LeonDayDreamer 0 Posted July 9, 2020 My Wife is a Slut And I love it... She's latina, 4"10, 85lbs, and has an extra large pussy. When I met her she was fucking at least 3 other guys in her little ghetto Mexican neighborhood. I used to be extremely jealous then somehow, it just started turning me on, the idea of her fucking other guys... Eventually I talked her into fucking other guys. We've been together for 15 years now. We're 35. At this point she's: Fucked other guys in the same room as me. She's had lovers that she would fuck while I'm at work. She has a Saturday night schedule where she can go out - do what she wants and come home whenever she wants on Sunday. (And then I fuck her brains out).. We do strapon play sometimes. Extremely rarely, I'll stuff her with a huge dildo. She dresses like a slut when I want her too. Small tight cheerleading shorts. Her pussy is so fat for her little body, there's no hiding it so it shines on display with little shorts on. She'll even sit with her legs open when I tell her. I think I have it pretty good... I'm an attractive male. 6ft tall, Euro/American, good muscles, thin body, 7inch cock, and I have a difficult time achieving orgasms in Under 30 minutes. She was the first girl in my life that I could fuck for hours and she wouldn't complain, in fact she'd stay wet for hours. Still to this day.... I think I was the first guy in her life that could fuck her for longer than 3 minutes without Cumming... We're kind of a compatible fit like that. I think she has it pretty good. I often use the "Spoil". "I Spoil you by letting you enjoy any cock that you please" And... I do... Those are my intentions. To spoil her. I don't like being humiliated or sitting in the corner masturbating or any of that. I just like when she receives pleasure. I like when she finds a hot guy that she's attracted to and he fucks her good. It definitely turns me on when she receives pleasure. That's a turn on of mine... But my other two turn ons, she'll never do... Is simple. And she does do this like once a year but it's so hard to get her to actually do it. = Huge dildo play. We have very experience toys, very big toys and I love seeing her pussy eat them. I love it.. the majority of my porn searches are "latina big toys". My wife being the life long nympho that she is has zero problems taking a giant dildo. The problem is, getting her to actually play with me.... Is the obvious... She's never returned the favor of bringing a girl over to "spoil" me. She won't even dirty talk about it... I can't even share the fantasy with her to hyperstimulate my orgasms... She's immediately jealous and gets angry... So I mean we have a cool sex life. She's my little fucking sex toy. And I've done more than enough to "spoil" her. But she won't return the favor for #1 or #2... Any advice on these matters would be appreciated.. Ty Quote Share this post Link to post
adamgunn 1,460 Posted July 9, 2020 Welcome to the forum. I think you'll find this site is a place for calm reflection on our successes and advice about potential issues with the LifeStyle. In general we're very polite. There are other sites that are more appropriate for harsh language and stories, such as on reddit or ourhotwives.org. To answer your questions, if your wife is interested in the activities you mentioned she will perform them for you. If not, it's her life and body, I advise you not to push her. Best of luck. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Billygoat 443 Posted July 9, 2020 Sometimes it is better to enjoy what you have rather then chance losing what you have because you want just that much more. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Billygoat 443 Posted July 9, 2020 Wanted to add.....Time and open communication. I’m sure she is comfortable and feels safe and secure in what you both have. She probably is not if the table was turned in your favor....or just to include you. Quote Share this post Link to post
Fla-swing99 136 Posted September 11, 2020 In my humble opinion I would suggest you simply forget about it, get over it and let it go if she is not ok with it. You mentioned several things that you really enjoy but there are 2 more things you want. Is what you have between the two of you not enough that you have to force her to or talk her into doing something she is not comfortable with just because you want it? I guess you have to ask yourself if what you have is simply not enough to please you. My husband has made it very clear to me, he would never want me to do anything that I was not comfortable with just because he would like it. If I am to do anything its because I also enjoy and/or like doing it and we both get something from it. If she does something she does not like just to make you happy I would tell you to ask yourself if its ok that she is unhappy doing something simply because you wanted her to. Let say for example she wanted to see you give another guy oral but you had no desire to have any sexual interaction with other men, would you do it anyway, just to please her. I would guess not. I would also guess that she would not get pleasure from watching you do something you did not want to just because its what she wanted. We all have to understand and respect each others feelings. If you are successful in "talking her into it" even though she does not want to then what does that say about your respect for her and her feelings? I wish you both the very best and hope you are able to work it out in a manner that you both can be happy with. Quote Share this post Link to post
JessicaJamison 861 Posted November 20, 2020 Id recomend being thankful for the view of her slutty life she allows you to have. I'm a slut also, and that doesn't mean we are gonna be comfortable with everything. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post