Any women actually like small penises?

[w26mky 15]

I am undersized. I am about 5 inches long and extremely narrow in girth. I have been nicknamed pencil dick. A lot of girls say that size doesn't matter, but those are only girls that know I am small. I think they say that to make me feel better. I hear girls talk sometimes, the girls that do not know I am small, they talk about how they much prefer a big dick. I was with my last g/f for a little over a year and I found out that she had been cheating on me the whole time we were together. She said that she loved me, but I didn't take care of her needs in bed. She said I was too small. Are there actually girls that like small penises? I have heard there are, but I have never known of one.

[jcbicouple 24]

Guess once again: This probably depends on the person. Both the giver and receiver. Hubby is above average sized, but we've played with guys that have been considerably smaller. Some we wouldn't do again, but some we would. It really does depends on whether or not the guy knows what he's doing. We've been with all sizes, and frankly if the guys stinks in bed, it doesn't matter what size he is. Don't think we've been with anyone under five inches, but one of the guys was no more than that and we've played with him several times: Always a joy.

[BettyAnnMBSC 24]

After more than a few partners of varying sizes, I've concluded that neither men nor women are very good at accurately estimating penis size.

 

Wanna try an experiment with your friends: get a few rubber penii of varying sizes (a 4", 5", 6", 7" and 8") and randomly ask people "how big is this?"

 

When I've done this with my 5" they almost always say "about average" but when I use the 8" they say "damn! that's huge! it must be over 10")

 

Of course, it hasn't been a proper scientific study -- but it's fun non-the-less.

 

I've had one partner that was "too small" -- his penis was the same size as my pinky finger. None that were too big. Many of the best playmates (measured by the frequency with which they were invited back for more) were in fact of "average" length and girth.

 

The best idea - learn to work with what you have and learn to compensate for what you don't have.

[Maine 15]

Sorry I haven’t been on been busy

 

I have a question does size matter?

 

Some of you might have been married for a long time but when you first had sex were you happy or disappointed?

 

When you go to a party and some other guy has a bigger penis do you feel werid?

 

Penis Pills…

 

Do they work?

 

What ones to take?

 

Have you gotten results?

 

Is so, what?

 

I did some research on pills but threes just so many of them I don’t know which ones work or not.

 

 

I think we all wondered this even if we have a big penis or not.

 

Any input would be helpful

 

Any comments?

 

Thank you

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by Maine

Sorry I haven’t been on been busy

 

I have a question does size matter?

 

Some of you might have been married for a long time but when you first had sex were you happy or disappointed?

 

When you go to a party and some other guy has a bigger penis do you feel werid?

 

Penis Pills…

 

Do they work?

 

What ones to take?

 

Have you gotten results?

 

Is so, what?

 

I did some research on pills but threes just so many of them I don’t know which ones work or not.

 

 

I think we all wondered this even if we have a big penis or not.

 

Any input would be helpful

 

Any comments?

 

Thank you

Maine:

 

Since your thread was on such a similar subject, I've merged it into this thread instead.

[Sydney Carton 15]

Originally posted by Maine

 

I have a question does size matter?

 

 

According to the women I've talked to (whom I think are being honest), size does matter to some extent, particularly at the extreme ends (bigger isn't necessarily better, however). But they all also say that it's not the be all and end all of good sex.

 

 

Some of you might have been married for a long time but when you first had sex were you happy or disappointed?

 

 

I was quite happy, and I think she was too, although there was a lot of the typical teenage emotional sturm and drange accompanying it.

 

 

When you go to a party and some other guy has a bigger penis do you feel werid?

 

Can't say that I do.

 

 

 

Penis Pills…

 

Do they work?

 

 

No. It's completely impossible for any sort of a pill or other pharmacological therapy to change adult penis size.

 

 

 

What ones to take?

 

 

 

Save your money. If you feel you absolutely must do something to increase your penis size (other than surgery), it's at least theoreticaly possible that one of those penis vacum pumps might work, if you use it enough (which doesn't mean that actually work in practice, however).

[froggyjenn80 15]

I have been with anywhere from 2 inches to 13 inches. I prefer the average sizes rather than the huge men. But that is because my insides are very very tilted and anything over about 7inches hurts. I bleed and it is hard to recover.

 

There are many many women that prefer smaller. Most say its because they can give oral much better.

 

Size really isn't a factor. It is how you work it. If you know how to move correctly (I have found that go downward then upward, rock your hips) then you can hit that G-spot. Unless you are with a woman like me, where the G-spot is in my back.

 

Master your fingering and oral technique, and learn the motion of the woman to find her G-spot. You will not only loose the pencil dick nickname, but gain the satisfaction of being an excellent lover.

 

Good luck.

[Guest Willbfun]

We actually meet with a couple where the guy was very small. My wife actually likes bigger men, but we had so much in common, that we meet with them on a regular basis. He always made comments that he couldn't satify women with his dick, but his tounge worked wonders. The two of them got along fine, but they actually admitted, that the reason they were into swinging, was because she had to have that little extra size once in awhile. At times she even old him he wasn't going to satisfy any woman with what he had. And he just laughted about it, and didn't seem to care.

[good times 991]

This reminds me of the joke about the under endowed guy that goes to the prostitute and she say's "who do you think you are going to satisfy with that little thing" and he replies "ME".

[Uneed_Love 15]

Regarding to the tons of spams I daily received (and erased) on this subject... it sound like if it's the only subject that really matters the US guys and American women (as all the spams on this are coming from USA...).

 

Sometimes I should be pleased to ask to the spammers if they have ever tried some pills to enlarge their.... brain!

 

Those kind of advertisings are nothing else but swindles in my humble opinion. However if people want to lose money with this it's their own biz... but spammers would better avoid to send me such craps... they waste their time... and mine by the same way.

[Maine 15]

Since where talking about size here when did you guys care about your size?

 

This is what happened to me (embaressed)

 

I would go online and see avertisments of pills. Yeah, right get out of here thats stupid. For months i kept seeing them. The t.v even had pills on it. (late night of course) yeah, i've thought about getting the pills. Most have..All guys think is my size good?..the bigger sized guys and the lower sized. I guess its apart of life.

 

This is where the wondeful world of avertising comes it. They play something so many times. (wheather is a popup,website,tv or news article.) That you have to think about it's on your mind. So, you really ask yourself. Do i need to change. Thats where they get you. Thats why the play those commercials over and over..Mom's Got the magic of c. Beach.

 

Just a thought..

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

- I actually had a friend for a while who preferred smaller dicks to larger ones. Her hubby was pretty small and that's what she liked.

 

In general, it really isn't the size that matters, as long as you know how to use what you have. I've found that often guys with smaller dicks make more of an effort during sex to actually please the woman while guys with large (especially the very large variety) tend to rely solely on their big dick not really putting in any effort of their own.

 

I recall a guy that I had sex with many years ago, he was rather small and I would go so far as to say he would qualify for "pencil dick" status.... but he was great in bed. He knew every move to make and when to make it.... and I came back for more very often.

 

So I guess it depends a lot on you, the guy your small penis is attached to and how much effort you are willing to put out.

[Uneed_Love 15]

Maine,

 

As long as a male will regard sex as a performance that he'll have to do in order to please a female he will take the risk of knowing frustrations because either his size will not be the good one, either he will come too fast or too late, etc...

 

But if BOTH partners are looking for caring the other one then the frustration would be missing in their relationship...

 

It's not the size of the penis, or even how you use it which matters but WHY you use it...

 

If it's to accomplish a selfish pleasure then your partner could be frustrated, if it's only to please her (or him ?) then You could be frustrated... but if both are caring and loving for the other one then I don't think there would be any frustration because they would find the right words to say and the right moves to do....

 

Just my opinion here.

[webbguy 27]

My nickname has always been " tic tac dic" for reasons unknown to me,

[Guest dr.love]

It is time for school everyone. After reading what I'm about to say you will think different.

 

I am a black guy with an 8 inch dick (and no the black myth is not true). It is sometimes a curse having a big dick. I have been with tons of girls of all ages and race who have been with tons and tons of guys. Every time I have sex with a girl she can't go no longer than 5 to 10 minutes. Always telling me to hurry because I am hurting her too bad. They always end up curled up on the floor crying in pain holding their stomach like they're dying. And bleeding. A few girls I thought I was gonna have to take to the hospital. And I can just forget about anal.

 

So all these sily females saying they prefer a big dick is lying. They always say that and soon as I stick it in they take it out and can't finish.

 

And let me tell you this. We all live in a world of porn. Porn is fake as joan rivers face. Girls are watching the girls in the porn flicks and think that those girls are better because they have big tits and huge asses. Men look at those guys with 10-14 inch dicks and think the porn guys are better. I used to think I was small because I was seeing all these guys in porn with huge monster dicks and I thought that I was suppose to be that size. If a female likes huge dicks in her then she is most likely busted out. She has been using huge dildos and fisted for so long it is stretched out of place. If you find a normal girl she will be nice and tight and won't want no huge cock in her. Let's get real here...who want to be in pain?

 

Hey guys, let me ask you something and this does not mean your gay. Would you rather have a index finger up your butt or a fist? And another thing, not all guys like huge booty and tits either. I prefer a girl with a small tight bubble butt and small perky tits. I have been with my girl for over 6 years and she still can't handle my dick. It always hits her bottom and she cries and makes me stop.

 

So remember guys don't believe the myths and as some say keep your head up I say keep your dicks up. Peace!

[bnlee2 15]

Thanks for your comment. I'm an Asian guy with an average dick, 6" and average girth. I have never had a girl scream in pain and never told that I have a big dick either. I have never had any complaints either. I guess after reading your note...I'm just right. Thanks guy for your insight.

[valley 25]

Why would a woman who is writhing in pain want to continue having sex with you?

 

Why would you continue having sex with a woman ,knowing she was in pain?

 

Sorry, but I'm a little curious?

 

Are you a gentleman?

[txduo2000 18]

dr.love said:

It is time for school everyone. After reading what I'm about to say you will think different.

 

I am a black guy with an 8 inch dick (and no the black myth is not true). It is sometimes a curse having a big dick. I have been with tons of girls of all ages and race who have been with tons and tons of guys. Every time I have sex with a girl she can't go no longer than 5 to 10 minutes. Always telling me to hurry because I am hurting her too bad. They always end up curled up on the floor crying in pain holding their stomach like they're dying. And bleeding. A few girls I thought I was gonna have to take to the hospital. And I can just forget about anal.

 

So all these sily females saying they prefer a big dick is lying. They always say that and soon as I stick it in they take it out and can't finish.

 

And let me tell you this. We all live in a world of porn. Porn is fake as joan rivers face. Girls are watching the girls in the porn flicks and think that those girls are better because they have big tits and huge asses. Men look at those guys with 10-14 inch dicks and think the porn guys are better. I used to think I was small because I was seeing all these guys in porn with huge monster dicks and I thought that I was suppose to be that size. If a female likes huge dicks in her then she is most likely busted out. She has been using huge dildos and fisted for so long it is stretched out of place. If you find a normal girl she will be nice and tight and won't want no huge cock in her. Let's get real here...who want to be in pain?

 

Hey guys, let me ask you something and this does not mean your gay. Would you rather have a index finger up your butt or a fist? And another thing, not all guys like huge booty and tits either. I prefer a girl with a small tight bubble butt and small perky tits. I have been with my girl for over 6 years and she still can't handle my dick. It always hits her bottom and she cries and makes me stop.

 

So remember guys don't believe the myths and as some say keep your head up I say keep your dicks up. Peace!

 

I think you are exaggerating just a tad, here.

 

First of all, I am not a huge porn connoisseur, but I have never seen a 14 inch dick in any porn I have ever watched. With the exception of John Holmes, most porn dicks are generally a normal size, though there is quite a bit of variety.

 

And being that I AM one of the women who prefer larger penises, I AM normal, and I am NOT "busted out" as you so eloquently put it, I can say that a vagina adapts to whatever penis size it becomes accustomed to on a regular basis. My ex-husband was around 6". We were together for almost 15 years. That's what I was used to at the time. When I met my current husband, who is 8", it took some getting used to, and he did "bottom out" quite frequently in me and cause me a little pain, though I never bled, nor did I ever writhe on the floor, holding my belly, screaming in pain. But now, 7 years later, I have adjusted to his size and no longer feel pain. My husband and I engage in anal as well, so I don't know who or how old these women (girls?) are that you are encountering on such a regular basis ... it seems that you have found every single one who cannot take a larger penis, and that to me is just a little unbelievable.

 

I consider 8" to be somewhat normal, although the average size is around 5.75". In other words, I do not consider an 8" penis to be a "monster dick" or "huge" by any means. Although, it seems to me that 7" and up is getting harder and harder to find. Frankly, the last two couples we have played with have been less than well-endowed, and I was a little disappointed.

[montresor 19]

Ms F is a size queen. Sent me an email the other day talking about the subject, describing the three types of cocks she likes: "large, large and large."

 

Ms P is great with as much as 9" -- have watched her get into the zone with one more than once -- but she also likes the smaller ones. Why? "Because I can own them entirely." Meaning -- fellate to the base, etc., with no problem.

[sluttpuppy69 15]

size does matter! 4 inches and bigger is fine when it's thick enough, but THIN? thats a problem. if it's not "average" thickness than just learn to eat pussy like a pro.

[PrivateDance42 17]

Believe it or not - I measured my husbands two longest fingers - the average length is about four inches. That hits my G-spot very nice, thank you!

 

Granted, I have not been with a four inch penis, but I assume that the same would be true regarding penis length. I am petite, so the same might not be true of all women - but with five inches and the proper skill/trajectory/movement - I would probably scream!

 

Do some women have a mental penis-length fetish? Of course. Likewise, some men have a large breast fetish. But is a smallish penis a problem from a physical standpoint? Probably not for me. (But I won't know for sure until I try.)

 

By the way, my two longest fingers are only three inches long - drats! (I need assistance!)

[lordy 15]

my hubby is 5.5 but that never seemed to take away from me getting many orgasms throughout our 20 years. we have a 9 inch dildo that he always insist i can fit but guess what ? nature only allows my vagina to take about 6 inches so go with what works for you. that goes for both gals and guys

[estelle_r04 15]

I wouldn't say I prefer small... but It doesn't really matter if your good with it. Depends actually, sometimes I think I would prefer smaller.

[janaandjames 24]

When you go to a party and some other guy has a bigger penis do you feel werid?

 

Can't say that I do.

 

 

Thought that was interesting.

WHen we play with a single male, hubby actually likes it when our playmate has a larger tool. its more fun for him to watch when its larger i guess.

im not too hung up on size. but being filled up every now and then is nice.

but it always amuses me that my hubby actually likes our playmates to be bigger than him ..

jana

[lotusphoenix 15]

My man is fairly small and some positions just don't do it for me like missionary (which I love) but doggie style with my ass high in the air and me on top makes me cum a lot!!!!

[sigh35 20]

I have been with a man who's penis was so small, that it would disappear under his ball sack when standing..he always used a cock ring when trying to have sex which only worked when I sat on him...he was the best lover I ever had because he always made sure I was satisfied...over and over and over...he was a genius at pussy eating and loved to use toys though the way he did it, it might as well have been him...also small penises are the best for giving oral...no gagging and you can perform more tongue tricks!!

[ShellyM 0]

Heck, as long as its 6" or longer and works it is all good with me lol.

[Shika 15]

I prefer a bit larger, 7+. I have taken 10" before and while it was a bit painful I loved it for what it was. Being filled completely and then some!

4-6" can do the trick for me though, that's for sure.

 

btw I am not busted out by any means, it amazes me just how many people think a vagina does not stretch and return to size...

[here2play 15]

Hopefully I am here to make your day brighter....I prefer a smaller dick. I don't like it too big. I prefer my toys the same way, too big is bad. I want to enjoy it, not see how far it can split me. Maybe you just need to dab a little, fingers, tongues, toys. But, nonetheless, now you know one female that prefers smaller!

[GoNatural 104]

I'm sure that I'm echoing what other people have said, but it does matter to some women, and to others it does not. It matters less when a woman is considering you for a long term commitment. It seems to matter more to women that are interested in only recreational sex than to those seeking a husband. I'm sure that tons of politically correct sayings have been flying around this thread, but I have a hard time reading them for the simple reason that it varies from woman to woman.

 

Do penis pills work? No, but the amino acid organine that is in some of them does increase the hardness of an erection form many men.

 

Does penis enlargement work? Basically, one has to perform physical therapy on the penis. Is it worth it? To me it is, but to many men it is not. There is much to learn.

 

There is basically a whole underground community of guys that practice Penis Enlargement. The largest forum has about 70,000 members. It is called PE for short. Do a search for that forum.