How Do You Rate Your Sexual Orientation?

[boyfox 26]

Are you? And why?

100-0: Completely heterosexual.

90-10: Mostly heterosexual.

80-20: Heavily heterosexual.

70-30: Mostly straight bisexual.

60-40: Bisexual leaning straight.

50-50: Fully bisexual.

40-60: Bisexual leaning gay.

30-70: Mostly gay bisexual.

20-80: Heavily homosexual.

10-90: Mostly homosexual.

0-100: Completely homosexual.

I will post my rating soon.

[KAZUALCPLE 33]

Am I? Perhaps. I'd guess I'm 70-30: Mostly straight and in a way, bisexual. Not really sure I'd define it as such.

 

And the "why": Although I have no particular romantic inclinations toward men, I do thoroughly enjoy cocks and cum. My favorite fantasies involve sex with women who are coated in warm slippery cum (like in those bukkake videos) from multiple men or to have a man cum in my mouth.

 

I'm not sure whether that even qualifies as bisexual or just having a cock and cum fetish. Is it possible to have such a fetish without being bi? I have no idea. Regardless, I've always had an affinity for cocks and large quantities of cum.

[boyfox 26]

I want to share my "why" first. At a younger age, I didn't know if I bisexual or gay? I met a sex therapist and he suggested to go meet men and let my passions decide. I enjoyed, sex with women but I didn't have a desire to give oral to a woman. From my first date, emotional, romantic and sexual attractions to males soared. Since then I have enjoyed many emotional gay relationships with males with the sex being the best, with a deeper committed feeling with males.

 

How would I rate myself? I would say I'm a bit fluid, between 10-90: Mostly homosexual to meet a bisexual couple. With most of the time being: 0-100: Completely homosexual.

 

My favorite scenes with a couple are the wife watching her husband and me in a sex show while she cheers us on and captures our hot action of him in me in 69 while she jacks our hard cock, flooding each other's mouth with our hot cum or she licks my shaved balls as I fuck her husband, cumming in his ass. And if she likes to join in with her strap-on!

[Tjohn27 18]

I would say 80-20, but very bi-curious. I would like to find someone to help show me the ropes.

[Crossbones74 19]

I'm extremely bi-curious. I'd love to suck some cock.

[SCGuy9111 2]

On 8/28/2018 at 1:06 PM, KAZUALCPLE said:

I'm not sure whether that even qualifies as bisexual or just having a cock and cum fetish. Is it possible to have such a fetish without being bi? I have no idea. Regardless, I've always had an affinity for cocks and large quantities of cum.

Who cares what they label it - it's just a damn good time! 

[SCGuy9111 2]

I'd say I am 70-30 I guess. 

[J&Wu 408]

I do like the Ladies but occasionally a cock catches my eye and if the guy is interested we'll get acquainted and maybe more. 

[couplers 4,614]

I started out 100% straight, but now I would say that I am 60% Lesbian, 50% hetero.  (I know what that adds up to, but that's the point.)  From the strictly sexual standpoint I like men and women equally, but from the romantic, emotional aspect Clair, Lora, and I are much closer to each other than to the men.

[Numex 2,409]

I'm 90/10.  I've done gay acts (oral and anal both ways) several times to satisfy the wives.  Didn't mind, but not really fun for me or the other guys. So not again without good reason, like a woman asking. 

[lovefest04 697]

70/30 here.

 

Does that mean I still got a passing grade!!!

[Anon321 521]

I would say 100% heterosexual although people might say that can't be because I've been involved in countless MFM threesomes and a few gangbangs but that's how I would rate myself.

[Numex 2,409]

7 hours ago, Anon321 said:

I would say 100% heterosexual although people might say that can't be because I've been involved in countless MFM threesomes and a few gangbangs but that's how I would rate myself.

It's my belief that MFMs can be 100% hetero for the guys.  At least that is the way I've always thought of it.  I like seeing him do things to the woman we are playing with (my wife included), but have no interest in touching him.

[Anon321 521]

13 hours ago, Numex said:

It's my belief that MFMs can be 100% hetero for the guys.  At least that is the way I've always thought of it.  I like seeing him do things to the woman we are playing with (my wife included), but have no interest in touching him.

I agree I just don't know if everyone else would agree.  I have never played with a guy or purposefully touched them.  The only reason I enjoy them in the MFM is the kinkiness and visual aspect of it.  But I have zero sexual desire to do anything with another guy.

[SunknShyp 3]

Anyone else?? Or am I alone here?? 

I am into Pleasure...period. If it is pleasurable I'm all for it. I have no urges, desires, wonders, fantasies, attraction, or anything else of having a relationship, cuddling, kissing, holding hands or any of that with a man. But if in the moment your good enough where my body signals my mind to where it arouses me or vise versa then let's roll with it if not then I'm 100% cool with that too. We have met couples and single men and we've exchanged head, hand jobs, frottage, and I mean like I said if it feels good then I'm down for it... So when I hear the term(s) gay or lesbian or bi I think attraction, lustrous, connection, relationship with someone of the same sex. Its always associated with a relationship or attractions to someone, or feelings/actions of intimacy.  

Anyone else get where I'm coming from?? 

[NerdsAreFun 226]

7 hours ago, SunknShyp said:

Anyone else?? Or am I alone here?? 

I am into Pleasure...period. If it is pleasurable I'm all for it. I have no urges, desires, wonders, fantasies, attraction, or anything else of having a relationship, cuddling, kissing, holding hands or any of that with a man. But if in the moment your good enough where my body signals my mind to where it arouses me or vise versa then let's roll with it if not then I'm 100% cool with that too. We have met couples and single men and we've exchanged head, hand jobs, frottage, and I mean like I said if it feels good then I'm down for it... So when I hear the term(s) gay or lesbian or bi I think attraction, lustrous, connection, relationship with someone of the same sex. Its always associated with a relationship or attractions to someone, or feelings/actions of intimacy.  

Anyone else get where I'm coming from?? 

Bisexual by definition includes strictly sexual behavior, no need to tie romance into it.  Why you see people who say they are bisexual but hetero-romantic.

 

But if it's truly just "if it feels good, do it".  That's more hedonism than a sexual orientation.

Edited May 6, 2021 by NerdsAreFun

[NerdsAreFun 226]

60-40, definitely strongly bisexual but mostly hetero-romantic.  There are men I'm attracted to their entire body/personality rather than it just being about sex but that is much more rare than it is with women.

 

In a swinging context, we'll swing with pretty much any variation of gendered singles/couples.  But another bi couple interested in a same sex swap gets our attention the most.  Have all the straight sex we want with each other.

[Billygoat 443]

Although I am not shy, I’m also not Bi.  I describe my self as a Lesbian trapped in a man’s body.

[couplers 4,614]

On 2/1/2021 at 5:44 PM, couplers said:

From the strictly sexual standpoint I like men and women equally, but from the romantic, emotional aspect Clair, Lora, and I are much closer to each other than to the men.

The feelings among the three women in our family is deeper than ever.  We will do the routine things, like shopping together with or without some of the kids, just to be together.  Hold hands, share a kiss in the car, just feel close.

 

But today, I had the unusual desire be used, taken by a guy, just for his pleasure.  Early this morning I left the house and went to Frank and Becky's unannounced.  They said that I (actually any of us women) could come by for Frank unannounced anytime Clair, Lora, or I felt the need.  It has always been planned, but not this time.  It was strange.  I called as I arrived around 6am, Becky answered and asked what was wrong.  I apologized and said I needed Frank.  She said OK, let me in as I got there, took me into their bedroom where I took my clothes off, sucked Frank to an erection, had him do me quick, thanked Becky and left.  My intent was to do it for only his pleasure, but I came too; hard.

 

After getting a coffee and getting home I screwed Red, then David.  Two more orgasms, a shower, and then I felt OK again.  Something is going on in my brain.  Something I need.  I have a husband who is more in love with Lora than with me, but so am I.

Edited November 5, 2022 by couplers

[couplers 4,614]

Thank you for reading and reacting to my post; I appreciate it.  After reading it again myself, it's like I was drinking or on something; I do neither, it was only a really strange mood yesterday. 

 

My moods affect my sexual thoughts and behavior, which fortunately my poly family understands and accommodates (along with our boyfriend Frank and his wife Becky).  And you folks here allow me to express.  Thanks again. 

[Numex 2,409]

17 hours ago, couplers said:

today, I had the unusual desire be used, taken by a guy, just for his pleasure.  ..... I took my clothes off, sucked Frank to an erection, had him do me quick, thanked Becky and left.  ...

 

After getting a coffee and getting home I screwed Red, then David. 

 

4 hours ago, couplers said:

it's like I was drinking or on something; I do neither, it was only a really strange mood yesterday. 

 

My moods affect my sexual thoughts and behavior,

Women are like that, sometimes they need to prove (to themselves? their husband? others?) that they can be a whore who gives pleasure.  Daniela is like that sometimes, screw several guys in our group, then when she/we are home, be a perfect loving wife.  We all have sides that come out differently at different times.

[BeerFish 5]

Although I prefer women I’m sexually attracted to guys as well. I don’t consider myself truly bi as I’ve read that to be so one has to be capable of having feelings for or falling in love with both sexes equally. I can only do this with women. With guys it’s all and only about the sex. I consider myself very open minded and sexually adventurous. 

[hlgcpl4fun 79]

I would say somewhere between 70-30 and 60-40. I was completely straight for most of my life, however like others in this group, Sabrina said she would like to watch guys play with each other. My very first M/M experience (it was actually a MMF) was extremely incredible and I was hooked.  

[ntex 64]

I don't have any idea how to rate myself.  I have zero romantic interest in guys.  No kissing.  No romance.  But I do like to suck cock. and sometimes more...

 

[hlgcpl4fun 79]

On 9/22/2023 at 8:43 AM, ntex said:

I don't have any idea how to rate myself.  I have zero romantic interest in guys.  No kissing.  No romance.  But I do like to suck cock. and sometimes more...

 

I do agree with that statement, no romatic interest in other males. I have never kissed another mail and unless it happens in the heat of the moment, I have no plans to. I do ❤️ love to suck a nice cock to completion and be fucked good. 

[ConfusedHubby 118]

Somewhere in the 50-60 range, I'd estimate.  Only interested in romantic relationships with women and don't generally find men attractive, but definitely enjoy a little bi-oral fun.

[couplers 4,614]

On 2/3/2021 at 7:29 AM, Anon321 said:

I have never played with a guy or purposefully touched them.  The only reason I enjoy them in the MFM is the kinkiness and visual aspect of it.  But I have zero sexual desire to do anything with another guy.

My observation as a woman is that straight men, those in my experience, aren't interested in touching other men, but that doesn't let that prevent them from their goal of getting into and getting off in a woman.  Not so much the visual or the kinkiness, just their desire to ejaculate in her.

 

Guys aren't deterred by even the most masculine indicia of another man - cum.  They will go right into a sloppy vagina, bum, or mouth without clean up, no problem.  Something I must admit I do like.