First time was great

[Johnnsue 3]

We were talking one nite about our fantasies and I asked what good are fantasies if you dont live one out once in a while.  Surprisingly she agreed and we discussed the ones we would be comfortable doing.  Group and foursomes we agreed on.

    A month later we connected with an experienced couple who went at our pace.  The first time we soft swapped.  I saw her going down orally onnthe other guy and that was the most aroused I had ever been.  

    On the way home she confessed she would like to full swap with them and two weeks later we met again and had a mind blowing great time.  Seeing her have mind blowing orgasms with another guy was my favorite.  Of course I had fun as well

 

Anxious to hear how others first discussed getting into swinging and what the first time was like

[BadCat 51]

Ours was awkward, very fun but awkward. I didn’t cum but they both did lol. We’ve had mostly good experience but it’s just so hard to find new people with everything else going on in our lives.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Welcome to the club. Your official T shirt and membership card will be in the mail. Congrats on having a relationship great enough for you both to be able to experience this together!

[Idahocouple6969 294]

Our 1st full was good for me anyway. For Mrs ID not so much. I am pretty sure they were not completely honest about their experience or lack thereof. He had whiskey dick so when we got home we had amazing sex at 4 in the morning. 

[Deadeye 24]

I go way back to 1977 an adult only Apartments met a lady 23 years old laying around the pool naked. She asked me if I like what I I was looking at. I said I love what I'm looking at she said you want to have sex follow me. I went to her apartment have a girlfriend lives there I fucked both of them. She said you want to go to a party tonight sure. We walked in it was a swinger party. I watch two men fuck the woman and I just met. While I fuck your girlfriend. Then we went back to her apartment. I was fucking her and she push me down between my legs and I ate her pussy after those two men fucked her how do I get first creampie I ate that wasn't mine. Well I A year later we married. And had many many sexual Adventures.

[Playman64 205]

I was a single guy in the military. I was at a bar having lunch. Then a last walked up and asked are you in the military, I said yes, she said please join us at the table.  We sat an talked, I was from Oregon, they were from South Carolina. 
loved their accent and she was hot.  
 
I said I need to get back to my barracks, they invited me to their motel to visit more. Sure, we got there had a couple drinks, sometime she went and changed into T shirt & shorts.  She & I started talking, he put music on, we started dancing. 
 

As we danced she got super close, whispered grab my ass, I looked at hubby, he smiled. Started kissing, the rest is history.  Her pussy tasted so beautiful.  
 

Afterwards we laid their and talked and she said she was a cougar, and I was the fourth guy in 2 days to fuck her. I told her she was my first married lady and my first adult 3some. That started my swinging life with couples.  
 

then years later I would get married and get my first wife into swinging.  

[Numex 2,409]

On 1/22/2021 at 10:11 PM, Deadeye said:

I was fucking her and she push me down between my legs and I ate her pussy after those two men fucked her how do I get first creampie I ate that wasn't mine. Well I A year later we married.

You did the right thing.

[Numex 2,409]

On 12/2/2020 at 1:36 PM, Johnnsue said:

Anxious to hear how others first discussed getting into swinging and what the first time was like

Unfortunately, I wasn't there.  My wife and I agreed that she should play with an ex.  The first couple of dozen times they did it alone.  But the follow up, sloppy seconds sex was great for me (and her).  Eventually we did MFMs and now couples swaps, which are great too, but her first time stepping out was unbearably exciting.

[couplers 4,614]

On 12/2/2020 at 1:36 PM, Johnnsue said:

Anxious to hear how others first discussed getting into swinging

It wasn't discussed until after it happened.  I broke up with my fiancé, and move out but we kept seeing each other, screwing.  I started dating a new guy who would become my husband and we started screwing.  It wasn't spoken, but you could say that there was no expectation of monogamy.  When all became know to my husband-to-be, he was good with it, understanding, even happy for me.  I told my ex of developments all along and he was just glad we were still seeing each other.  Both were monogamous with me for two years, until I thought they should play.  We three are still are still together, with two other women and a batch of wild children.

 

On 12/2/2020 at 1:36 PM, Johnnsue said:

and what the first time was like

Regardless of what you define as the "first time" (first time screwing both the same day, when hubby first knew about my ex, our first threesome), the feeling was the same - I felt powerful, loved, confident, free, beautiful, getting what I deserved; it seemed so normal and natural.

Edited February 3, 2021 by couplers

[Baconheads 431]

On 1/22/2021 at 10:11 PM, Deadeye said:

I go way back to 1977 an adult only Apartments met a lady 23 years old laying around the pool naked. She asked me if I like what I I was looking at. I said I love what I'm looking at she said you want to have sex follow me. I went to her apartment have a girlfriend lives there I fucked both of them. She said you want to go to a party tonight sure. We walked in it was a swinger party. I watch two men fuck the woman and I just met. While I fuck your girlfriend. Then we went back to her apartment. I was fucking her and she push me down between my legs and I ate her pussy after those two men fucked her how do I get first creampie I ate that wasn't mine. Well I A year later we married. And had many many sexual Adventures.

A keeper!

[Eddiem 139]

On 12/2/2020 at 9:36 PM, Johnnsue said:

We were talking one nite about our fantasies and I asked what good are fantasies if you dont live one out once in a while.  Surprisingly she agreed and we discussed the ones we would be comfortable doing.  Group and foursomes we agreed on.

    A month later we connected with an experienced couple who went at our pace.  The first time we soft swapped.  I saw her going down orally onnthe other guy and that was the most aroused I had ever been.  

    On the way home she confessed she would like to full swap with them and two weeks later we met again and had a mind blowing great time.  Seeing her have mind blowing orgasms with another guy was my favorite.  Of course I had fun as well

 

Anxious to hear how others first discussed getting into swinging and what the first time was like

Ok where to start...We were introduced to the lifestyle (concept) by a trusted friend and his wife who were living a lifestyee (work, kids) like us. No we did not hop in the bed with them but it started with a good old friend who went through a divorce. We were visiting the area where he lives for a week some years back and well had some mojitos with some friends and later went out for a bite to eat. We three returned to our hotel room at a local Inn. We shared some stories and a little more wine. My SO´s neck and shoulders were tight from our long flights. He is an expert at back massages... long story short... as he massaged my SO I came over and kissed her, then her neck and slowly worked my way down her shoulders and grabbed her breasts. She enjoyed it. His hands with my permission and hers slowly moved down her back toward her breasts where he glanced them. 

 

This unreal erotic experience kept going as she laid back on his chest, I caressed her chest slowly removing her blouse and began kissing her chest and sides. We moved around a bit on the bed and began kissing her stomacn and inner thighs. We cahnged positions I moved to the side while he moved between her legs. I began rubbing her pussy through her panties and got her super hot, I slowly removed her panties and began from the side kissing her lips. As he sat there he began kissing her stomach and then inner thighs. She said nothing but moaned pleasure. 

 

I kissed her breasts and neck again as he leaned up and she slowly massaged his cock through his pants and finally I nodded to him and he unbuckled his jeans. She stroked his cock and I began moving down her stomach again. 

 

Ok.. the part I will never forget was when he moved again in between her legs, looked at me if it was ok I nodded yes and asked her if it was ok. She said... oh yes... and his cock started stroking her pussy not entering but slowly. We kissed and I watched as he he slowly pushed in... he could not hold out any more, his cock was soaked with her moisture and his precum probably. As he entered her she turned her focus slowly to him... I felt like a bystander as he thrusted.... her back arched and her nipples hardened. I assume she was orgasming ... I could see by the thrusts he was about to cum, he looked at me, pulled out his cock as to unload on her stomach and she grabs his hips and ass and pulls him in.He looks to me I nod against my hearts wishes.."yes"... he pushes into her again a few more thrusts and says.."I Am going to cum... oh I am going to cum inside you..." She said.."yes... yes... cum inside me... please spray inside me..."... as he does... she moans.."Oh I want you to put your seed in me... please please" and he does. 

 

It was a roller coaster... of emotions. As they finished she stroked my cock a few times and that was it... for me. He looks at her and say I want you to clean me up...  she leans forward and sucks his cock dry. Just an amazing experience. 

 

That being said... wow

[couplers 4,614]

59 minutes ago, Eddiem said:

It was a roller coaster... of emotions.

For me it still is, especially the jealousy, which now is my addiction.  My reaction when I was jealous that my husband was pleasing and being pleased by someone who was just "another woman" was only the start.  As my Lesbian side developed, two of those women became my lovers and life partners.  We closed our family to two men and three women and we had children together.  Now when hubby or Red has sex with Clair or Lora, I become jealous from both sides, wondering why he chose her pussy instead of mine to satisfy himself and why she needed his dick instead my lips and tongue.  It hurts emotionally and almost physically.  But afterwards when I get one (or both!) of them back sexually hours or even a day later, it is so satisfying, I can't wait for it to happen again.  That's why for me FFM threesomes are the most satisfying arrangement.

Edited May 4, 2021 by couplers

[Eddiem 139]

18 hours ago, couplers said:

For me it still is, especially the jealousy, which now is my addiction.  My reaction when I was jealous that my husband was pleasing and being pleased by someone who was just "another woman" was only the start.  As my Lesbian side developed, two of those women became my lovers and life partners.  We closed our family to two men and three women and we had children together.  Now when hubby or Red has sex with Clair or Lora, I become jealous from both sides, wondering why he chose her pussy instead of mine to satisfy himself and why she needed his dick instead my lips and tongue.  It hurts emotionally and almost physically.  But afterwards when I get one (or both!) of them back sexually hours or even a day later, it is so satisfying, I can't wait for it to happen again.  That's why for me FFM threesomes are the most satisfying arrangement.

I can see that couplers...  ours has been MFM... she does not want another woman, not because she is jealous of me enjoying it but she does not like the thought of having sex with another woman. For me... after the initial defences came down she welcomed his cock and seed like a horny teen. The thought of him in her was hot and emotional but when he came it was like everything changed... the next day I could only think of his sperm in her. odd..

[couplers 4,614]

2 hours ago, Eddiem said:

... the next day I could only think of his sperm in her.

I don't think hubby or Red care either way, but same for me.  I like it when a man ejaculates inside me. It is likely a result of my Catholic schooling, sex education, called "Family Health," was taught totally from the viewpoint of biology and reproduction. So when I have sex with a guy I always think about what's going on inside at a microscopic level, even when not trying to get pregnant. It's also why it's so much more of a turn on for a guy to ejaculate his sperm into my vagina than into either end of my digestive system. Those sperm can live inside my vagina and uterus for days, and it's a turn on having a living part of a guy (or two or three) inside me.  That's been true for years now.