Other discussion forums?

[nusofties 52]

This is a great website. Are there any other discussion forums related to swinging that you frequent?

[adamgunn 1,460]

Reddit r/swingers    https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/     They really don't like any hotwife talk at all

ourhotwives.org    https://ourhotwives.org/forum/index.php    I mainly inhabit the hotwife and hotties forum, but if you like humillation and such the cuckold forum is there for you.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

17 hours ago, nusofties said:

This is a great website. Are there any other discussion forums related to swinging that you frequent?

Thanks!  We're happy to have you as a part of it!

 

To answer your question, not really, just here.  Even when we were just regular members here, we liked the civil tone from smart and sane people here compared to some of what you see on the other sites, so the Swingers Board has always been top on our list.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

If there was a better forum than this, we would be on it instead...there isn't (that we have found) and we like most of the people here so we stay (and try to help make it an even better forum).

[njbm 2,871]

Isn’t this sort of like going to a restaurant and asking if they know of any good restaurants?

[couplers 4,641]

3 hours ago, cplnuswing said:

we liked the civil tone from smart and sane people here compared to some of what you see on the other sites

Me too.  When I first started my non-monogamous life, I went looking for support on internet forums.  I felt like a pervert and all the other websites reinforced that feeling.  This place makes me (and non-monogamy) seem normal.

[adamgunn 1,460]

9 minutes ago, couplers said:

Me too.  When I first started my non-monogamous life, I went looking for support on internet forums.  I felt like a pervert and all the other websites reinforced that feeling.  This place makes me (and non-monogamy) seem normal.

Yeah, the others are sort of like SLS for chat. There's some good stuff, but you have to weed through the junk.

[couplers 4,641]

Just now, adamgunn said:

Yeah, the others are sort of like SLS for chat. There's some good stuff, but you have to weed through the junk.

I haven't used any of the sites that connect people since we really don't swing - just our poly family and the one other couple now.  Earlier when we did play more openly with others, it was people we knew: me and the guy at work (that wasn't so good), friends and acquaintances of mine as sex partners for hubby (that's how we found Clair and started our family), Lora and her boyfriend/husband (she left him to be in our family).

[couplers 4,641]

5 hours ago, couplers said:

... it was people we knew: me and the guy at work (that wasn't so good),.

Yeah, bad memories.  At first having a third man as a sex partner besides hubby and Red made me feel super powerful and attractive, Überfrau.  However, he thought he was God's gift to women, but he wasn't even a good sex partner and was disrespectful.  Instead of being grateful for me and hubby letting him fuck me, he would say that hubby must be an inadequate and have self-confidence issues when exactly the opposite was true.  Sam didn't care about my orgasms, only his.  When he found out that I would blow him and swallow, and let him put it into my bum, that's all he wanted to do.

 

When I started feeling down about how it was going, hubby told me that making it work wasn't my sole responsibility.  So instead of going to Sam's apartment, I got us a nice hotel room and made him fuck me right and eat me until I came a couple more times.  Then I left and blocked his number.  I saw him again (he worked for the company's accounting firm), but I never said anything to him, just smiled.

 

 

5 hours ago, couplers said:

 

 

 

 

[couplers 4,641]

  

6 hours ago, couplers said:

... that's how we found Clair and started our family.

Interesting that before Clair joined us, I was living with a husband and a boyfriend, but didn't think of it as a family, just a woman with a husband and a boyfriend, until Clair joined us.  What cemented everything among all of us was when Clair became accidentally pregnant with hubby's child.  It was totally unexpected, she cried and offered to abort to keep things right between us, but we were all overjoyed.  I/we quickly decided that I would try to become immediately pregnant as well.  And pretty much did.