No oral sex in this lifestyle?

[TnA83 309]

On 10/9/2019 at 9:08 PM, shy_couple said:

We are a soft swap couple only so would be a deal breaker for us.

We haven't gotten even that far yet, so it would be fine with a "watch only" couple.  Although I would still find it exciting to watch others have oral.

[Numex 2,415]

11 hours ago, ROCKlandCpl said:

Only half can cum? That’s horrible.

Yeah, they want oral at the end.  Perhaps I'm misinterpreting the situation; could be multi-orgasmic and want a final O, or just prefer finishing that way.  In addition to my limited past sex partners, it is consistently what I experience and observe with a couple of women in our current group regardless of the guy, so it isn't just me and my dick.

 

My wife, who easily cums from regular intercourse prefers her oral as foreplay, but will routinely want someone to go down on her afterwards as well. 

Edited August 9, 2021 by Numex

[couplers 4,638]

3 hours ago, Numex said:

My wife, who easily cums from regular intercourse prefers her oral as foreplay, but will routinely want someone to go down on her afterwards as well. 

Me too.  Just because I want more doesn't mean that I didn't orgasm.

[J&Wu 408]

I happen to like giving oral sex but it is good to ask especially with a new partner, same for passing from oral to penetration. Personally I am happy to be groped and more by either sex, they don't have to ask, although I will back out if I approach climax and I don't know how they feel about me cumming in or on them.

[Sophy 569]

 No oral sex will be a deal-breaker for us, we enjoy both giving and receiving oral sex, our sexual encounters always involve lots of oral sex and fluids exchange.

Bringing someone to orgasm with your mouth either man or woman is a huge turn-on for me.

[travelingprofessional 47]

I don't think a full swap couple where the wife doesn't do any oral would be a deal breaker. My experience is that about half of women are so bad at it that you don't want it anyway. There have been a few couples where I stopped the other wife after 30 seconds because it was so lousy (painful even). Those encounters...I was happy to watch my SO than engage with the other wife.

[kristence 0]

There are people who like oral sex more than usual.

[Stanislas 2]

I used to underestimate oral sex because I didn't enjoy it much. But I once dated a girl from Japan. She gave amazing blowjobs that made me ejaculate within 3 minutes.

[Stanislas 2]

10 hours ago, Stanislas said:

I used to underestimate oral sex because I didn't enjoy it much. But I once dated a girl from Japan. She gave amazing blowjobs that made me ejaculate within 3 minutes.

She did a lot of research on the internet, and now she gives blowjobs excellently. Unfortunately, we broke up with her, and no one else has ever given me a blowjob like her. I don't have girlfriends, so sometimes I watch porn here https://vidsofcams.com. I like to watch couples having sex in real-time.

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On 12/6/2019 at 5:49 AM, Kimasianwife said:

 

I was raised Catholic also and know what u mean... The sensation was wonderful. The exact thought that another man put his DNA in me

It is also the reason that I focus more on a guy's testicles than his penis.  Testicles are the source of a man's masculinity and all those little swimmers he is putting in me.  People say someone has "ball" not "dick."  I find a scrotum where I can see his balls distinctly a definite turn on, more than a guy who has a scrotum that looks like half a tennis ball.

[TricianMike 772]

I truly enjoy giving blow jobs, sucking cock and all that goes with it. Michael knows I enjoy it and he loves seeing me enjoying myself. A blow job is more than taking a dick in your mouth, it’s licking, sucking, having the dick in and out, guys sometimes say they are mouth fucking. I will use my mouth all around the dick, all around the balls, some men never had their balls licked or taken in a mouth. I never thought of the ball as the originator of sperm, it’s part of the package. Maybe some women are like me enjoying bringing a man to cumming with oral. 
Not every man we meet will give back to me, I don’t push it. I know before meeting a man I make sure I am very clean and fresh and even then men won’t do it. If they do almost every one of them will make me orgasm and what man doesn’t enjoy pleasing a woman. 

[Numex 2,415]

On 9/29/2022 at 3:11 PM, TricianMike said:

Not every man we meet will give back to me, I don’t push it.

As a guy I have had sex with women where the foreplay was me performing oral on her and never expecting or getting a blowjob in return.  Same with fucking first then going down on her; I love it.

 

On 9/29/2022 at 3:11 PM, TricianMike said:

If they do almost every one of them will make me orgasm and what man doesn’t enjoy pleasing a woman.

I do it because I find it extremely psychologically satisfying for a woman to let me put my mouth on her pussy, my tongue on her clit and bring her to orgasm.  Truly, it is an honor.

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3 hours ago, Numex said:

I do it because I find it extremely psychologically satisfying for a woman to let me put my mouth on her pussy, my tongue on her clit and bring her to orgasm. 

As a woman with a strong Lesbian side, I concur.