Scotty

[Scotte33 0]

Hi, I’m completely new to the swinging scene but really keen and want to get involved. We’re is the best place to meet genuine other swingers I’ve tried a couple apps and online and all it seems to be is cost a fortune to be fake people. 
help would be appreciated 

thanks 

Scott 

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Welcome to Swingersboard. 

 

One upon a day (before a pandemic) I would have answered your question by saying join a swingers' club and go to their parties to meet people or I might have said join one or two of those Web sites that you perceive as costing "a fortune" and look through their listings of meet-n-greet events. All-in-all I'd say keep up with a Web site like SLS or SZC but do not expect instant results. You will run into fake profiles but there are real ones among them. Wishing you good luck. 

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Hi,

 

Welcome to the site.  There are really two main ways to meet swingers, either at clubs or else with one of the online sites like SLS or Swingtowns or SDC. Right now, most of the clubs are shut down or are just barely getting by with light attendance, so that leaves the online sites. Most of them have a free option where you can at least put up a profile to check out the site before joining.  I'll be honest though... I'm assuming you are a single male? If so, single male + free membership = ignore for most couples, even the ones that are interested in single males to start with.  Single males are just so common that it really takes distinguishing yourself in every way to get anyone's attention, and free profile doesn't do anything to help with that.

 

Getting into swinging just takes work and patience and always always always putting your best foot forward, so all is not lost if you are really serious about it.

 

Good luck!

[njbm 2,868]

If you met a swinging girlfriend, you would do better in swinging. As a friend of mine says, if you are going to a picnic, you have to bring your own ham sandwich. You can’t just eat everyone else’s. 

[adamgunn 1,460]

Beam me up.                                  (Sorry, I had to go there.)

 

Cplinswing has great advice. You have intense competition. The biggest rules for you will be to be very, very patient, and as respectful as you can possibly be. Never brag about what you do (or don't have,) never show a dick pick. Understand that you'll only make it here after a very long time, perhaps years.

 

Best of luck.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Adam beat me to it. If you can't afford to join a website, you can't afford to swing, ESPECIALLY if you are a single male.