What are the rituals for a soft swap?

[NewSw 37]

We want to know all the rites of a soft swap please.

[padoc 1,703]

You will get multiple definitions of soft swap. In our experience it is sexual activity between couples that includes pretty much everything short of penetration.

[Bluespruce1 706]

When we play with a couple who is interested in a soft swap, we like to take the lead. We invite them to watch us together and to touch in any way they would like. I’ll usually start by giving my husband oral - and will invite him to touch my ass or my breasts. Sometimes i’ll take her hand and guide it onto my husbands cock or invite her to join me. If they get undressed, and they always do, I let her take the lead.

[Numex 2,409]

padoc said:

.. it is sexual activity between couples that includes pretty much everything short of penetration.

 

Agreed, with the added caveat that you must establish before you start whether orgasms will be given by the spouse or nonspouse. And it may be different for each one of them, for instance the one couple who were only soft play with us were ok with me doing oral on her to orgasm, and my wife could suck his cock, but not have him cum. That was only for his wife.

 

The line is blurry, you have to agree what the boundaries are with the other couples.

[NewSw 37]

padoc said:

You will get multiple definitions of soft swap. In our experience it is sexual activity between couples that includes pretty much everything short of penetration.

 

We really hope to know more about your experiences on Soft Swap, and find out more ways.

 

 

Numex said:

Agreed, with the added caveat that you must establish before you start whether orgasms will be given by the spouse or nonspouse. And it may be different for each one of them, for instance the one couple who were only soft play with us were ok with me doing oral on her to orgasm, and my wife could suck his cock, but not have him cum. That was only for his wife.

 

nice, you mean, it is possible that one of the partners is in full swap? Wow, I think the other couple takes the lead with us, really exciting,

Are there other things please?

 

We think a soft swap is the real beginnings of most people to a full swap.

[Numex 2,409]

nice, you mean, it is possible that one of the partners is in full swap

Yeah, that's possible. But my point was that they had different rules for each of them, even in a fully soft swap. I ate her pussy and finger fucked her all night to multiple orgasms and she gave me a blowjob and swallowed, no problems with either of them. There was also no problem with him playing with my wife's cunt and ass with anything but his dick, and my wife doing hand stimulation and oral on him but not to orgasm. His wife was the one who had to finish him. Go figure. But we played by their rules and it was ok.

 

My ex-wife and I didn't swing at all, but on a friend's boat his wife took off her top. I encouraged my ex to do the same. She wouldn't, but took off her bottom. BTW, my ex had great tits, so I don't know what the issue was, or maybe that was the issue. Either way, people have their own bizarre limits.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

That is something that needs to be agreed upon in advance between the two couples. Since soft swap can include just about everything short of penetration, everyone needs to have talked about this and set the boundaries before getting together. It can mean as little as same room sex with no cross couple interaction to... well, you can probable see why the boundaries need to be set beforehand.

[NewSw 37]

Either way, people have their own bizarre limits.

 

yes, and this is what makes swinging interesting and attracts a lot. Your experiences are great, dear,

thank you