Wife threesome

[Latinnewcouple 17]

Wife said she wants a threesome, either another guy and me or 2 guys and I watch. What would be the best threesome?  This would be her first time with another guy. I think I'm good with this but I'll have to see when the time comes. Las Vegas trip soon. 

[Idahocouple6969 294]

Personally I just couldn't sit there and watch...... for any length of time anyway ?

[TricianMike 772]

I think it is up to your wife to say how this should go. You say you are fine with her doing this, you need to get all the questions answered before going further. What are your thoughts on leaving her alone with two strange men? What are your thoughts on watching her with another man? Not to be overlooked is you being with another naked man. Are you generally jealous? 

Now ask your wife if she can enjoy herself knowing you are watching. 

Honesty is paramount. Unfortunately neither of you will know how you will react at the time. 

The first time bringing someone into your sexual life is a major decision. 

[ToeDippers 83]

I read so many posts by guys who say that the wife wants this or that and it always makes me think was there pressure. For me it was my idea for my wife to be with another woman. 

Does your wife want you to watch her with two men?

Does your wife want them to play one after the other or both at the same time? 

I read about women who want both men in her at the same time. DP is not as easy as you think. 

Do you want to watch? For me it was very hard to watch that first time she was with a guy. Even though I was with the woman, I didn’t want to watch and I couldn’t turn away. She was so into it and I was jealous, I also wanted to hold her. 

I agree with the communication before deciding. If she decides she really wants to go forward you should be the second male so you can share her enjoyment. 

[Latinnewcouple 17]

Thank you the advice and I too think I should be the other guy. 

[Anon321 522]

Both are good options.  Our first time was with me and another guy.  But I've seen my GF in a lot of threesomes with 2 guys and it is extremely hot to watch.  It might even be hotter than being in the threesome.  If it were me I would let 2 guys go ahead and have their way with her and then if I wanted I could just join in on the fun.  But given that it's your first time I think you have the right idea with just you and another guy.