Casual Incidential Meeting

[StartingOver60 58]

I am interested if anyone has arranged an accidentional seemingly unintentional meeting at a casual location to potentially initiate a threesum. I realize there are likely a number of opinions on this type of approach but of course it would be a situation where no one was pressured. I am interested in feed back as to if this was initated by anyone and find what the outcome was. This thinking is well intended and simply placing someone in a position to freely make a decision to accept or decline the invitation. Feedback Welcome.......Thanks

[Jane1902 476]

I understand the well intentioned thinking but ultimately someone is being left out of the loop and eventually the truth will come out. It is dishonest and may lead to more problems. I think a better approach would be to agree to meet to see if there is any interest in future play but be clear it’s not going to happen at the first meet.

[StartingOver60 58]

Thanks for your input. Not being open is the issue I have even if it worked out. Just want some feed back . Thank you

[padoc 1,703]

Jane is absolutely right. It sounds like you're thinking about ambushing your wife with something and that is almost NEVER a good idea! A guy that's hit 60 ought to have learned that by now.

[enhancer 1,585]

If you are talking about setting up a meeting with someone else wIthout your wife knowing about it in the hopes that it will turn into more then I would say no don’t do it!

 

If you are not 100 percent on the same page with each other and do not communicate openly about lifestyle choices with each other then you are not ready to enter the lifestyle.

 

Trying to trick someone into doing something never goes well and is a good way to never have them trust you again. Not to mention you have no way of knowing if the person on the other end is going to play along with it the way you want them to regardless of what they tell you before hand.

[shy_couple 459]

Couldn’t agree more with other posters.

 

This is trickery and receipt. To pull that on someone you love and respect can damage that lover , respect, and most of all trust.

 

Better to be honest and have an open discussion that try to pull one over in her in order to satisfy a fantasy of carnal need and get found out.

 

Even with all of that being said, I’m sure it has happened in the past and will continue to happen with mixed results.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

If you can't be open and honest with your spouse about this, then it will NEVER work out. Try talking with her instead...she might not reject the idea, you don't know until you talk. Surprises, on the other hand, usually don't work out. Try honesty...

[Anon321 523]

Sounds like you're trying to trick her. I may invite a couple of friends over to watch the football game which might lead to my GF drinking a bit and putting on a half time show with them but I don't do it to trick her into anything.

[1hotminute 72]

Maybe some more details are needed for this post. Who is unintentionally being propositioned with the threesome? I’m not against it if everyone in the potential three way is experienced and enjoys them.

[Guest]

Yeah I'd not try to trick anyone