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What do you bring to the club?

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RockNCpl    71

RockNCpl
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Newbies looking for guidance.

 

We have our first club adventure planned for this weekend, first LS overall acctually, and we are curious as to what we should bring.

 

Ladies, do you wear one thing to the party for socializing and then change into something more provocative?

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adamgunn    1,460

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My wife likes to come in a top that shows her attributes, perhaps button down so she can play with the buttons and reveal more cleavage as appropriate. And yes, she might change into lingerie after about an hour at the club.

 

Other than that, it's condoms, lube, etc.

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NC_Seniors    518

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In addition to the obvious “adult” items that Adam mentioned, take a toothbrush/toothpaste (or at least breath mints) and some wet wipes. Your wife will also want a comb/brush brush and lipstick.

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cplnuswing    4,713

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The clubs we've been too, we didn't change into anything since they weren't really set up like that. Well, unless you count changing into a towel to go in the no street clothes allowed back room area ;)

 

We go pretty light. Condoms, wet wipes, breath mints, and whatever she has in a small purse in terms of makeup, etc. that she always has with her.

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It depends upon the club. For example, couples at Trapeze in FLL come in to the club dressed in full sexy mode (some would say "look at me mode") until they go to the play area where towels or naked is the rule. At TPA in northern MD and TJ's near Harrisburg, women tend to bring at least one if not more outfits. The ladies room of both places have proven to be a LOT of fun for Mrs Doc. As for supplies, we bring condoms, breath spray, a small lube, a small bag of wipes and a leopard print raincoat that Mrs Doc wears for the drive back to the hotel since it's always harder to get her dressed than undressed! That is part of why I really like being married to her!!

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At Trapeze (on premise) I wear something accessible so I can fool around at the bar and flirt with men. And when we go to the play area, like above, naked. I do wear heels. I have stepped in someones sex mess before and some men like them. I just use the towels provided and wash up if I get messy.

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