How did you begin, soft or full, what were initial discussions?

[hotinphx 34]

We're a soft swing couple for many years. Probably like so many, after sex got a bit one dimensional, we started chatting about spicing things up. I found I really enjoyed hearing about her past sexual experiences before we met. Loved hearing all the juicy details. We both loved massages, but she normally got them from females. A friend of hers recommended a guy she said was great. We arranged for him to come to our house. I asked if I could watch, he said sure, not a problem. He gave a really good massage, not sexual at all. But while I was watching and she was face down with sheet over her ass, I noticed the sides of her pert little breasts were very visible to him. I had a strange feeling, a bit jealous, but also very turned on by the thought of this stranger seeing the sides of her breasts. We chatted about it after he left and I admitted I was turned on. She also said it was fun. We decided to explore our new found curiosity. I found a guy that gave sensual massages and set one up. We never looked back. Let us know if you want to hear the details of her first erotic massage.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

When the subject of swinging first came up, it was just to visit a swingers club together, nothing more. That discussion then moved into IF on the tiny chance we actually did do something then it would be soft swap, which then evolved into well, if we're going to do soft, might as well be open to doing full too. All of that took place in the couple of weeks before the club visit, and we didn't do anything that visit other than dance with some others and a little bit of kissing. That little bit of stepping across the line though was enough to make our heads swim, and we knew we wanted to take it further and see where things went. It was about a month after that we had our first full swap.

 

Sure we want to heat the details of her first erotic massage! Maybe post it in the Experiences forum, or if it's long and detailed enough , even post it in the Stories section.

[Thegreyarea 100]

We began with an mfm. We were in Vegas, found a guy on hot dates on sls. Got back from Vegas and met a couple and had our first soft swap. A few weeks later we had our first full swap. Haven’t looked back.

[Guest]

We, too, began with MFM. That first one just kind of happened. The male half of a couple we had met in Key West was in town for business and we met at his hotel bar. The conversation moved to swinging, he and his wife had invited us to join them previously but we said no. I blurted out that I would gladly do MFM and bingo, he and my husband (then just bf) both jumped on the idea and in no time, we were up in his hotel room. I just loved it, more than I ever imagined and, two weeks later, started flirting back with a guy that flirted with me at the bar, husband on the other side of me, and once again, back to the hotel room. That kind of became my standard practice then; it has become known as flirting, flauting and f____g.

[adamgunn 1,461]

We started as a full swap couple in foursomes - that didn't last long! Before a month was up we were invited into a small orgy (four couples, one single girl,) and then moved onto MFMs, the rare solo, and anything else that seemed interesting at the moment.

 

We talked about it for three years before actually doing anything, so we were comfortable with the full swap scenario.

[Numex 2,459]

... I found I really enjoyed hearing about her past sexual experiences before we met. .

That's how we started.

We were both very open to the other about our past lovers, although neither of us had done anything beyond regular sex. We both enjoyed telling and hearing, especially who was good and what they did.

 

Eventually I just asked my wife if she would like to fuck one of her favorites again. She said, "Sure," dated and fucked two of them alone (separately), then we did MFMs with them, and now swap with a closed group of couples.

[hotinphx 34]

Thanks everyone for the responses, we love to read about other folks adventures as well as share ours. After the massage where I got turned on because the massage guy could see the sides of her breasts, we talked about setting up a more sensual massage for her.

 

I looked on the internet and found a guy that did sensual massage. I arranged a time and on the way there, I told her it was going to be a sensual massage. She asked what that meant and I said I'm not sure. When we got there he took us into the massage room. I asked him what exactly was a sensual massage and he said it depended on what we wanted. He said the best thing was for everyone to be completely honest. I asked what he normally did. He said the woman was usually totally naked and he did a total body massage and sometimes it resulted in an orgasm. He said he would give us a few minutes to think about it and get ready. He left the room and we looked at each other. We had been naked in a hot tub with other couples many times but had never done anything like this. She seemed a bit nervous but we agreed to see what happened and stop it if we felt uncomfortable.

 

She took her clothes off and got on the table with a towel. I opened the door and he came in dressed in little gym shorts and a work out shirt. He pulled the towel down slightly and started to massage her neck and shoulders. I could tell he was experienced. She started to relax. He then went to her feet and spent time on her toes and worked his way up her legs one at a time. He would get close to her ass but never touch it. Then he moved to her side and started really working her thighs. As he would pull his hands from inside her thigh to outside, the towel would rise and her pretty red pussy would be exposed a bit. I was at the foot of the table watching. He kind of looked at me to see if everything was okay. I didn't object and he switched to the other side. This time he exaggerated his movements and her ass and pussy were more exposed. I think she knew at this point that he was getting a pretty good look. He then asked if we still needed the towel. I said it was up to her. She figured what the hell, he already had a pretty good look and said take it away. Off went the towel, and there was my wife, face down, naked in front of this guy. He very obviously went to the foot of the table and took her feet and spread them apart. Her pussy was fairly exposed.

 

He started up her leg again, this time continuing all the way and giving her ass a good work out. He repeated the other leg. Then he did something that totally shocked me. He grabbed her left leg, pulled it up so her knee was on the table and her ass was sticking up. Her pussy was not only exposed, but slightly open. He then stuck his fingers in his crème container and got a dollap of creme and in a quick motion put the gob of the stuff directly on her clit. I think my mouth was open, but I/we didn't stop him. He then proceeded to work her pussy for about 15 minutes. I moved to the head of the table to make sure she was okay. She grabbed my hands and just squeezed. He then told her it was time to turn over. Now my wife was fully exposed lying on her back with her pretty breasts and red hair in the candle light. He worked on her breasts for awhile and then got on the table between her legs and was working on her pussy some more. I bent over to say something to her and when I looked up, he had his head buried in her pussy. He looked up at me and asked, is this okay. It was a bit late to object so he continued. She was getting really hot, and he told me I should finish her.

 

He decided he should leave the room and we finished on our own. On the way home we would look at each other and start laughing, neither one of us believing what we just did. But we didn't regret it and used it to get us going for months. That was the start of our "soft swinging" experiences. Hope you enjoyed.

[findinganswers 369]

We started with friends who were already swingers. My wife brought up the subject which was a plan her and her friend talked about. We did have full sex and my wife received oral from her friend. We have since that day have had more experiences with more people.

[EastInWest 1,524]

We started with friends who we found out were "experimenting" and ended up doing soft swap with them and the couple they knew.

 

That lasted about 24 hours. We figured out immediately we had fun and did full swap with them (alone) the next night before we left town.

[Bluespruce1 707]

We jumped right in. We had played a bit with a friend but the real

swinging didn’t start until we were at a club for the first time. We had no idea what to expect. We were introduced to a lot of couples and had a blast. A super hot couple

invited us to a room and we really didn’t know what to expect. They started making out so we followed. I got bold and dropped to my knees and started sucking my hubbies cock in front of them. I had never had anyone watch before so it was a rush. They watched and her husband took off her top and bra and massaged her tits. She asked if she could help so we both sucked my husbands cock. We laid him on the bed and got him completely naked and focused on him. While I was bent over sucking him, I felt her husbands hands in my waist from behind. He caressed my ass and slid his hand up my skirt wear he found my wet pussy - i had lost my panties earlier! We continued giving my husband oral and I felt him positioning me to receive him. I leaned forward like a bitch in heat and he slid his cock inside me. The adrenaline was incredible. As he started on me. She got on top of my husband and guided his cock inside her as she faced me. We kissed and I went down on her while she rode him and just like that - it was full swap time. Didn’t really plan it or expect it - it just happened. Still one

if our best experiences.

[Playman64 205]

We jumped right in. We had played a bit with a friend but the real

swinging didn’t start until we were at a club for the first time. We had no idea what to expect. We were introduced to a lot of couples and had a blast. A super hot couple

invited us to a room and we really didn’t know what to expect. They started making out so we followed. I got bold and dropped to my knees and started sucking my hubbies cock in front of them. I had never had anyone watch before so it was a rush. They watched and her husband took off her top and bra and massaged her tits. She asked if she could help so we both sucked my husbands cock. We laid him on the bed and got him completely naked and focused on him. While I was bent over sucking him, I felt her husbands hands in my waist from behind. He caressed my ass and slid his hand up my skirt wear he found my wet pussy - i had lost my panties earlier! We continued giving my husband oral and I felt him positioning me to receive him. I leaned forward like a bitch in heat and he slid his cock inside me. The adrenaline was incredible. As he started on me. She got on top of my husband and guided his cock inside her as she faced me. We kissed and I went down on her while she rode him and just like that - it was full swap time. Didn’t really plan it or expect it - it just happened. Still one

if our best experiences.

 

Very hot.

[hotinphx 34]

thanks for posting, very hot and loved the details. would love to hear more