Fantasizing during sex with SO?

[David Lovell 160]

Do you and your SO fantasize while having sex? What are your greatest fantasies?

Amy just told me that when we make love she fantisizes that I am her lover. This started after the first time her and Ken had sex together and she experienced lots of new things. Now when she rides on top she pretends that it's Ken filling her pussy with cum. I must confess that somegimes when I am about to cum I think about my first bareback sex. 

[MidwestHoneys 358]

I lived out my fantasy when I had sex with my wife and this other beautiful girl   I would say it was a fantasy fulfilled. 

[PSULioness 842]

1 hour ago, MidwestHoneys said:

I lived out my fantasy when I had sex with my wife and this other beautiful girl   I would say it was a fantasy fulfilled. 

My husband said that to me too but he also said having sex with me was like a fantasy. 

[Baconheads 432]

I often fantasize that when my wife is riding me, that a "friend" is licking her butt.  I've told her of this fantasy and it's quite arousing.

[Numex 2,415]

When my wife and I are playing, what we are doing or what I am seeing is more than enough for me, so I don't fantasizing. 

 

If it is just my wife and I, I'm usually playing over in my head what she's done before, usually with another guy, or couple.  What's interesting to me is that these are usually times when I either wasn't there or was busy with another wife, not paying close attention to what Daniela was doing.  But weeks or months later I'll be making love to my wife and that specific time will come into my mind (and my mind will make me cum).

 

The most persistent fantasy/memories are when we first started in the lifestyle, my wife would play alone (separately) with two ex-boyfriends, and then "bring it home."  During our sex afterwards the imagining of what she had just done drove me crazy. Even though we subsequently had MFMs with both of them and I got to see the "real thing," thinking of what they did together, alone after not having fucked for several years, is something my mind keeps going back to. 

Edited January 5, 2021 by Numex

[Anon321 522]

20 minutes ago, Numex said:

When my wife and I are playing, what we are doing or what I am seeing is more than enough for me, so I don't fantasizing. 

 

If it is just my wife and I, I'm usually playing over in my head what she's done before, usually with another guy, or couple.  What's interesting to me is that these are usually times when I either wasn't there or was busy with another wife, not paying close attention to what Daniela was doing.  But weeks or months later I'll be making love to my wife and that specific time will come into my mind (and my mind will make me cum).

 

The most persistent fantasy/memories are when we first started in the lifestyle, my wife would play alone (separately) with two ex-boyfriends, and then "bring it home."  During our sex afterwards the imagining of what she had just done drove me crazy. Even though we subsequently had MFMs with both of them and I got to see the "real thing," thinking of what they did together, alone after not having fucked for several years, is something my mind keeps going back to. 

Pretty much the exact same thing for me.  I don't really fantasize about other women when having sex with my GF but I will think about times she had sex with other guys especially if I wasn't there.  It could be some guys she sucked off at a bar a few weeks back or how she fucked her boss at work earlier that day.  Either way I enjoy both thinking about it and hearing her tell me the stories before and during sex.

 

My GF know I love this stuff so she will sometime send me texts about sex she just had with a guy or pictures of it.  One time we were having sex doggy style talking about it and she handed me her cell phone and said click play.  I see her a video of her on her knees sucking some guy off until he cums on her face.  The video only lasted 2 minutes and so did I ?

[Numex 2,415]

12 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

 

My GF know I love this stuff so she will sometime send me texts about sex she just had with a guy or pictures of it.

I don't get texts or pictures, just sloppy seconds, which I prefer. 

[Anon321 522]

44 minutes ago, Numex said:

I don't get texts or pictures, just sloppy seconds, which I prefer. 

I love the texts, pics, and vids.  I probably get more texts of pics and vids of my GF from my buddies because they are usually the ones filming and taking pics fucking her with their phones.  But even that is hotter to me for some reason.  I think it's just more naughtier and like to see her all slutty like that with someone else filming and taking pics.

[Numex 2,415]

3 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

pics and vids of my GF from my buddies

Aren't you worried about what could happen with pictures and videos?   Among our group our rule is no pictures.  Even though there is an extremely high level of trust among us (we're totally bareback), things can always be hacked or mistakenly revealed.

[Anon321 522]

19 minutes ago, Numex said:

Aren't you worried about what could happen with pictures and videos?   Among our group our rule is no pictures.  Even though there is an extremely high level of trust among us (we're totally bareback), things can always be hacked or mistakenly revealed.

She is an exhibitionist and likes to be filmed and have pictures taken.  Like I've said before, she is an adult and can make her own decisions.  Personally I would not allow anyone to use a camera if I'm involved as I do not want to be filmed or have pictures taken of me for those reasons.  She is different.  She enjoys the excitement of it.

[Numex 2,415]

14 hours ago, Anon321 said:

She is an exhibitionist and likes to be filmed and have pictures taken. 

She has no worries about family or career or children's school?

 

I don't deny that taking pictures or videos would be fun, and in a perfect world I would have no problem with people watching my wife licking a woman's pussy while being fucked by her husband.  In the world as it exists now, however, there would definitely be consequences.

 

One group who I admire greatly are the homosexuals who have stood up for their personal lives.  At great cost to many of them their sexual orientation may be privately criticized, but it is protected.

Edited January 6, 2021 by Numex

[Anon321 522]

45 minutes ago, Numex said:

She has no worries about family or career or children's school?

 

I don't deny that taking pictures or videos would be fun, and in a perfect world I would have no problem with people watching my wife licking a woman's pussy while being fucked by her husband.  In the world as it exists now, however, there would definitely be consequences.

 

One group who I admire greatly are the homosexuals who have stood up for their personal lives.  At great cost to many of them their sexual orientation may be privately criticized, but it is protected.

She doesn't have those worries now but you can argue that is because she is shortsighted.  She doesn't have any kids yet and has brought sex into her workplace so those don't seem to matter to her.  I'm not saying it won't be an issue down the line at some point but at this stage she doesn't care.  She just doesn't see it as a big deal.

[Numex 2,415]

2 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

at this stage she doesn't care.  She just doesn't see it as a big deal.

I admire her as a freedom fighter so to speak.  It is my hope that we can all get to that point, seeing it as no big deal, and there are no consequences.

[Anon321 522]

5 hours ago, Numex said:

I admire her as a freedom fighter so to speak.  It is my hope that we can all get to that point, seeing it as no big deal, and there are no consequences.

However there still are consequences for it today which is why I don't allow myself to be filmed.  But I do admire her attitude towards it.

[tkntd 59]

Yes! We often talk to each other like others are there - even asking questions designed to arouse or telling each other or the fantasy others things to do. It’s even more fun when we bring a toy or two to bed...

[reveur 60]

We do not dream our fantasy, we live it. Eantasy is the spice of our sex life.??

[The other side of us 23]

For me, at the moment any way, it's this (just bear in mind we haven't actually started to swing as yet)

We are at a club, taking everything in. We have met a guy that we get on with and Mrs certainly finds attractive. He's charming, funny and BBC.

We are in a quiet spot just chatting and I go to get us all drinks. On returning Mrs is sat on his lap he is sucking her tits and fingering her and she is moaning in pleasure and playing with his hard cock.

When they know i'm back she slide to the floor between his legs and starts to suck him off. I kneel behind her and start to finger her getting faster until she cums.

From there she's lies back on the bed, I climb on and with her legs over my shoulders start to fuck her. He pushes his cock back in to her mouth and she sucks for all she's worth.

Finally we all cum, me over her belly, her all over my balls and him over her tits.

 

Her fantasy is more simplistic and one she uses on a regular basis when she masterbates.

She wants to suck a line of cocksand have them cum on her tits. She hasn't said if she's on her knees working along the line on on her back with the line working its way through her.

 

In my head it's the second option so I can finger and lick her pussy as it's happening.

[hotwife70 593]

I fantasize to fuck both of her and her bestfriend and she knew it too.As for her,she would love to try a bigger cock she admitted.  

[couplers 4,638]

On 12/27/2020 at 4:22 PM, David Lovell said:

Do you and your SO fantasize while having sex?

For quite a while now, I fantasize that David is not my husband, is married to some other woman, and she lets me fuck him.  When he ejaculates, I feel like I'm stealing cum that belongs to another woman, his wife.

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

I've occasionally encouraged my wife to close her eyes while we're making love and fantasize about another guy she's had sex with recently. It is very erotic to see her eyes closed, and her moans getting more intense and she relives recent escapades.

 

Ok I have to go now hahahaha

[Numex 2,415]

On 12/28/2020 at 3:35 PM, Baconheads said:

a "friend" is licking her butt.

Male or female?

[Baconheads 432]

On 10/16/2022 at 2:45 PM, Numex said:

Male or female?

In  my fantasy, I'm not particular.