Feeling and watching another guy with a guy ?

[Naughtyvanessa 49]

is this is a turn on for you to see a guy with another guy ?

Giving blow Job?

fucking?

or?

[PSULioness 840]

I have not seen two men and not sure if I want to. Maybe to me it’s now more acceptable for women to play together and something I saw in porn way before I ever played with a woman. Never saw m-m porn. I am friends with gay guys and have no problem with that. I don’t know if any of the guys I know are bi though odds are I just don’t know they are bi.

[TheBiggerMan 83]

is this is a turn on for you to see a guy with another guy ?

Giving blow Job?

fucking?

or?

 

How about you? What is your thoughts and experience? I personally love sucking a good looking dick with a good looking woman.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Different strokes for different folks, but for us: no.

[padoc 1,703]

Nope.

[njbm 2,868]

Have never seen it live.

[findinganswers 369]

Not in our group of friends.

[VegasNudeCouple 167]

Well, speaking as one half of a Lifestyle Couple, both Dave and I had Gay encounters when younger, and when I imagined him with another guy, got me going. My lesbian encounters were also in college, so we have openly LGBTQ friends that we play with. We invite our Bi couple friends over and we can openly talk about our likes.

[Newandnaughty 3]

Interesting to scan-read the comments that appear above before I write mine.

 

Bi a previous post, I have stated that I BECAME "bisexual" bi means of my very first swinging experience (a nearly 3 year exclusive relationship with a MF couple I met via an AOL chatroom). So it was definitely bi CHOICE that I became so and I am aware that when it began, it was probably statiscally "unusual" (circa 1990's).

 

THUS, if YOU are a "long time swinger" that started in the 60's or asa result of the 60's influence (ala "Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice (ironically 1969) then you are probably more "straight" when it CUMs to swinging.

 

I think the comedian Ron White started "breaking the ice" when he stunned audiences with his opening joke lead: "we're all just a limit bit GAY!" Immediately seizing upon the gasps of his audience, he explains that when asked what of porn men watch "YEAH, I wanna watch a GREAT BIG COCK fuck a woman....wait a minute? a "GREAT BIG COCK?"

 

Nowadays, I betcha "new entrants" to the swinging lifestyle are "pan sexual" and like any letter in the alphabet you wanna get naked with and WET!

 

Wife and I are fairly new to swinging, assume younger than you and have no idea what pan sexual is. I never did, do not now and never want to play with another man in the future. If that’s your thing then have a blast with it, but I’d probably not bet that you’re in the majority.

[padoc 1,703]

Pan sexual??? Someone with a fetish for teflon?? Someone who gets aroused by frying bacon? Oh wait, I do!! Maybe I AM pan sexual.Damn, I learn something new on this Board every day!!!!!

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

Pansexual; attracted to/open to all people regardless of their gender, orientation, identity, etc.

 

And, I don't think you have to be even a little bit gay to enjoy watching another man's penis go into your wife. It's not about the guy, it's about the pleasure your wife is getting from it.

[padoc 1,703]

And it has absolutely NOTHING to do with bacon….right?

[Newandnaughty 3]

Pansexual; attracted to/open to all people regardless of their gender, orientation, identity, etc.

 

And, I don't think you have to be even a little bit gay to enjoy watching another man's penis go into your wife. It's not about the guy, it's about the pleasure your wife is getting from it.

 

Now that I see your definition, certain that I’m not one of those pan folks. Not I tune with orientation, identity, etc either. Before anybody says anything about “closed mind or intolerant” let me explain. My parents spent a lot of money for me to go to school. Lots of science and biology classes all the way through. If you want to cast blame for my biological intelligence, blame Father Judge and Temple. All that being said, I am 100% on board with the bacon. I don’t care whether I have the same sexual tastes as somebody, I’ll house the shit out of a couple pounds of bacon with them!

[Newandnaughty 3]

Nudist swungers looked at things almost exactly as you do, used to love playing on words too. Also used to love ruffling feathers with opinions and opinion related polls to debate facts and science. You guys would’ve gotten on very well. It’s a shame they stopped posting a few days before you started ?.

[padoc 1,703]

I like having sex with women. Mrs Doc likes having sex with men. Since every other choice has a label, a flag, a march and maybe a few extra rights, wtf are we??

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

...bacon….

 

Ok now I'm totally distracted.

[VegasNudeCouple 167]

Fascinating Hearing from and seeing you guys. It's all about taking risks,good self-confidence and letting got of old "shoulds" to say Fuck it, Let's do it!!

Laura

Laura and Dave vegasnudecouple

[Sunday 119]

Swinging is a female-centric activity. Being a straight male, I think men are disgusting creatures and I thank god each and everyday that he made beautiful women who are sexually attracted to us animal-like monsters.

 

I have plenty of gay-male friends and family members and I have said to them what I said above and it was perfectly understood and accepted as my choice and opinion. I am supportive and pro-gay in every way possible except for personally/sexually.

 

So no, IMO, gay sex between men has no place in your typical swingers club or party. But I have seen advertised gatherings that cater to that type of activity, it's out there if you want it, however, you won't see me there.

 

[padoc 1,703]

Wait! Wait!!!! Can we just go back to the bacon???? I got lost at the pan. Pan Am, Pandora, Pandemonium, Pan cakes, Pan sexual.

[Guest]

Guess I find this subject a little strange.

 

Like most people would be okay watching MF / FF but obviously MM still has a huge stigma attached to it?

 

Maybe its a romantic thing? I mean for some reason watching a women fuck a guy seems normal, watching two women together just seems like two sexy naked women having fun, but that watching some guy ram his dick up another guy's ass doesn't feel or seem that romantic.

 

I have met a few couples over the years where they have MMF / MFF but then at times the man of the couple breaks off on his own to have MM play. Played with a few couples where the guy has asked if I want any alone time with him as well, which I have always kindly declined.

 

I do find it strange however that some people in the world of swinging do take offence to the entire idea of two men playing together. Have heard a few posts over the years that basically say YES we fuck women, YES we fuck men, but two men together, NO WAY that is gay!

 

I honestly do find it all very strange. Please come and cream pie my wife? I'll fuck her after and cream pie her as well but no two men touching would be gay and wrong.

 

However something that truly confuses the hell out of me is when basically a man who is like 100% homophobic wants his wife to fuck other men.

 

You ever had that? Ever been invited into a MFM threesome only to find the other man involved is a total homophobic person who is visible uncomfortable even been naked near another man.

 

I think one of the strangest and most awkward threesomes I ever had was with one these guys, some guy with super strong homophobic tendencies inviting another man in bed to fuck his wife, then spending the entire night acting funny and making people feel pressured because he thinks been naked near another man is gay.

 

Just so strange.

[glovett77 15]

Sometimes I do now. My wife is not really into sex anymore after the change. Allot more to life for both of us to enjoy together.  
But, I am still aroused pretty easily. Long since gave up prejudicial categories. So I figured out pretty easily I was bisexual because I liked watching porn films with mmf and ffmm, and everything else.

Various times had chances to go at it in a 3 way with guys as i get really horny from reading stories and watching porn and would go to "spas" that had bisexual also on the monitors and sit and openly masturbate in front of guys. Anyway, invited to do a 3 way but was smart enough to not get in a situation where I could pick up something (looking back well.....), but watch then go at it and it kinda turned me off. Years later, watching 2 guys do one guy when they are fit is a turn on only if I am really horny and watching traditional porn, bi porn etc. Finally, my favorite fantasy is still a well endowed lady boss who sits at my head while her husband fucks me (ouch) or while she sits on my face. Then when he gets ready to cum he pulls the condom off and comes up to the head and forces it in my mouth while I have my hands on her breast. Or after I have made her cum.
I have other fantasies that are mmf but also ffm where the peg me. Still would enjoy making a women orgasm in many different ways I Was very good at it being way overly sex driven. Too chatty for sure, but if reading any non-abusive sex is a turn on for others like me I guess it is okay to write here. If I get black listed or something I will know why, lol. 
 

[Jbhorny 16]

My wife and I have started really opening up about our sexuality. Turns out after 20 years we’re both freaks who can get into some kinky stuff. I have always enjoyed when she licks or fingers my ass but when she put the strap on on her and I watch her facial expression as she slid that dildo into my ass it made me want it even more. She sometimes cums just by watching a buttplug pop into my tight hole.  We are actually looking for another couple who is willing to fuck my ass while she eats the wife’s pussy. Extremely Kinky. I’m not the guy who gets turned gay but being fucked by another mans cock until he pulls out to blow his load in my wife’s mouth makes us both quiver with pleasure

[Idahocouple6969 294]

On 10/12/2019 at 9:41 PM, padoc said:

And it has absolutely NOTHING to do with bacon….right?

I suppose it depends on what the bacon is wrapped around....

 

[cplnluv1 871]

Not a turn on for me and she agrees with me. I get that some enjoy watching and participating, it is not in our repertoire. I see others have mentioned that two women is much more acceptable, for us too, and I can’t say why one is and one isn’t. If two men want to get it on, let them. It does nothing for us. 

[JessicaJamison 861]

Watching my husband suck a dick makes me wet as fuck.  Never seen him fuck a guy.

[discreetplay 235]

3 hours ago, JessicaJamison said:

Watching my husband suck a dick makes me wet as fuck.  Never seen him fuck a guy.

I'm looking to watch the Mr get blown and blow another guy. He's on the fence but willing to try it for me. I'm not sure penetration by him or of him is on the table.

 

We've found that some men are afraid of any touching between the males, while others are ok. I don't really understand the adamant 'no touching, even incidental contact' stance from some guys. Our position is that if we're all naked, interacting...whatever. Sure, giving oral/getting oral requires intent to do it, but when naked bodies are close together, sometimes parts touch. I remember when the Mr reached out, grabbed another guy's cock and guided it into me. It was a shock because it was the first time I've seen him touch another guy. Afterward, in our rehash, it was the first time he's ever touched another cock and said it was strange. But he really wanted the guy to do me so he led him over. He didn't think anything of it when he did it, and doesn't think anything of it now. 

[JessicaJamison 861]

5 minutes ago, discreetplay said:

I'm looking to watch the Mr get blown and blow another guy. He's on the fence but willing to try it for me. I'm not sure penetration by him or of him is on the table.

 

We've found that some men are afraid of any touching between the males, while others are ok. I don't really understand the adamant 'no touching, even incidental contact' stance from some guys. Our position is that if we're all naked, interacting...whatever. Sure, giving oral/getting oral requires intent to do it, but when naked bodies are close together, sometimes parts touch. I remember when the Mr reached out, grabbed another guy's cock and guided it into me. It was a shock because it was the first time I've seen him touch another guy. Afterward, in our rehash, it was the first time he's ever touched another cock and said it was strange. But he really wanted the guy to do me so he led him over. He didn't think anything of it when he did it, and doesn't think anything of it now. 

First time my husband sucked a dick he was sitting naked on the couch and I straddled him and started fucking and kissing him.  His friend came out and walked right up to us hard as a rock and jokingly tried to insert his dick in between our kiss.  I grabbed his dick and swallowed it.  When I pulled it out I said, "sorry babe did you want some?" And I offered it, and he put the tip in his mouth then kissed me and then put it between out lips so we were each on one side of his dick.  Our friend was in heaven and shot quick.  Then later that night our friend and I returned the favor.  No penetration but dicks were sucked.  I thought it was so hot.