First time meet and greet

[Idahocouple6969 294]

I wanted to put this out there for newbies. We went to our first last night. Nervous, scared, husband had sweaty palms on the drive there. Was it going to be like a middle school dance? Would anyone even talk to us? Were the popular kids going to ignore us?

A little bit about us, married couple 30 plus years. I'm a BBW with some body image issues. Husband can shy.

The meet and greet was held at a vanilla bar that had a separate bar upstairs with a live band. The turn out was large. We started mixing and mingling early before the band started. I went from table to table and introduced ourselves. It was wonderful. Everyone was nice and welcoming. Found some interesting people. No one was pushy.

Everything I have read, lurked and researched on this board really helped us put ourselves out there. The COOL girls even asked me to dance with them. I felt SO sexy. There were some very beautiful women and men and average people. We had looked up some of the attendees on sls before hand. Let me tell don't let pictures be the whole way to judge couples. I found all were WAY more attractive in person.

We did not hook up to play this first time but made some good connections. Emails exchanged already this morning from three different couples. And got invited to a large post Halloween house party.

By the time we were ready to leave there was a lot of non vanilla contact and deep kisses all around. Husband could hardly contain his hard on on the drive home after watching me make out with three women and their husband's. I liked watching him kissing too. Luckily this was far enough from our little town we did not feel discretion was compromised.

So for being a newbie our first meet and greet was a very good experience. Hope this will help any others having those nervous feelings.

[Idahocouple6969 294]

Next week I will let you know about our newbie experience of going to a club out of state.

Eyes wide open!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

...It was wonderful. Everyone was nice and welcoming. Found some interesting people. No one was pushy...

Wonderful!

 

I firmly believe that meet-n-greet events are a good way for people to get a start. Do let us know about your first visit to a club.

[ViSexual 1,008]

One of the experiences we had, that I enjoyed as much as anything we did, was a vanilla meet and greet at a Holiday Inn lounge. Well, I say vanilla but, like yours, there was a lot of making out. And, also like yours, we made a great contact for a lot of fun on another occasion.

[Idahocouple6969 294]

ViSexual yes to good experiences. Being new and cruising the web sites has been daunting. Being of an age I'm not as comfortable with meeting people on line as some of the younger people. I like face to face. Is this a generational thing?

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Congrats! Let us know what happens next...

[Idahocouple6969 294]

We went to the out of state club trip, it was amazing. This was a large club over 10,000 sq ft. Velvet Rope in Portland OR. First night was a Friday. They had speed dateing. Good way to break the ice for newbies like us. We ended up with our first MFM with a very nice gentleman. Only problem was I went to the first private room I found it was very small and ended up leaving the door open. Actually turned into a turn on for us having people walk by and watch.

Later found the couples only area huge bed with lots of other beds and others playing. We played next to another couple with touching between us women. Wow!

Now the second night was a bit overwhelming it was kink night. A lot bigger crowd. Dungeons everywhere. Flogging done to music, very intricate rope bondage, hot cupping and I did a tasting with a violet wand with a little bit of electricity running through me while a woman stroked me lightly.., shoulders, face, hair upper breasts and thighs. What a sensation and I hadn't even had a drink yet.

I did get to have one fantasy I want to give my hubby a blow job in public and offer him to another woman. Two women took me up on it. Boy was he thrilled.

There was sex everywhere. We mostly wore each other out. About the time we were ready to relax in a hot tub and leave we were invited to join another couple and a trans woman. Boobs, pussy, cocks mouths everywhere blew out minds. To bad we didn't have more time as it was closing time.

I think we have lost our shyness. Just talking about the experiences has us all over each other. We are in our late 50s feeling like teenagers with new toys.

This weekend heading to a Halloween house party. Can't wait as of many people there we have been chatting with on sls.

From wallflowers to wild sex people in a month. Life is Grand.

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

Congratulations Idahocouple6969!