Help me!

[BadCat 51]

I am in love with my husband. I love pleasing him. And he was honest with me when we got together about his desires. And his desires were and are scary to me! I never thought I would be with two men at once, or even in the same night. I certainly never thought I would like it. I had been with 4 men in my entire life when we got together. I have been with 8 men since we got married. I could never have predicted that I would want to do more. Like a gang bang... I blush a little even putting that out there. The problem is, we have been lucky finding guys and one couple to play with over the years, but How could it be possible to find enough safe guys to do this for my husband? Especially in secret, as a surprise?  The sites are terrible and I am not going to pay to weed through a bunch of guys just looking for pics or a one night stand. So I thought I would ask here and “meet” people here who might give me some good advice. I’m posting pics for attention to the post, plus my husband will like it when he sees it, if this works out lol.

[BadCat 51]

1 hour ago, BadCat said:

I am in love with my husband. I love pleasing him. And he was honest with me when we got together about his desires. And his desires were and are scary to me! I never thought I would be with two men at once, or even in the same night. I certainly never thought I would like it. I had been with 4 men in my entire life when we got together. I have been with 8 men since we got married. I could never have predicted that I would want to do more. Like a gang bang... I blush a little even putting that out there. The problem is, we have been lucky finding guys and one couple to play with over the years, but How could it be possible to find enough safe guys to do this for my husband? Especially in secret, as a surprise?  The sites are terrible and I am not going to pay to weed through a bunch of guys just looking for pics or a one night stand. So I thought I would ask here and “meet” people here who might give me some good advice. I’m posting pics for attention to the post, plus my husband will like it when he sees it, if this works out lol.

Hunger is the best spice!

[JessicaJamison 861]

Gang bangs are challenging, finding 5 guys you have chemistry with at the same time is tough, I've done one with 5 guys and two with 3 guys.  I ended up looking for the first one with five guys on sites like this, I honestly wasn't very picky and I didn't love the experience.  For the two I've had with three guys I picked them up at a bar, they were all friends and I got looped into their groups and we were all having fun and I recommended heading up to my room.  They were all a little drunk and game for sex and I was enjoying their company.  I'm a pretty shamless flirt and I had them all hoping I'd pick them anyways so when I picked them all it was like Oprah's favorite things week, you get laid and you get laid and you get laid!  Everyone is getting laid!  Lol.  Anyways those experiences were great, but I've always preferred developing some chemistry before fucking someone.  I enjoy it way more.  Good luck babe, you got a pretty pussy by the way.

[BadCat 51]

12 minutes ago, JessicaJamison said:

Gang bangs are challenging, finding 5 guys you have chemistry with at the same time is tough, I've done one with 5 guys and two with 3 guys.  I ended up looking for the first one with five guys on sites like this, I honestly wasn't very picky and I didn't love the experience.  For the two I've had with three guys I picked them up at a bar, they were all friends and I got looped into their groups and we were all having fun and I recommended heading up to my room.  They were all a little drunk and game for sex and I was enjoying their company.  I'm a pretty shamless flirt and I had them all hoping I'd pick them anyways so when I picked them all it was like Oprah's favorite things week, you get laid and you get laid and you get laid!  Everyone is getting laid!  Lol.  Anyways those experiences were great, but I've always preferred developing some chemistry before fucking someone.  I enjoy it way more.  Good luck babe, you got a pretty pussy by the way.

I was never as free as you lol. I don’t feel I missed out too much because we can’t change the past anyway. But it does make it scary because I am not a shameless flirt lol and I just can hide my sheltered roots. But I do like the idea of going to a hotel bar, travelers seem pretty obvious, feels dumb I didn’t think of that 

[JessicaJamison 861]

20 minutes ago, BadCat said:

I was never as free as you lol. I don’t feel I missed out too much because we can’t change the past anyway. But it does make it scary because I am not a shameless flirt lol and I just can hide my sheltered roots. But I do like the idea of going to a hotel bar, travelers seem pretty obvious, feels dumb I didn’t think of that 

So hotel bars are great cause there are rooms upstairs, guys tend to not be driving so they drink a little more than normal making them easy pickings, and often guys in a hotel bar are looking to be a little naughty.  Flirting is easy, give them the blinky blinky eyes, touch their arms and hands, rub a hand across their necks and shoulders, compliment them, tell them they look so rugged, i love it.  Wink, smile, etc.  When I hear them make a flirty comment I make it dirty.  Then when everyone is feeling good, say "you should come up and see the view from my room,  I look fantastic", they will ask which one of them you'd like to accompany you.  Then you look at each one and say "hmmmm I think all of you is about the right number, I'm feeling pretty frisky.  Let's go, room 310, I will most definitely be naked in the next 10 minutes."  Stand up and start walking.  Another line that will work guaranteed, "OK guys it is late and I will be fucking having sex in 10 minutes with or without you, room 310 bring your friends.  I got needs."  I promise you they will follow like love sick puppies.   

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Search is your friend:

Best thought is to find a swingers club and ask them about arranging something. It might just be showing up on a busy Saturday night or they might want to set something special up but make sure that you ask them first.

 

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Some Swingers’ Clubs host gangbang parties.  We have a friend in NY who hosted them ( pre-Covid). You can also see them listed on SLS and other swinging sites.

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We have a friend who organizes gangbangs, which he calls multiple man parties because it sounds less ominous.

I can't find the quote for this but I do remember someone saying that trying to set a gangbang up is very hard because the guys all too often flake out. You schedule 5 guys and only two show up, but you try to schedule 10 guys, hoping that at least 5 show up...then what do you do when all 10 show (at some point you are just going to get very sore and want it to end if you have too many guys). Best to either start small...one or two guys that you can vet and know that they will show and have been tested and work your way to bigger groups, but clubs are the best way since you KNOW that most of the guys there are interested in having sex instead of just being excited about the thought of having sex.

[Lovelytaco69 0]

On 11/23/2020 at 1:16 PM, GoldCoCouple said:

"the guys all too often flake out. "

 

That is a fact. The ladies in our experience have always been all about it. But every dude invited has gotten gun shy and flaked out.