Meet and greet outfit

[Moonstar 15]

So...

we are going to a meet and greet that is held at a hotel bar. It is going to be in late December, so I'm guessing pretty cold. Does the female need to wear a cocktail dress or can I wear jeans with heels and a cute low cut blouse? I don't want to be underdressed as that's something I'm always concerned with.

[padoc 1,701]

I think it depends on the venue and if there is a theme.

[bbarnsworth 2,636]

A principal that always seems to work; when in doubt, dress more than you think you will need. Dressing less will be embarrassing. At worst, overdressing is a point of conversation.

[Numex 2,371]

We've met with play partners during cold weather. For me at least, taking off all those clothes can be exciting.

[cplnuswing 4,712]

Since it's off premise, at least the first time until you get a feel how people dress, I'd probably lean more toward the safe side, so scaled back from what you might wear to an on-premise club. The jeans might be a bit too scaled back for a female though, or on the other hand, may fit right in depending on the venue, usual crowd, and what they wear to those events. I think a cocktail dress would certainly be ok, but maybe pick one that is sort of in between dressy and casual, and then you won't feel out of place either way.

 

Disclaimer - guy here giving female fashion advice, so caveat emptor

[Moonstar 15]

It’s def of premise and at a hotels bar so i guess I’ll do the cocktail dress. But not overly sexy? I tend to overthink so I’m now wondering should it be appropriate knee length (like in the office) or mini dress ?

[Guest]

I prefer a dress always. I like to be accessible if there is some fooling around and I like to give a peek if I'm attracted to someone.

[Numex 2,371]

I prefer a dress always. I like to be accessible if there is some fooling around and I like to give a peek if I'm attracted to someone.]

 

I like the way you think!