Has this happened to you?

[njbm 2,871]

Couple opens pictures on LS site. Asks us to open ours. We do. Other husband says his wife does not find me (husband) attractive, but do we want to do a MFM with him. No we don’t.  
 

Does anyone else find this response sort of offensive? I know I am too sensitive. I also know that this has happened to us before. Old time posters have seen me raise this before.  I swear that I am a “7” and having attended multiple sex seminars, my skills are honed. I can accept that some people may not be attracted to me, but just say we’re not a match and scoot. 

[padoc 1,703]

It has happened. It's usually a single guy pretending to be a couple.  When notified, SDC and SLS either remove or change the profile.

[njbm 2,871]

They do have several certs from other couples, but your theory has been true in the past. Or maybe the husband really wants to keep playing and the wife is hesitant.

 

I agree that in obvious cases, SLS or SDC will change the status to single male. If people are particularly rude, we block them. We did that to an obvious single male. 

[Idahocouple6969 294]

3 hours ago, njbm said:

They do have several certs from other couples, but your theory has been true in the past. Or maybe the husband really wants to keep playing and the wife is hesitant.

 

I agree that in obvious cases, SLS or SDC will change the status to single male. If people are particularly rude, we block them. We did that to an obvious single male. 

Have you clicked on their certs? I am always surprised at the number of dead links and people who haven't been on in like 800 days. 

[njbm 2,871]

Their certs are fairly recent. A few are solidly post-Covid shelter in place in NJ, so these are risk takers. I think they are a legit couple and they describe as soft swap for wife, but husband willing to full swap, so I get the impression husband is psyched and is dragging the wife along. 

We are not playing in the current circumstances, but we are ok with meeting people on line for future reference. Tonight, we are on Zoom with 6-7 LS couples to play Quiplash. 

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

The person who sent this message might be working on this principle: walk up to a hundred different women and say, "let's fuck." You'll get slapped in the face ninety-nine times. But one the hundredth, you'll get fucked. 

[njbm 2,871]

1 hour ago, SW_PA_Couple said:

The person who sent this message might be working on this principle: walk up to a hundred different women and say, "let's fuck." You'll get slapped in the face ninety-nine times. But one the hundredth, you'll get fucked. 

Yes, maybe he just wants to play and his wife is a “beard.” The good news is that ten days later, I’ve largely forgotten this episode. We’ve had friendly FaceTimes with LS friends recently.  

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Rude? Yes, but look at it this way: They saved you a bunch of time and effort for no reward.

[CythereaSkyclad 19]

On 5/29/2020 at 7:10 PM, njbm said:

Couple opens pictures on LS site. Asks us to open ours. We do. Other husband says his wife does not find me (husband) attractive, but do we want to do a MFM with him. No we don’t.  
 

Does anyone else find this response sort of offensive? I know I am too sensitive. I also know that this has happened to us before. Old time posters have seen me raise this before.  I swear that I am a “7” and having attended multiple sex seminars, my skills are honed. I can accept that some people may not be attracted to me, but just say we’re not a match and scoot. 

We met a couple where they admitted they wanted only me and hinted around the next time  invited we would like for you to leave your hubby at home. I found it a little rude. It was not going to happen. I find anyone pick to split a couple a little rude. Maybe best to find singles to play with.  Hubby and I has never try to split a couple . We would like the same respect. 

[njbm 2,871]

It is rude and insulting to the excluded spouse. Who would do that to their own spouse?

 

i understand there are various combinations at house parties and some people have hall passes, but to say we want to play with one spouse and not the other is hurtful. 

 

Does anyone remember the part in “Revenge of the Nerds” when the nerd disguised as Darth Vader went down on Betty and lit her up? Some people may not look the part, but may light your fuse. Be careful of who you neglect.