How many couples do you swing with?

[Gab32421 25]

How many couples do you swing with?

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

At one time, together or separately, or totally?

 

We have been with about 5 couples totally, however never with more than one couple at a time (two couples seems to work out, three couples seems to have problems with everyone partnering up where everyone is happy). Currently we have been dating one other couple for...years now but we have all come to the decision that we need to try and open our group to more (2 or 3 more) new couples (if we can find couples that fit in with all involved).

[Numex 2,420]

Our group consists of five married couples, including ourselves.  We are closed to any outside play and have made a solemn commitment that so long as anyone is in the group there is no outside sexual contact.  Not foolproof perhaps, but with the amount and variety of sex available to everyone in the group, we feel cheating is less likely than between a strictly monogamous couple.  This allows us to feel safe playing bareback and with alone play. 

[Gab32421 25]

Hi , Sorry i meant at one time, just how many on average tend to manage, im thinking 3 or more could be difficult.

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

On 3/23/2020 at 8:20 AM, GoldCoCouple said:

At one time, together or separately, or totally?

 

We have been with about 5 couples totally, however never with more than one couple at a time (two couples seems to work out, three couples seems to have problems with everyone partnering up where everyone is happy). Currently we have been dating one other couple for...years now but we have all come to the decision that we need to try and open our group to more (2 or 3 more) new couples (if we can find couples that fit in with all involved).

We also fit into that category (lifestyle type?) it works for us best.

[couplers 4,654]

12 hours ago, Gab32421 said:

Hi , Sorry i meant at one time, just how many on average tend to manage, im thinking 3 or more could be difficult.

We only have one other couple involved with our family.  They're married, he plays full on sex, she watches the kids and does occasional oral on us all.

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

We like to play with one couple at a time, i fact, once we find a compatible couple we like to stick with them, assuming that is what they want too. How do we know? We ask and hope were are not getting just a story. We are always honest with our play partners, That is why we have not had that many.

[adamgunn 1,460]

For us, swinging is about variety. So we mix it up. 

Oh, we have friends we see time and again, but if we're at the club or somebody reaches out to us on SLS, yeah, we'll see about it.

And at house parties, whatever's in reach and tempting.

[Fundamental Law 2,885]

As folks in the LS adjust to the world with Covid-19, we expect that there might  be a shift to small numbers of couples over longer periods of time. 

 

[njbm 2,880]

On 3/23/2020 at 8:26 PM, Numex said:

Our group consists of five married couples, including ourselves.  We are closed to any outside play and have made a solemn commitment that so long as anyone is in the group there is no outside sexual contact.  Not foolproof perhaps, but with the amount and variety of sex available to everyone in the group, we feel cheating is less likely than between a strictly monogamous couple.  This allows us to feel safe playing bareback and with alone play. 

Does everyone in your group test for STIs? Do you share the results?

[Guest]

We have had parties of between 6 and 12 couples. It’s quite easy to manage. I have a sign posted...”It’s Polite to Fuck the Hostess” 

[Numex 2,420]

On 4/22/2020 at 4:02 PM, njbm said:

Does everyone in your group test for STIs? Do you share the results?

When we first formed our group, we all tested and shared the results.  We are all in agreement that there is to be no sex outside the group, pretty much under penalty of death.  If you quit or leave the group, no questions are asked.  It could be you want to fuck outside the group or there could be a relationship issue with your spouse.

 

We all already were comfortable with each other, and after testing and closing, even more so - no condoms or activity restrictions.  We're all fine with alone and threesome play, and we watch each others children, so we (especially my wife) have much more sex now than just weekend play.  Because of each of us has the opportunity for a variety of recreational sex, it's less likely that one will cheat.  Less than a married "monogamous" couple. 

 

 

 

 

[herpob 564]

We did have 6-8 couples, since last years lock down it has been only 2 couples but we have now re-added another now that we are able to handle the husband's size.  

[tkntd 59]

Just one for now ?

[njbm 2,880]

On 1/11/2021 at 2:27 AM, herpob said:

We did have 6-8 couples, since last years lock down it has been only 2 couples but we have now re-added another now that we are able to handle the husband's size.  

What did you do to be able to handle a big guy?

[couplers 4,654]

3 hours ago, njbm said:

What did you do to be able to handle a big guy?

For me, having babies.  I can now handle any guy; not that I want to supersize, but I could.  My definitely normal, but slightly above average, husband and boyfriend still totally satisfy me.  Clair and Lora are the same - they've had babies vaginally but still can clamp down on my one finger.  Clair can open enough that I could fist her though.

[herpob 564]

12 hours ago, njbm said:

What did you do to be able to handle a big guy?

I am with coupler, not that I prefer large penises but I am now able to handle this one better. Vaginally it is tougher even though I have had children larger penises still are not my favorite except in my hands. I do love the feel of large penises in my hands. My husband and I have been practicing with larger toys and ppas. I still have to be super hot to handle this man's girth vaginally comfortably which is usually after lots of oral and then anal.  I go back to a very tight fit but can open up rather nicely after a good long play time and some anal romping.  My husband is the same. The more we play anally the more we are able to take on most sizes. 

[couplers 4,654]

10 hours ago, herpob said:

Vaginally it is tougher even though I have had children larger penises still are not my favorite

Vaginally, length can be a problem for me hitting bottom.  I believe that I could handle a dick of a large girth, but it wouldn't do anything extra for me - my orgasms are fine.

 

10 hours ago, herpob said:

The more we play anally the more we are able to take on most sizes. 

It's the opposite for anal, length doesn't matter at all, but girth can be a problem.  It took about ten years (and having four other guys in there many times) before I let hubby go in my bum because he is a little bit wide.  Bum sex isn't his thing, so it's good.  It isn't my thing either since I can't orgasm that way, but I do it if the guy has already taken care of me and promises more oral when we're done.  DP is really good though, but hubby is always in the front.

[herpob 564]

10 hours ago, couplers said:
 

Vaginally, length can be a problem for me hitting bottom. 

Amen to this - Ouuucchhh, not fun

 

It's the opposite for anal, length doesn't matter at all, but girth can be a problem. 

It took about ten years (and having four other guys in there many times) before I let hubby go in my bum because he is a little bit wide. 

 

Exactly! It has taken ALOT of practice and a lot of penises anally but for some reason not matter how much practice my vagina gets it still cannot handle larger without a lot of effort.

The new guy and his wife are both very glad we are available to take him anally, otherwise he’d get left out of penetration a lot. That has been the best part them finding us, she said, she truly appreciates the break since she is sore most of the time after sex with her husband.

 

DP is really good though, but hubby is always in the front.

Oh oh oh oh oooohhhh, I absolutely love dp, gives me the best of all orgasms, thought it takes a lot more effort (prep time).

Edited February 2, 2021 by herpob

[Numex 2,420]

On 3/23/2020 at 9:20 AM, GoldCoCouple said:

At one time, together or separately, or totally?

Good point, which I missed.  Our group is five couples, which rarely gets together all at once.  Two of the other couples lives close by, and we mix it up regularly in different combinations.  The other two are 45 minutes to an hour away, so it is more weekend play.