ready or not

[MenPoundMyWife 28]

My wife and I have had couple of threesomes with other men. The wife has also taken couple of men she met outside to hotels and gotten fucked. She told me in the very beginning that she could not be sexually exclusive. I took that to be a turn-on and decided to stay. It has been nothing but fun for the last decade. She has only had sex with 3 other men during this time but we want to make this number go up. Her and I are talking about arranging a gangbang. She is 34DD/F, fit, about 5-4. She got on Ashley Madison and men are drooling over her. She wants to know what she can expect in a gangbang from a female perspective, any input from the ladies would be appreciated. 

 

 

[MrMrsswinger 205]

What area do you live? What is her Madison profile name?

 

Wife here....gangbangs come in all shapes and sizes. We've found that getting guys to show up isn't as easy as you'd think. Many men will respond to requests and not show up. We tried craigslist a few years ago and it was flake city. We've posted on the swinger site we're on and have had better luck. Try to keep the number fairly low (3-6) unless you're going to have a fluffer on scene to keep the guys up. Make sure your significant other screens they guys and the rules are known. I'm not into humiliation or rough play. I wanted sex with multiple men, not get slapped around, spanked, etc. He made sure that guys followed the rules.

 

Expect some soreness afterward, the next day. Again, depends on the number of guys.

[MenPoundMyWife 28]

We live in SoCal. I’ll ask if she wants to share her AM on this site.  She did ask if it might be overwhelming during the 3some and she might just freak out...very curious but nervous.

[Anon321 524]

Like MrMrsswinger said - expect people not to show up if you go the internet route.  If you're going to go the strangers route it might be better to just go to a club.  We've gone to couple several times where you can have a gangbang in one of the rooms.  I prefer inviting people I know who will show up but that's our preference.  The best ones were destination gangbangs where we'd invite a bunch of friends to come away for the weekend and we would have a gangbang at the hotel.

 

And like MrMrsswinger said just be there to lay down any ground rules.  Unlike MrMrsswinger my GF is very much into humiliation and rough play so slapping, spanking, spitting, etc is all fair game however if that is not her thing you need to make sure everyone is on the same page.  She should expect to feel a bit overwhelmed and possibly sore the next day.  Have fun!

[kittyswinger 261]

On 11/17/2020 at 6:24 PM, MrMrsswinger said:

Wife here....gangbangs come in all shapes and sizes. We've found that getting guys to show up isn't as easy as you'd think. Many men will respond to requests and not show up. We tried craigslist a few years ago and it was flake city. We've posted on the swinger site we're on and have had better luck. Try to keep the number fairly low (3-6) unless you're going to have a fluffer on scene to keep the guys up. Make sure your significant other screens they guys and the rules are known. I'm not into humiliation or rough play. I wanted sex with multiple men, not get slapped around, spanked, etc. He made sure that guys followed the rules.

I agree to keeping the participants' number low to around 3-6 only to start with.   My first try was with only 3 guys and they were my SO's pick.  Let the SO invite, filter or screen the participants.  It is better to ask them for suggestions to make the play interesting, like scenarios they would wish.  Involving the participants in the planning would make the experience more fun and memorable, instead of each one just wanting to get off at your wife the soonest.  Being invited by the SO from his pool of friends (or former swing partners) would also make them respectful of the rules (I'm not into humiliation too), compared to random strangers.

[MenPoundMyWife 28]

We are into humiliation. Wife is more into being humiliated than me, I like her enjoying it, I am limited to men telling me how they are fucking my wife right in front me sort of thing. She loves being called a bitch, whore, get spanked around. Never entertained spitting, but it is something to explore. We cannot have it be people we know. Likely will be a club.

[Anon321 524]

1 hour ago, MenPoundMyWife said:

We are into humiliation. Wife is more into being humiliated than me, I like her enjoying it, I am limited to men telling me how they are fucking my wife right in front me sort of thing. She loves being called a bitch, whore, get spanked around. Never entertained spitting, but it is something to explore. We cannot have it be people we know. Likely will be a club.

Similar to us.  I am not into humiliation but GF loves it.  In those scenarios it's important to understand her rules prior to a ganbang and be their to supervise.  Once the guys know the woman is into being dominated and humiliated they can take that as a sign to do whatever they like and things can escalate quickly.