AnasnaCpl 0 Posted December 5, 2020 (edited) OK for the Ladies: Questions for the first time you and your Hubby decided you would have a same room experience with another couple. Did you watch what your Hubby was doing before you followed suit? Did you have reservations or limit how far you show go knowing he is watching? Did you want to go beyond your usual sex routine you have with your spouse? Were you comfortable accommodating you new partners request? How far out of the married box have you gone? Do you prefer same room or separate rooms? Edited December 5, 2020 by AnasnaCpl Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 847 Posted December 5, 2020 Hi Guessing you are new on here 40 minutes ago, AnasnaCpl said: Did you watch what your Hubby was doing before you followed suit? No. He may have watched me to make sure I wasn’t upset. 42 minutes ago, AnasnaCpl said: Did you have reservations or limit how far you show go knowing he is watching? Definitely not. I did what I was comfortable doing. 43 minutes ago, AnasnaCpl said: Did you want to go beyond your usual sex routine you have with your spouse? There was another girlfriend involved so that right away is beyond our normal routine. 46 minutes ago, AnasnaCpl said: Were you comfortable accommodating you new partners request? I don’t think I did anything I was uncomfortable doing. 47 minutes ago, AnasnaCpl said: How far out of the married box have you gone? Another state. We have done with others the same we have done at home. 48 minutes ago, AnasnaCpl said: Do you prefer same room or separate rooms? Depending on the situation. There are times I have enjoyed one on one with a partner. 1 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
AnasnaCpl 0 Posted December 5, 2020 How far out of the married box have you gone? I was thin k how far sexually did you go out of the Box? Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 847 Posted December 6, 2020 4 hours ago, AnasnaCpl said: How far out of the married box have you gone? I was thin k how far sexually did you go out of the Box? The furthest I have gone is playing with my girlfriends and having sex. There is no way my husband can duplicate what two girlfriends can do. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
JessicaJamison 861 Posted December 8, 2020 (edited) On 12/5/2020 at 3:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: Did you watch what your Hubby was doing before you followed suit? I think he watched me more, as I am the more liberated one sexually speaking. Quote Did you have reservations or limit how far you show go knowing he is watching? Yes, I did, I was concerned about how he'd feel if I let loose and really showed my pleasure as I normally would. My husband is a lover, which I enjoy, so sex between is is intimate, sweet and loving. When I'm with another man I'm much more forceful and loud, I like it dirty and rough. Physically I react differently to that, and I was worried he would be bothered by it. Quote Did you want to go beyond your usual sex routine you have with your spouse? Yes, I am looking for a different experience, otherwise I would just be with my husband. Quote Were you comfortable accommodating you new partners request? More so,, If we are in seperate rooms. Just depends on the request. Quote How far out of the married box have you gone? I have been a hotwife for 5 years and travel a couple times a month for work, and frequently pick up play partners solo. We also enjoy full swap, and have our favorite full swap couple staying with us temporarily. So I'm pretty far out outside of conventional marriage. Quote Do you prefer same room or separate rooms? Seperate rooms is the best. I like knowing he is having fun and that I can have fun and say whatever I want in the heat of the moment with out an audience. Edited December 8, 2020 by JessicaJamison Typo Quote Share this post Link to post
discreetplay 235 Posted December 8, 2020 OK for the Ladies: Questions for the first time you and your Hubby decided you would have a same room experience with another couple. Did you watch what your Hubby was doing before you followed suit? We always start with the ladies playing, so he and the other husband watches. They'll join via oral (giving or receiving). Then eventually we'll move to intercourse. Did you have reservations or limit how far you show go knowing he is watching? No, we discussed our entry into the lifestyle for awhile and started with a soft swap encounter. It pretty much ended up with just the ladies paying and the guys staying with their own partner. Our second encounter we went full swap. Again, we discussed ahead of time what our limits were, and went for it. It was so hot. Afterwards we talked about what went well, what went bad. For the most part, everything went well. Did you want to go beyond your usual sex routine you have with your spouse? We're in the lifestyle to experience things we can't do together. Our sex at home has no limits and is incredible. However, he cannot replicate a woman's touch, he cannot replicate me orally pleasing a woman, he can't replicate me being overwhelmed with two other men while a woman orally pleases me, etc. So I guess we do go beyond our usual routine, only because our 'routine' has limits. Were you comfortable accommodating you new partners request? I've never been asked to do anything outside the norm. I'm not sure I understand this question. How far out of the married box have you gone? As noted above, we are full swap. Is that the question? Do you prefer same room or separate rooms? We always do same room because of why we're here (mentioned above). We aren't looking to just pair up with another person. We like watching each other in situations that out beyond our capabilities. My husband loves to watch me with a woman, with a couple. Being in a separate room with another person doesn't fulfill the goal. Quote Share this post Link to post
Idahocouple6969 294 Posted December 14, 2020 On 12/8/2020 at 9:57 AM, discreetplay said: Sorry hijacked your form! And this is my opinion (male) On 12/8/2020 at 9:57 AM, discreetplay said: Did you watch what your Hubby was doing before you followed suit? No she might smile or touch my arm. Did you have reservations or limit how far you show go knowing he is watching? Oh HELL no! Did you want to go beyond your usual sex routine you have with your spouse? Absolutely! I want her to have the most awesome sex ever. What's the point of having the same sex you have at home. Were you comfortable accommodating you new partners request? Yes I get great satisfaction out of pleasing my partner. How far out of the married box have you gone? We are not even in the same universe anymore. I had promised my wife that if she was game to try something I wouldn't say no. So we were into BDSM before swinging. Yeah THAT has gotten really wild. It's something we enjoy together but never push it mostly because. Do you prefer same room or separate rooms? Same room. This is a team sport. For us it's a hobby and a social thing. We like having our naughty secrets. And...... well we just like fucking other people. We have been together for so long that we know what the other likes/dislikes. We do have an understanding that at a party or event that if one of us happens to hook up alone we don't have a problem. Same if one of us happens to be out of town. TBH we have evolved to not having many rules we have a few things we don't like. We just like going out having mind blowing sex going home and have more mind blowing sex together. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,640 Posted December 14, 2020 (edited) On 12/5/2020 at 1:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: OK for the Ladies I may not be considered a lady, but I am female, so here goes: On 12/5/2020 at 1:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: Questions for the first time you and your Hubby decided you would have a same room experience with another couple. We both had played alone and in MFM, FFM situations where we were the MF couple before ever having a same room couples' swap, so it wasn't that big a leap or anything novel. On 12/5/2020 at 1:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: Did you watch what your Hubby was doing before you followed suit? No, we just started with our swap partners. On 12/5/2020 at 1:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: Did you have reservations or limit how far you show go knowing he is watching? No, hubby had seen me previously engaged in various sex acts with my boyfriend. On 12/5/2020 at 1:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: Did you want to go beyond your usual sex routine you have with your spouse? No, I had already done the same things with my boyfriend that I do with hubby, and more actually (dick-in-bum anal). On 12/5/2020 at 1:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: Were you comfortable accommodating you new partners request? Sure, nothing that I hadn't done before MFMing in front of hubby. On 12/5/2020 at 1:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: How far out of the married box have you gone? Full-on Lesbian, I guess. On 12/5/2020 at 1:27 PM, AnasnaCpl said: Do you prefer same room or separate rooms? If it is a swap, I prefer to start together in the same room to watch them some and set the mood, then go off to separate rooms. But that is for an MF/MF swap - other combinations, like FFM which is my favorite either with hubby or another couple, I prefer that we stay together. Edited December 14, 2020 by couplers Quote Share this post Link to post
