Jack and Jill Parties

[Frank&Sera 28]

We got invited to a "Jack and Jill" party, this was years ago. It was in a couple's apartment in lower Manhattan, they were older, maybe mid-60s, and super cool. They would invite couples and singles over, it was a masturbation party. There was some light touching allowed, but it was really just people getting themselves off.

We went because the husband told me that there was absolutely no pressure to join. Sure enough, we got there and there was a bunch of people watching (get this) a black and white TV in the living room (this was mid-90s). The whole room was full of marijuana smoke.

A large BBW came out naked and sat on the couch, spread her legs and started working on herself. People around her were still chatting but slowly, the conversations died as they turned their attention to her. We really admired how brave she was. A bunch of strangers were sitting around dressed and she just came out and bared absolutely everything. Fantastic.

Well, that broke the ice, didn't it? Pretty soon, everyone was touching themselves. I ended up sitting with this old hippie chick, long grey hair, great tits, we sat across from each other and just played with ourselves until we came. Had a small audience. Meanwhile the wife got off with the BBW while a few others joined in.

It was great fun, a lot of people of different ages, different nationalities, body types. Completely safe and non-judgmental. We never went back and we regret it, had a great time.

Anyone else ever been to one of these parties?

 

 

 

 

the action would be spread out all over their living room, bedroom, kitchen LOL

[ViSexual 1,008]

There's one in Orlando that my wife and I thought about going to years ago. It's Club Relate. If I recall, they have parties both in Orlando and Tampa.

[PeterJ 962]

There's one in Orlando that my wife and I thought about going to years ago. It's Club Relate. If I recall, they have parties both in Orlando and Tampa.

 

I have mentioned Club Relate previously in threads on this board. For more than a decade I have regularly attended several Club Relate parties a year and enjoyed myself at every one of them. (It’s a bit of a commitment for me because I live in New York and for each party I attend I need to fly to Central Florida, book a hotel room for at least two nights and rent a car.) For me, Club Relate has been an important part of my engagement with the lifestyle.

 

And not because masturbation is a particularly important aspect of my sex life. It’s important to note that while jacking & jilling is one feature of these events, it’s far from the sole activity that takes place – actually individuals masturbating as a show for others is only a small part. Perhaps when Tom & Lynda Gayle started out more than 20 years ago self-pleasure was a more prominent aspect, but in my experience the range of activities is far broader. Whatever your lifestyle interests I probably participated or at least observed most of them at one or more of the parties I attended over the past decade. Each party tends to have a different mix of attendees – regulars who been coming for years, people such as me who come from a distance – including quite a few from overseas who are in central Florida on vacation – and attend only a few parties a year, and newcomers – and that seems to lead organically to emphasis on different activities. But in general, there is group erotic massage, couples both playing with each other and with other couples, threesomes, foursomes & puppy piles, playing with toys, light BDSM and – as advertised – masturbation as exhibitionistic and voyeuristic activity.

 

The parties take place Saturday evenings (7:00 p.m. until about midnight or a bit after) in suites at upscale hotels in business parks outside Tampa and Orlando, one in each location each month. Typically it’s a two-bedroom and living-room suite, but if a sufficiently large number of people have signed up for a party a third connected bedroom is added. Typical attendance ranges from 25 to 30 individuals, perhaps skewing older, but ranging in age from their 30s through 70s, comprised of couples, single women and single men. You need to confirm your attendance several days in advance and if you’ve not attended a Club Relate party previously, attend an orientation with Lynda Gayle late in the afternoon prior to the party. The evening begins with a social hour that includes first-name only introductions and general or specific recitations of what each individual or couple would like to experience over the course of the evening.

 

I wouldn’t say that the parties are “curated” but every aspect is well looked after by the organizers. Participants all behave respectfully and I’ve never seen and on toward incident. (Otherwise, I can’t imagine this going on successfully for two decades.)

 

Club Relate isn’t for everyone. If you are looking to connect with a single playmate or a couple and enjoy private sex, that’s not going to happen at one of these parties. While they are spacious, there are only two or three bedrooms and a maximum of six queen or king beds. (I’m not sure I’ve ever seen a single couple unaccompanied on a bed unless it was quite late and most of the attendees have already departed.) You can always go back to the living room or another one of the bedrooms, but if you are uncomfortable occasionally seeing transsexuals (both pre-and post op) playing, light BDSM (spanking, paddling and the like) or lesbian and bi & gay male activities, Club Relate probably isn’t your cup of tea.

 

On the other hand, if you view human sexuality as a vast smorgasbord of pleasure, you might want to check out clubrelate.net and get in touch with Lynda Gayle. (There is contact information on the website or you can PM me.)

[David3State 24]

I enjoy masturbation as part of my sex life (and being single it is about half of my sex life!). WOuld love to find such a party in the DC-Maryland-Virginia area.

[JessicaJamison 864]

As an exotic dancer I used to Jill off on a stage in front of a couple hundred honey guys every night.  Which is kinda the same lol. 

[Nina Cherry 0]

Hi im trying to find a swingers club in attached a couple of years ago in lower Manhattan by the World trade center..

[couplers 4,729]

On 11/23/2020 at 4:00 PM, JessicaJamison said:

As an exotic dancer I used to Jill off on a stage in front of a couple hundred honey guys every night. 

I'm curious, how did those Os feel for you? 

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,428]

This is definitely not what I thought a Jack and Jill party was!

[Half MT 244]

When I saw Jack and Jill my thought it was a fundraiser. To me it’s a party to raise money for future bride and grooms, like before a bachelorette party. 
I have plenty to learn. 

[AdamGunn2 420]

Okay, I have to ask the question: What is it about a Jack & Jill party that is appealing? (I'm not being judgmental here, just curious.)

 

I've been to plenty of parties, and to me the height is having foreplay or sex with another person. I can masturbate in my own home, don't need anybody to help me with that. But if I'm with a bunch of other people, I want to touch and be touched.

 

Can someone please explain this to me?