Things you over hear

[Coffee 2]

At work a new girl started in the office and was being trained by one of my colleagues. They were sat sat at one of the computers and I went to introduce myself, we pleasantly chatted for a few minutes and as I got 6ft away my colleague in a slightly lowered voice said to the young trainee "she is a real whore, will sleep with anyone."

 

Later that day I stopped off at the local shop, "that is the one" I heard one women tell another customer and the person on the till "she was cutting her grass while wearing a bikini the other day". 

 

"Sad." said the other woman "She probably wants the attention."

 

Then the person on the till added "She has a string off men round when her husband is away."

 

"Poor man" Said the first woman "such a nice fellow."

 

By now I approached, smiled sweetly at the ladies and greeted them with a good afternoon, they all politely said hallo!

[lcmim 1,082]

Catty judgement flows from jealousy.

[njbm 2,871]

Not nice comments. What info led your co-worker to his conclusion? Are you open about your dalliances? We are private about our adventures. Others don’t care. No right answer. 

[padoc 1,703]

Even if true, you're apparently having fun and you've  broken the code as far as recreational sex is concerned. Let em talk, they only wish they were having as much fun as you apparently are. Mrs Doc was denied two substantial raises because she was 5 years older than her boss, 5 times sexier than she and the bosses husband remarked, within her earshot at a Xmas party, that he thought my wife was hot. If it doesn't cost you money, just smile sweetly and carry on!

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

People are idiots. Coworker is taking a risk gossiping and you could file a complaint with HR (maybe politely ask him how he came to this conclusion and remind him about HR). Otherwise, stand up for yourself when you overhear things like this, or just accept them in silence. Gossip that goes unchallenged will continue. At the same time, we wish more women would mow their lawns in bikinis (completing a needed chore while working on your tan is multitasking).

[lovefest04 699]

When I was a young lad, one of our neighbors mowed her lawn in a bikini, this was the late 60's early 70's. Husband was an airline pilot. She was sexy, at least that's what I remember. The gossip was hilarious. Non-stop about her, tramp, loose, probably a SWINGER. Especially, as her husband was a p i l o t...made good money and traveld a lot.

 

On and on.

 

I mostly just remember her in a bikini mowing the lawn ?

[couplers 4,640]

On 6/10/2020 at 7:26 AM, Coffee said:

"she is a real whore, will sleep with anyone."

If it's true, embrace your reputation with pride.

 

On 6/10/2020 at 7:26 AM, Coffee said:

"She has a string off men round when her husband is away."

 

"Poor man" Said the first woman "such a nice fellow."

Let them know that your husband is a lucky man to have such an attractive and frisky woman.  And he knows it as well.

[Anon321 522]

We hear things a lot.  I felt bad for my GF because she usually takes the worst of the gossiping and a lot of people at her job know as she is VERY active around the office.  But she takes the gossip extremely well (better than I used to) and pretty much laughs it off.

[couplers 4,640]

2 hours ago, Anon321 said:

But she takes the gossip extremely well

I'm certain that people talk about me behind my back, or more likely used to talk about me.  The novelty of a woman living (and presumably being intimate) with several other people has worn off.  Plus now there are openly the gay guys, the butch Lesbians, the bisexuals, the girls who braggingly tell tales that grown men only used to say in hushed voices.  In my own mind I sometimes wonder if I'm the prude; I have plenty of sex, but it's with the same three men and two women.  I've only had full intercourse with five men in my life.  Lots of teenagers, including girls, have had many more partners than that.

 

At this point in my life I am proud of who I am, so there is nothing for me to endure. 

[Anon321 522]

13 minutes ago, couplers said:

I'm certain that people talk about me behind my back, or more likely used to talk about me.  The novelty of a woman living (and presumably being intimate) with several other people has worn off.  Plus now there are openly the gay guys, the butch Lesbians, the bisexuals, the girls who braggingly tell tales that grown men only used to say in hushed voices.  In my own mind I sometimes wonder if I'm the prude; I have plenty of sex, but it's with the same three men and two women.  I've only had full intercourse with five men in my life.  Lots of teenagers, including girls, have had many more partners than that.

 

At this point in my life I am proud of who I am, so there is nothing for me to endure. 

I think my GF just sees her behavior as normal or at least acceptable.  When there have been times where another guy or girl was judgemental of her she always shakes it off as "what's wrong with them?" or "why do they even care?"  I love that attitude about her.  But let's also be honest......... she gets turned on by some people knowing she's a dirty little slut.  I know it turns her on that her friends, coworkers and even strangers know.

[couplers 4,640]

28 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

she gets turned on by some people knowing she's a dirty little slut.

It doesn't sexually turn me on that people know that I have an intense sex life, but the whole thing does make me feel powerful and in control.  It goes along with my professional accomplishments and the respect that I've earned.

 

28 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

I know it turns her on that her friends, coworkers and even strangers know.

What turns me on is my jealousy, knowing and sometimes seeing David my husband and Red my boyfriend expressing their love for Lora and Clair, both of whom are also my lovers.  

[EastInWest 1,524]

We've played with our neighbor as a single woman for most of a year now. Her (now) ex-husband was a chronic cheater and eventually people sat her down and showed her the receipts.

 

Before the pandemic, she was on all the dating sites and having a great time. We were careful to avoid her being seen coming and going at sketchy hours to avoid gossip, but there was no hiding what was going on at her house.

 

One day, the nosy widow caddy-corner to her stops me while mowing her lawn and says, scandalously, "you know, there is a different car at her house every weekend".

 

I did not point out that I knew she'd banged the ex-husband herself. Seems to me people who gossip a lot are often trying to preemptively damage others for fear they, themselves, will eventually be revealed.