Gangbang newby help

[Board1 15]

Hello everyone!

 

This is my first post, Hope everyone is having a great New Year.

 

I have a huge fantasy of having my girl gangbanged or at least a threesome.

 

The though of many men coming in her or triple penetrating her while she satisfies all of us blows my mind. It makes me feel she is super powerful and In control of us. She has told me her biggest fantasy is to be with more then one man, I think she means only me and one other man at the same time. The thing is she said it’s only a fantasy and she won’t act on it. Is there any advice you all can give to ease her mind and help us both live our our fantasy? I truly love her and this can be a touchy subject, I don’t wanna ruin our great relationship but would love to take it to the next level.

 

How can I approach this topic and also put her at ease and make our fantasy’s come true? I truly love her and don’t wanna hurt our relationship. Any advice is appreciated!

 

Thanks everyone!

[TricianMike 772]

This sounds like another man with a fantasy that is not based in reality. She already told you she would never do it and you already discussed it. My advice is only act on it if she brings it up.

[Anon321 523]

A gangbang can we overwhelming for her and even you. I think starting off with 2 guys would be the best first step. If you're serious about having a gangbang with all of the guys cumming inside of her then it should be extremely well planned out. You need to screen the guys, make sure they are tested, etc. And then when the time comes half of them won't show anyway. It's not worth the hassle in my opinion. It's easier to just bring in a bunch of your buddies or maybe go to a sex club, however you will want them to wear protection either way. You can still have a fun gangbang with condoms especially if she'll let guys cum on her. We always make guys wear condoms in gangbangs but my GF let's them nut on her face, so it's kind of like a gangbang/bukkake and it's very hot.

[Sawman 84]

Gangbangs are tricky to organize, but I learned some things setting up two and attending many more. First you have to find a pool of guys nearby who are interested. Back in the day you could get a couple hundred lookie loos on Craigs List. Other dating sites will have to suffice now. Indicate any age paramenters and set boundaries such as, bring your own towel, protection, any boundaries she has.

 

Next, establish a date, time, and place (hotel) where it will happen. Reserve the room.

 

Extract from those who express interest a telephone number. No number, no party. This will winnow down the number.

 

On the day of, after you get the room call each man and give him the information when to be there. You can have her in the room waiting or arrive after the players arrive. If you have someone you trust who can wait in the room for you or escort her to the room that would help. In one party she arrived and outside the door donned a blindfold—her fantasy.

 

Main rule is to have a guy or two managing things, to watch her back, so to speak.

 

Party on!

[adamgunn 1,460]

Here is my standard, canned answer to this question:

 

I advise you to take the mojoupgrade.com quiz with your SO. You both answer questions independently about your sexual desires, then the site matches what both of you are interested in.

 

Even if your SO answers that s/he is not interested in group sex, this is a wonderful and non-threatening way to begin the discussion.

[Bluespruce1 706]

Our first was at a club. I wasn’t comfortable meeting up with total strangers in a hotel. It was actually very organic. My husband took me to a room with a sex swing and we left the door open. One we got going, we had a small group watching us. One at a time, my husband invited guys to come in. Once four guys were in the room, I asked them to take me. I actually asked them if they would jerk off a bit for me while my husband warmed me up. Then, they took turns with me. The swing was a perfect touch. Now that we have made a lot of friends, it’s pretty easy to put together a familiar group.

[kittyswinger 260]

My suggestion will take some time to happen but safer. Try several mfm first. Then invite the guys who play well and respectful of your gf into your gb plans or ask them to invite someone they know. Listen to their inputs so they will feel part of the plan. That worked well for us.

[njbm 2,871]

Be careful inviting strangers off a website. They can be flakes or worse. I like the idea of going to a club ( some have gb nights). Or lining up MFM men as kittyswinger suggested.

[Anon321 523]

I agree that a club is the best place for a first time gangbang. Some of the clubs by lay down the rules so it can make life easier for you. If you're afraid of someone taking pics or vids, there are clubs that don't allow phones in. If you're worried about a bunch of drunk a-holes getting abusive with your girl, there are clubs that don't serve alcohol.

[Havoc_Tia 27]

This is kind of what started our journey, though nothing has happened yet, we are here and talking about it. The club seems like a good place to start and starting slowly is our plan. Were also talking about just being watched in like a peep show setting to get a feel for it, then moving on to inviting guys in. We both talk about it and help figure it out. So if it's a touchy subject already, the mojo suggestion and more one on one discussion seems like your best bet. She might just not be into it.