair or Lora, is licking me). I will also suck a dick until he cums and swallow, but prefer when a man cums in my vagina.

 

.. I don't know y but I like when men talk dirty to me. They ask me where I want it and I tell them..

You don't have to know why, if it is something you like and they are willing, enjoy it.

 

... Id love to contact u.

No problem, I like to chat. Sometimes I'm busy and don't check in here for a while, so be patient.

[Lee714 81]

Is it better to have the woman direct?

[couplers 4,640]

Is it better to have the woman direct?

Always.

Regards,

Petra

[Lee714 81]

Thought so. :)

[adamgunn 1,460]

Lee, we don't 'direct' per se. We're very experienced, I normally let Mary develop the encounter, particularly with new men, as she desires. I like to watch to start. I just get a feeling for when it's time for me to jump in, and it works great for us.

 

I guess you could say we go with the flow.

[couplers 4,640]

...I normally let Mary develop the encounter, particularly with new men, as she desires. I like to watch to start. I just get a feeling for when it's time for me to jump in,..

For both of us we started by letting the other go it alone to start. The timing to jump in started with knowing when the other two were comfortable for the other one of us to be present.

[Bluespruce1 706]

Lately I am addicted to my girlfriends pussy while my husband is inside her. I love watching them together and pleasuring them both - can’t get enough.

[Psylance 16]

On 11/28/2019 at 11:55 AM, couplers said:

With us too, the guys are straight. I prefer when they take turns sharing me going back and forth. It's exciting not knowing what's going to happen next - Are they getting ready to switch? Will he want to flip me over or stay the way I am? Does he want me to get on top? Which one will cum in me first? Is it going to be this time? After the first guy cums, the second is quick to follow. Although vaginal/oral is fine for me when just getting started, as I get closer to orgasm I hate having a dick in my mouth. I need lots of air to cum and breathe really hard. Licking pussy is fine because I can move away an inch and there's nothing blocking my airway.

 

More and more because of everything going on in our life, especially the kids, it's often one-at-a-time alone play, although the time between those one-at-a-times can sometimes be pretty short.

 

With an FMF, which I prefer, you are right there is more to do - the girls 69ing while he goes between us, or he doing oral on one of us while being in the other. But what we three women all prefer as a FFM is one of us taking him doggy while doing oral on the other girl. Then switching with her - a couple of times.

In my first FFM triad, both of my lovers and I got very adept at double oral- when I was inside the woman in the center, as she was licking our girlfriend, aka "feed the doggie", I would lean forward and lick her as well. This is very rewarding for everyone, as the receiver gets to feel adored by two lovers with skilled, energetic tongues, and both givers are essentially kissing- really, double cunnilingus is a three-way kiss, with three pairs of luscious lips and the receiver's clit like a third tongue, very unlike double oral on a man. We found it to be very romantic, in fact, and whenever one of us started to give oral to one of the ladies, her response would seemingly always be "isn't someone missing?"

[njbm 2,871]

3 hours ago, Psylance said:

In my first FFM triad, both of my lovers and I got very adept at double oral- when I was inside the woman in the center, as she was licking our girlfriend, aka "feed the doggie", I would lean forward and lick her as well. This is very rewarding for everyone, as the receiver gets to feel adored by two lovers with skilled, energetic tongues, and both givers are essentially kissing- really, double cunnilingus is a three-way kiss, with three pairs of luscious lips and the receiver's clit like a third tongue, very unlike double oral on a man. We found it to be very romantic, in fact, and whenever one of us started to give oral to one of the ladies, her response would seemingly always be "isn't someone missing?"

I am trying to picture this. The male is having intercourse with a woman doggie style and both the receiving woman and the man are giving oral to the other woman in the threesome?

[Psylance 16]

It requires some flexibility from all involved, and our height differences helped- I'll try to pull up a pic.

[couplers 4,640]

On 6/10/2020 at 11:59 AM, Psylance said:

"feed the doggie"

?

[nusofties 52]

22 hours ago, couplers said:

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[Fitlakecouple 451]

Have one of the men lick your pussy while you are penetrated by the other. He is pleasing you not the other guy. Tell them that is what you want to happen - they will want to please you, yes?  And, the one giving you oral will be rewarded with an awesome view of you.

[oc1234 435]

12 hours ago, Fitlakecouple said:

Have one of the men lick your pussy while you are penetrated by the other. He is pleasing you not the other guy. Tell them that is what you want to happen - they will want to please you, yes?  And, the one giving you oral will be rewarded with an awesome view of you.

We started out with MFM threesomes with our best friend where we took turns with my wife. It evolved over the years to both of us playing with her at the same time. At first one of us would be having intercourse with her while the other would be kissing her ears and playing with her breasts which really turns her on. Eventually we got to thee point where one of us would lick her clitoris while the other had intercourse with her. That really turned my wife on and it really turned on my male friend and me.

[njbm 2,871]

I find the spit roast sexy. One man penetrates the woman doggie style from behind.  The woman performs oral sex on a man in front of her while getting pounded from behind. 

[couplers 4,640]

On 6/10/2020 at 11:59 AM, Psylance said:

"feed the doggie"

I reacted to that because it is something I like to do.  A lot.  Both ways, feeding the woman being taken doggy my pussy, or having a guy screw me doggy and being fed some pussy to take care of.  Either way.

[couplers 4,640]

16 hours ago, oc1234 said:

... one of us would be having intercourse with her while the other would be kissing her ears and playing with her breasts...

She has two breasts for a reason.  Share.  It's nice when guys do that to me.

[Psylance 16]

At 12:30, there's an example of what I mean.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5e35d83c3c2fe

[Lee714 81]

On 9/27/2019 at 8:11 AM, adamgunn said:

My wife and I enjoy MFMs.

 

I like watching in the beginning as my wife begins foreplay with the other guy. Then I join in. I like kissing her and fondling her tits as the man is performing oral on her. When they are actually in coitus, if they’re in a position like cowboy, I’ll twiddle her clit - she really enjoys that! Basically, I look at myself as an enhancement to her enjoyment as she’s playing with another man.

 

We’ve tried DP a few times, it didn’t work out that well. You have to be very patient, it’s physically challenging, and both men have to be very hard.

 

One thing I’ve enjoyed is I’ll recline, my back on pillows and my head against the headboard. My wife will sit on my lap, facing away from me, and we’ll both open up our legs. The man crawls between them and enters her. For him, it’s much the same as missionary when her ass is raised up on pillows. As they’re screwing, I can put my arms around her and fondle her tits, rub her stomach, fiddle with her hair. I get to feel their movements. My dick is in her ass crack, a most delicious feeling as she slides up and down on it.

That sounds as hot as actual dp. Plus you can also reach around and play with her clit while he screws her.

[Lee714 81]

On 6/19/2020 at 10:27 AM, Fitlakecouple said:

Have one of the men lick your pussy while you are penetrated by the other. He is pleasing you not the other guy. Tell them that is what you want to happen - they will want to please you, yes?  And, the one giving you oral will be rewarded with an awesome view of you.

Three way 69! A fantasy of mine. The view must be incredible. Along with the sounds.

[Lee714 81]

On 11/29/2019 at 8:27 AM, Thegreyarea said:

So is it the general consensus that you can’t do dp/dvp and be straight?

I can't agree with the consensus. I think it's mostly about pleasing the woman. While having your cock rubbing up against another one would seem "not straight" I think it comes (cums) with the territory.

[Lee714 81]

On 6/19/2020 at 10:27 AM, Fitlakecouple said:

Have one of the men lick your pussy while you are penetrated by the other. He is pleasing you not the other guy. Tell them that is what you want to happen - they will want to please you, yes?  And, the one giving you oral will be rewarded with an awesome view of you.

Like a three way 69 with one guy underneath? Or her riding reverse cowgirl while the other guy licks her from the front? Decisions decisions.