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We have been swinging for about two years now. My husband wants me to go out with this guy who has been flirting with me at work. He says the only rule is that I have to tell him everything that happens.

 

Do you think I should do this or not? :confused:

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That all depends...on a LOT of things...

 

Do you and your husband have an 'open marriage' as well as swinging?

 

Do you WANT to go out with this guy?

 

Is he pushing you to go out with this guy so he has an excuse to go out by himself?

 

You have LOTS to talk about before you make a move like this...

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Everyone is different and while this may work for you and your husband it didn't work for myself and my wife. Although, initially, it was a heckuva lot of fun :fun: .

 

When she went out I was charged with sexual tension (good) and anxiety (bad). We screwed like rabbits when she came back.

 

Then I went out and had fun with my friend. No problem.

 

Then she went out and became more emotionally involved than me. It has taken a long time and a very heavy toll on our relationship to get back on track.

 

My advice is to keep it a fantasy. Stick to swinging together and/or threesomes with hubby present or close by.

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I think that it begins to be difficult to view your activity as something you are doing together if/when you begin doing things apart from one another.

 

And try as you might, it will be difficult to convey "everything" that happens when you are apart. Especially the 'nuance' of a relationship that develops with the third party - which happens to some degree despite your intentions to the contrary.

 

Perhaps his desire to hear tales of separate activity could be satisfied by some separate room swinging. That would keep the accompanying time shared, prior to the actual act. And lessen the chance for the activity you describe to become divisive rather than a shared experience.

 

There may be some this has worked for, but I believe it is dangerous grounds to tread if you value the marriage relationship first and foremost. It becomes 'dating' and that is not a good thing, in my opinion.

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One thing we have decided is whatever happens it will ALWAYS be together.

 

The most important part of swinging for us is that it is something we share together.

 

If we go out seperately or not in the same room than we are not together and not sharing the experience.

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Dito for us, although, we tried something similar to what wildwife1010 described once and while it seemed like a good idea ahead of time, when she was actually doing it the wait and worry was excruciating for me, so we decided then and there we would always play together in the future and that has been one of the best decisions we ever made.

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Originally posted by wildwife1010

My husband wants me to go out with this guy who has been flirting with me at work.

 

This part concerns me. In addition to the problems it could cause at work, (even if nothing more than gossip) if you decide to end the relationship, it may not be comfortable seeing the other guy every day. Have you considered that it could cause you to have to find another job?

 

We once made the agreement that we could each have sex with our high school sweethearts, should the opportunity occur, because neither of us had done it back then. It caused us no problems. In fact it was fun because we plotted the "seductions" together over a period of months. Both live a long away, too, which made it easier.

 

We even had "code names" for the "operations." When my tryst happened, Mrs. Alura prepared us a "Hotel Kit" containing a scented candle, a bottle of wine & glasses, body oil, and some minor goodies. It was great fun. Unfortunately, she wasn't so successful. Her reunion comes up next year, though. ;)

 

As long as the most important thing in both of your lives is the two of you, you can probably pull it off, laughing all the way to your "Swing Scrapbook." But pick somebody away from work.

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Alura

 

I really liked reading about your "high school sweetheart" fantasies. It sounds like the perfect combination of sweet and heat.

 

I'm also glad you caught the work connection. That is true. We have a rule that we wouldn't play with anyone at work - though I suspect that is another one of our rules that would bend wildly if faced with the right circumstance - and, yes, Me and the missus have talked about a couple of "circumstances" that we get to work with on a daily basis. Her circumstance is tall and dark, mine looks an awful lot like Agent Scully from the X-files...

 

I've always been interested in trying this (Mrs. Spoo on a date alone), though I don't really think Mrs. Spoomonkey (who is shopping right now, so I can't get her input) would ever go for it. It has a lot of potential for some great anticipation - and a very fiery "welcome home." The farthest we have ever gone in that direction was me walking out of the room while Mrs Spoomonkey entertained a single male. Weird how that would be a turn on...

 

Likely that it will not happen - but you just never know. It is sobering to read accounts from those who have done it. There is a lot more to think about than just a fantasy. Reality is much more complicated.

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I agree with twoloves about keeping this a fantasy. Who wants to pee in your own pool anyway? :confused:

 

If I may suggest spicing up your workdays abit by making this a hot and heavy office flirtation? ;) Dress to the nines and flirt like mad. Talk to hubby about it and you may find yourself bringing all this exxciting energy home. :fun:

 

If the temptations are too great, plaster hubby's pics everywhere (your desk, wallet, a pic of the two of you on the office bulletin board if they allow personal stuff), have him phone more often and send you flowers every Friday. It always helps to schedule a nooner every now and then. You won't want to make this fantasy a reality once you realise it no longer will be.

 

With that in mind and hubby so hot to you, have fun!

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I believe that this would be living dangerously especially when a coworker is involved as Alura pointed out. This type of arrangement does work for some and can be very exciting when it doesn't cause harm to the primary relationship. Unfortunately it is difficult to tell in advance whether it will end up being a point of contention in your marriage. Some things you just can't take back, even if they were a mistake. Tread carefully and have fun in whatever you choose to do.

 

Annette

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Sounds like a story out of Penthouse Letters. The bottom line is to do what you all want to do and feel confortable with. There are only a couple of people I will let mrsVjk play with alone, and they are long time friends. There are just too many bad things that can happen for a woman playing alone. But that's us.

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Originally posted by Spoomonkey

It is sobering to read accounts from those who have done it. There is a lot more to think about than just a fantasy. Reality is much more complicated.

This sums it up. Read the experiences and thoughts of others. From there you should be able to determine if this is something right for you.

 

I especially agree with Vjklander....there are too many bad things that can happen to a woman playing alone, even in the world of single dating, swinging not considered.

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I agree with most everything in the posts already made, especially the fact that you should never mix work with pleasure, what you husband is wanting you to do is really not as uncommon as one might think.

 

Although it is not considered "swinging" in the general definition of the word (couples who play together) there is a subculture of playing that is know as "Hot Wives". There are swingers who do play like this but most in this kind of playing only want the wife to go out and have sex while the husband stays at home and waits for her to get home to tell him everything that happened.

 

Definitely not everyone's cup of tea but it seems to work for those who are into it.

 

Like Vjklander said, as well as others there are just to many bad things that can happen to a woman playing alone. It's definitely not something I want to do or would even feel comfortable doing but...the fantasy is nice to play around with :D

 

Teresa

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As we have four kids at home it is not always possible for the both of us to get out together. Because of this, I have no problem with the Mrs. going out and having some fun. The anticipation of her coming home after she's had some wild sex with someone else is what I find fantastic. She also video tapes the whole thing for us to watch later and next thing I know, we end up doing the nasty until morning.

 

I know this is not for everyone but when you have kids at home you have to get a bit creative sometimes. Believe me, she doesn't mind having 6 - 8 orgasms in one night.

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It depends on one thing. Do you want to do it? If you don't want to then no I don't think you should. If you do want to and there are no other factors that we are missing here (like the guy is married or something) then go for it and have fun. As long as your husband is involved and knowledgable as to what is going on then there's nothing wrong with it.

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I do not really work with the guy. He is a truck driver who comes into where I work three times a week. The only thing that might happen at work is some flirtation.

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I say go for it. If your hubby is ok with it, it may be a turn on to him to hear everything...like reading his own erotic story, but it really happened.

 

If you are not comfortable with it, then dont. But be sure if you do to talk it out with your husband about rules on what you can or cannot do.

 

Just my thought

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Originally posted by lcjtsd

The anticipation of her coming home after she's had some wild sex with someone else is what I find fantastic.

Dito to this sentiment. Though we've not done it in a long time--first a bad experience with a clingy guy got in the way, then the kids did--I'd love to exerience it again.

 

Just be sure your husband is up for it, because knowing you're out there with another guy, alone, and that it's too late to turn back or stop it, is very intense--especially the first time. As big as a turn-on as it can be, it's also gut-wrenching.

 

Of course, if he's really into it, that's half the fun, as lcjtsd points out. For me, the mixture of loss of control, anticipation, curiousity and plain old lust made it one of the hottest experiences I've ever had. Jealousy was an issue the first time, but once I worked that out--fear had a big part to do with it, and she convinced me that it was "just sex" ("Just sex" half a dozen times in one night, mind you, but "just sex!")--it was awesome.

 

The other half of the fun is once she gets back home. And while I wish I'd been as lucky as lcjtsd and had video to enjoy (Maybe next time?!), the combination of her worked up from what she'd done and me ready to keel over from pent-up horniness made for fireworks the minute she walked in the door.

 

Good luck if you decide to go through with it!

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Originally posted by leftcoastcouple

Just be sure your husband is up for it, because knowing you're out there with another guy, alone, and that it's too late to turn back or stop it, is very intense--especially the first time. As big as a turn-on as it can be, it's also gut-wrenching.

 

fear had a big part to do with it

 

the combination of her worked up from what she'd done and me ready to keel over from pent-up horniness made for fireworks the minute she walked in the door.

 

Yes, the first time is VERY intense. I think I must have wanted to call her and tell her to come home about a dozen times before she got there. And when I knew she was with this guy, my thoughts kept switching from "What the hell are we doing" to "Damn, why didn't I go with to watch/participate". When she finally returned home three hours later, she played the video and I got soooo hot and horny. I was actually shaking like it was the first time I'd ever had sex. It was great!

 

No it's not for everyone but for those times when both of you just can't get away, it's a great alternative!

 

I don't know if we're just lucky or what but the two single guys Mrs. LCJTSD get together with have no problem at all with the video part. Just ask.

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i would rather that you do it with your husband watching and close by. Being solo means enjoying yourself without the benefit of your husband.Do a sandwich if youd prefer...hmmm... looks promising

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This thread interested me. I am a lurker, but enjoy this community of people. I am impressed by your openness, your level of commitment and your ability to still enjoy sex with other people.

 

I am interested that some people in this group think that swinging alone is risky. Since I don't swing, I would point out that any form of swinging is risky. More risk than my wife would ever consider. For most of you, you have moved to a place in your relationship where swinging as couples no longer feels risky to you. But you must not forget that at one time swinging as a couple was risky and arguably still is risky.

 

Given this, I would have to assume that it isn't really much more risk to swing alone. It is simply a question of where you decide to draw the risk line. For most of you, it is already pretty high. But likewise for most of you, your level of commitment and the security most of you feel in each other's life seems to overcome that. But it did strike me as interesting that swinging alone seems so risky to so many on this board, yet no one has mentioned that any form of swinging is risky.

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Originally posted by tmyis

Since I don't swing, I would point out that any form of swinging is risky.

 

But it did strike me as interesting that swinging alone seems so risky to so many on this board, yet no one has mentioned that any form of swinging is risky.

 

I would like to point out a couple of things to you.

 

First, You are NOT a swinger! Therefore you have no idea of what the lifestyle is like, or about. You cannot judge something you don't know on your assumptions. You do not know the precautions taken by most in this lifestyle.

 

Second, this thread was about a woman having sex without her partner present, not about the other risks of swinging. We as swingers are aware of the risks we may face. They are no more than that of a sexually active single, save the relationship factor.

 

There is a whole forum dedicated to this subject. You can read more at the STD/Safesex Forum.

 

Thus the reason for no discussion in this thread about the risks you perceived we failed to talk about. :rolleyes:

 

Thank you for you interest, and your opinion.

 

mrs hmr

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It finally happened last night. I had my date and got home around daylight today.

 

It was fun and we both had a great time. I woke hubby up by going down on him, I was so horney. It really turned me on to know that he trusted me enough to allow me to have fun. When I came home our sex together was treat, thanks for the advice.

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:claps: Glad you had fun! I'm surprised you had to wake hubby up. My hubby was so excited that he couldn't sleep.

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Me and the wife actually have never done a couple thing, we have both played separately. We have done several mfm's but that all started after she went out with him a few times alone. Even now she is still seeing him alone...After all it is just sex...

 

We have 1 rule, any of us, me, or even him can call it off.

 

My advice is if you do it, be open about feelings towards him...And watch for any jealousy.

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Originally posted by hmr

Thus the reason for no discussion in this thread about the risks you perceived we failed to talk about.

I could be wrong, but I didn't get the impression that tmyis was talking about risks in the form of STDs and safe sex. I read his message as saying that the risks to a relationship posed by engaging in separate activities are similar to those posed by swinging in general. With both ventures, there is the risk of jealousy, or of things turning into "more than sex." For this reason I am somewhat astonished by the number of swingers who are adamantly opposed to swinging separately.

 

The way Piggy and I see it is that one of the main reasons our relationship is so strong is that we allow each other a degree of independence. Although we have never had sex without the other there, neither of us really sees a problem with it. On a couple of occasions I have had to head out before her in the morning, leaving her in bed with someone else. Nothing happened aside from some cuddling, but I don't see it being an issue if she had decided to go for a morning romp after I'd left!

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I agree if you are questioning it don't do it. I guess I should say I agree with not doing it! Sounds like it could be a disaster for the relationship. Don't get caught up in the rush of things.

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:confused: Ok, I thought I was intelligent, but now I'm not so sure. Is there a difference between swinging and an open marriage? It would explain a lot of things

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:confused: Ok, I thought I was intelligent, but now I'm not so sure. Is there a difference between swinging and an open marriage? It would explain a lot of things

 

Well, we were going to try to clearly define swinging and open relationships, and then compare and contrast them. However, we realized that, although we know they're different (we've done both), it's not that easy to do.

 

If we had to give an answer at gun-point, it would be communication, communication, communication. Swingers communicate their intrest, desires, and feelings about everything. They communicate the rules/boundaries. They communicate what they've done, and what they would like to do in the future.

 

Our "open relationship" nearly ended our marriage. The only thing open in that kind of lifestyle is your fly... From the beginning it was doomed to fail, and it took us over 10 years to build things back, and correct our mistakes.

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Now realizing this, I can see why I nearly destroyed my own.

 

I had confused the two terms, thinking that swinging meant seeing other people without the other spouse present. Of course, I was looking at the swingers boards, and could not understand why no one wanted a single guy, and felt hurt that my wife was getting all the play. I realize now what OUR mistakes were.

 

Communication - a lack of it.

 

Jealousy-which will not go away.

 

Misrepresentation-on both our parts.

 

And to top it all off, a messed up definition. :lol:

 

Thankfully we are working on it, but it was bad for a while.

 

So thanks for the proper definition, I will chalk all of it up to a learning experience.

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wildwife1010 said:
We have been swinging for about two years now. My husband wants me to go out with this guy who has been flirting with me at work. He says the only rule is that I have to tell him everything that happens. Do you think I should do this or not?

 

Isn't it the same thing that you have been doing...Swinging, just without him there.

 

He has said that it is OK, if you like the guy and you find him attractive go for it.

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The work issue is a big red flag, in my opinion.

 

Also ... if this other man does not have swing experience, I would be very suspicious of his motives. His interest in you may be more than sexual, though he might deny it. Or his interest might grow because he sees sex as equal to a "dating" relationship. Or perhaps he is one of those men who seeks the ego boost of coming between a wife and husband. Any of these scenarios is a major mismatch with your and your husband's motives ... which sets up at a minimum annoyance, at a maximum bad feelings all around. (And perhaps job-hunting on your part.)

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    • By HotwifeHusband
      The three of us started our drive to Mexico with great anticipation of seeing Tijuana and sightseeing in San Diego and the Hollywood/LA area.  The first day of driving ended on the Mexican border in a town called San Ysidro, just across from Tijuana.  Sue looked up at me and eagerly asked, "Whose bed am I in tonight?"  I couldn't help but say, "Dan's...as long as you're still ok with everything?"  She replied that she didn't want to be asked if she was ok with something every time "something" was taking place as it took away from the experience.  And with that she said, "It's been a long drive. I need to take a shower before I go to bed and suggest you both do the same."  She then went into the shower. 
       
      I told Dan that he should set the tone for the week and begin it by joining Sue in the shower...but I wanted him to leave the door open so I could look in.  He was happy to oblige. 
       
      I looked in on them a couple of times and enjoyed watching them together.  I saw Sue through the glass shower door, naked as naked gets, and she was smiling up at his face while gently soaping up her hands as she wrapped them both around his  now erect cock and gently caressed his rod and balls.  Dan told her he wanted to fuck her in the shower and she said he could another day but for tonight she wanted them to enjoy each other in the comfort of their bed.
       
      I was lying back on my bed as they came out of the shower, both of them with towels wrapped around themselves.  Dan put underwear on and Sue quickly told him not to bother and to just get under the covers naked.  I headed to the shower.  When I came out of the shower I walked into the room and saw the beautiful sight of Sue's pussy being thoroughly licked and sucked on by Dan's tongue and mouth.  For some reason the fact she still had on a shear yellow teddy on that wasn't tied at the front was also a turn-on.  Her tits were easily seen and occasionally her erect nipples would pop out from the side. 
       
      I got into the other queen-size bed and said, "Have fun, I'm going to sleep." That turned out to be more difficult than I anticipated as I caught myself watching them as Sue straddled on Dan as his cock started the process of taking over ownership of my girlfriends cunt.  A cunt that was making it obvious that she was into this 100%.  I watched as Dan took control of her entire body, touching every inch of it, and telling her how good her body felt to his hands and body.  
       
      Dan's fucking motion took on a different pace and Sue told him to stop.  He looked at her with a confused face and asked, "Is everything ok?" Sue gave the reminder that she didn't want to be asked that question again and was committed to the week.
       
      Instead she slowly raised herself off his cock which now had a shine to it from her pussy juice and told him to close his eyes until she said to open them.  Dan did as he was told and she very slowly lowered herself back on his shaft and told him to concentrate on her motions as she wanted to make sure he knew what the inside of her pussy felt like. 
       
      She slowly rode up and down a few times before Dan said he didn't think he could hold it much longer.  She then told Dan to open her eyes and to listen to what she had to say.  As Dan opened his eyes Sue looked at me and asked if this was something I 100% wanted to happen? 
       
      I already had pre-cum dripping from my cock and was hard as a rock and said, "I love you enough that if you are enjoying this you can do this every night this week." 
       
      She replied to me, "Be careful what you wish for." With that she looked at Dan and said, "I belong to you, Dan. I want this as much as you do and starting right now I am yours for the rest of the week. In fact, as of right now, I will be sleeping with you, in your bed, every night."  She then looked at me and said, "Don't worry, you'll still get yours."
       
      She returned her focus to Dan as he started fucking her hard again and she let out "I"m cumming" as she then collapsed with her tits now firmly resting on his chest.  She raised herself back up on him and told him, "Give it to me. I don't want you to stop until you are finishing cumming inside of me." As Dan was moaning into his final grunts all I heard was Sue telling him, "You know I want to be yours all week. You own me all week. Take me, take all of me."
       
      This went on every day. Even during the day sightseeing she'd be holding my hand sometime and other times she'd be holding Dan's as we walked Tijuana, visited San Diego, and hit the tourist sights of Hollywood. 
       
      Our last night in Los Angeles, Dan was talking about the week exceeding even his fantasies, but there was one thing he thought of that he'd like to do if Sue would be ok with it.  I had enjoyed the week so much that I immediately said, "Sure!"  We all laughed, but Sue said she wanted to know what it was before she agreed to anything because she couldn't think of anything they hadn't done. 
       
      Dan said he'd love it if when we got up in the morning to shower before our drive back to school, that he'd love to shave her pussy because he thought that would be pretty erotic.  It caught Sue and I off-guard a little bit as we had never even thought about that.  I had told Sue how much it turned me on hearing her say things to Dan like how bad she wanted him inside of her, and how he did such a great job fucking her, and how she wanted him to know exactly how she looked naked and she wanted him to know how her entire body felt.  So I truly believe she was intentionally turning me on when she responded, "I've never shaved there before, and I like the idea of ending our week with you being the first one to shave me in such an intimate way."  I responded with only if I get to watch. 
       
      So the next morning the two of them were about to go into the shower when Dan said he was ready. As Sue and I walked into the bathroom he picked her up and put her on the towel he had laid out on the counter by the sink.  He ran some warm water and gently soaped up all around her cunt and carefully started to shave her mound.  He took his time as he gently would spread her pussy lips being careful not to nick anything. 
       
      When he was done, he took one hand and spread her pussy, exposing her clit for both of us to see, and suggested that we both feel how smooth she now felt.  It was great as you can imagine. 
       
      Sue then said it was time to get in the shower and that she felt since Dan had done all the work, that he should be the first one ever to fuck her shaved pussy.  It was a fact that would later become a fairly constant comment over the following years.  It was now time to head back to college.
       
      Part 4 of Sue's hotwife story...
    • By HotwifeHusband
      We both had graduated from college and Sue saw an ad from a local modeling agency looking for male and female models.  She set up an interview and was hired. 
       
      Her first modeling assignment was a "fashion show" for Fredericks of Hollywood clothing.  This was similar to what she had done once in college so she decided to do it again. 
       
      The fashion show was in the next town and was at a person's home.  When we both got there we were greeted by the hostess from the modeling agency, and about a dozen men.  The event was uneventful as she modeled every outfit, saving the last which was a light yellow teddy with "open cups" exposing her breasts and crotchless bottoms exposing her pussy which ever since our trip to Mexico with Dan, she kept clean shaven.
       
      We got married soon after.  Sue and I both found jobs at the same high tech company and after a few months the Director of Sue's department called her in his office.  He told her he didn't want to cross any lines but needed to ask if she ever did any modeling because he had been to a house that had a lingerie fashion show and she looked like the model.  Sue was a bit embarrassed and admitted that it was her. 
       
      At this particular time I was under a lot of stress with my work and hadn't been up for as much sex as Sue wanted...and it became an issue of me trying to explain that it had nothing to do with her and that I still found her very attractive. This went on for a couple of months.  Eventually she told me that she felt the Director that mentioned the fashion show was starting to flirt a bit.  They had sat together a few times in the cafe for lunch and he was starting to make some suggestive comments.  I told her that if she wanted to she could encourage it and see where it took them as it would also  take some pressure off of me. 
       
      Within a week Sue came home from work and said that the Director (John) called her in his office and shut the door.  He started with, "I want to be very careful of what I'm going to say because I don't want to lose my job if I offend you about something." 
       
      Sue interrupted him and said,  "I know what you are talking about.  We've been having discussions that probably cross the line, and we are both guilty of that.  So say what you want to say, and I won't be offended." 
       
      John then told her that she's been driving him crazy and that he constantly thinks about her.  He also said, "Even right now with you in my office I want to bend you over my desk and have sex with you." 
       
      Sue then looked at him and said, "John, I've known we were heading to this based upon our conversations, and I didn't want to stop it.  Obviously, we can't do anything in your office, but all you need to do is invite me to your house."   And then she said, "And to be honest about it, my husband knows and is ok with it." 
       
      John was a divorced man so he lived alone and didn't have to worry about sneaking around.  And with that, Sue came home after work and told me that that Friday she would be leaving work right at 5 pm and going to John's house.
       
      I made arrangements with my best friend to go out to a sports bar for the night, to help me keep my mind off things to help the time go by quicker.  I got home at 10 p.m. wondering if Sue would be home.....and I waited and watched as the clock hit 11 p.m., midnight, and then I finally called her at 12:30 in the morning and she answered her  phone stating she was on her way and would be home by 1 a.m.  John lived 25 minutes in the other direction from work so he lived about one hour from our house. 
       
      As soon as Sue got home she looked at me and all she said was "I don't care how tired  you are, you need to take me to bed to re-claim me."  I asked her how it went and she said she'd tell me when we got to bed.  I was surprised she spent so much time with him.  Apparently John came inside her three times, telling her that he "was inspired" by her.  Sue told me that even after cumming in her, that he'd leave his cock in her pussy because he wanted to take advantage of every minute he had with her.  And they would either spoon after cumming or they would be facing each other with his cock still in her and they'd just talk....and they did that all three times he came. 
       
      The next morning was Saturday and it looked like she was getting dressed for work.  I asked her what she was doing and she said she had to go back into work as they were working on a major project with pressing deadlines.  For the 1st time in all these years of being open minded it really bothered me knowing she would be with him again after just getting fucked by him about 10 hours earlier.  I didn't like it because I felt their relationship was getting more "personal", rather than just about the sex. Little did I know what would happen later. 
       
      About 2-3 years later we were in our bedroom getting ready to call it a night and Sue looked up at me and said, "I have to tell you something and I'm worried about you getting mad but I can't live like this, keeping a secret from you."  I asked her what she was talking about and I never even thought of John being brought up.  She then proceeded to tell me that after that first night with John that she saw him a couple more times.  That three times she went to his house when she told me she was going shopping and that one time he was out sick and he had called her at work, and that during lunch she went to his house to visit him because when he called her he jokingly said, "I'm in the mood for a blowjob right now, can you come over at lunch time"...and that's what she did. 
       
      I went silent when she told me this and all I said was, "leave the room, I need time to think through this."  I didn't speak to her that night and didn't respond to her trying to bring up conversation for the next couple of days.  Finally she came to me and said, "All right, I understand you're angry but can you please speak to me.  I don't know what I can do other than keep apologizing to you."  She said that she would be willing to do "anything to earn back your trust." 
       
      I looked at her and told her that she was right about me being angry and that I felt betrayed and I didn't know how long it would take me to get over that feeling.  I also told her that I couldn't get it out of my mind that she had made arrangements with another man, to fuck him, and she kept it from me.  We had always been open with each other about this.  I mentioned how hurt I was by the deceit rather than the physical act of having sex and developing a friendship with John but that at the same time I felt myself being turned on by it. 
       
      I then asked her if she was serious about doing "anything" to earn back my trust?  She said "yes", and I said, "you might not like what I'm about to say." She said it didn't matter if she liked it or not, she just wanted to earn back my trust.  I proceeded to tell her that I would be going on Adult Friend Finder and that I would find a guy that she would have to start fucking. 
       
      So I eventually found another person named John and met up with him.  He was a divorced guy who owned his own small construction company that included two different crews.  They would build homes, and do high end renovations.  He lived alone, and his schedule was fairly flexible.  All John asked of me was to bring pictures of Sue as I told him I needed to meet him alone first as I knew the type of guy Sue would be interested in. 
       
      I told Sue what I was doing.  She said she understood.  I told her I needed to take a few pictures of her in fairness to John to see if he would be interested.  Sue again understood. 
       
      I met with John and he was absolutely interested in Sue based upon the pictures and I could tell he had a personality that would go well with Sue's.  When I came home after meeting John I told Sue about meeting John and felt that he would work out well.  I also told Sue, that if things went well after the three of us getting together the first time that "earning my trust" would require a longer term Friends with Benefits situation, until I got the previous situation out of my system  Again, Sue said she understood.  
       
      We met at John's house and got pizza delivered to help start the relationship and eventually I just said, "Are both of you comfortable"?  They both said yes, and with that John took Sue into his bedroom and they fucked each other.  When they were done, they both came out of the bedroom fully dressed.  I then told Sue to take off her shirt and pants as I wanted her to just be standing in front of John and me with her sheer green bra and matching sheer green panties.  She gave me this look, and I just shrugged and said, "you know why." 
       
      She did what she was asked and we visited for about another 20 minutes, giving John the opportunity to stare at Sue's totally sheer bra, still exposing her tits and nipples the entire time...and left for home.  On the drive, Sue did say that John was a very friendly person.  I told her that John and I would be talking the next day to get his feelings but that she needed to be prepared for anything because of her prior indiscretion with the previous John.  All she replied with was "OK, I understand."
       
      John and I had our conversation and he said the night couldn't have gone better and that he was very attracted to Sue, and that he also just had a very good feeling of a relationship between the three of us.  I told him I agreed. 
       
      When I got home, Sue asked how my conversation with John went.  I told her that he was attracted to her and he enjoyed the sex with her.  I asked Sue if she would be upset if I told her that he was the one I was going to pick for her to start fucking on a regular basis and she said if that is what she needed to do to regain trust that she could do it as she also felt they were compatible in bed, and she also liked the conversation the three of us had and felt we all could be friends. 
       
      But Sue didn't know what would be happening next.  I told Sue that John and I discussed how "moving forward" would look like and that we both were in agreement.  I then gave Sue John's phone number and told her he was expecting her call.  That from now on the two of them would communicate with each other but Sue, unlike with the previous John, needed to tell me every time she and John would be getting together. Again, Sue understood and said she promised to be totally honest with me about anything to do with John and she was willing to do whatever I wanted her to do, given what had previously happened. 
       
      I then looked at Sue and told her to call John, and I wanted her to be "forward" with him on the phone and that she first needed to ask him if he felt comfortable after meeting the two of us (I already knew how he was going to answer).  I then instructed Sue to specifically say on the phone that she was "also very comfortable both in conversation, as well as being in bed with him."  Sue then stated, at my request, "I'm interested in seeing you on a regular basis if you are.  And if you can commit to not dating any women on the side, I'll commit to having sex with you, pretty much whenever you want.  And, one more thing, if you are ok with it, I'd rather you no longer wear a condom." 
       
      And that started what turned out to be about a 15 year relationship where we are all still friends today. About two months after they started seeing each other, John called me and asked about the possibility of Sue working for him part time.  He was thinking about her going to his house two days a week, just half days.  One day would be to work on calling back customers who call to set up an appointment with him, and another half day to take care of sending out the bills, and making bill payments to suppliers, etc. 
       
      I had an idea pop into my head because I was still of the mindset of "punishing" Sue for cheating on me earlier.  John really liked my idea and now I was going to tell Sue.  When I told Sue what John had asked and what he and I decided she initially thought it was asking too much...but I reminded her about how hurtful her cheating had been and that I really needed her to do this. 
       
      Sue was a teacher and was about to have almost three full months off.  I told her that John would be paying her to work part time out of his house for two days a week.  She needed to be at his house around 7:30 in the morning to review his schedule so she could set up appointments for him to meet with people calling asking for a quote of construction work, and then on the second day she would handle all the billing that needed to be either paid, or invoiced. 
       
      She looked at me perplexed as if to say, "Ok, what's the big deal?" I then told her that EVERY day she went to his house to work that she was not allowed to wear a bra, and had to wear a top that was revealing either because of sheerness or being low cut. 
       
      After her saying, "Are your serious?", I responded, "You are damn right I'm serious, and frankly it's all because you were fucking the other John without telling me.  Now I'll know for the next three months what you'll be doing, and the plan is that you and John will be fucking each other each day, and sometimes 2X a day (when you first get there, and when he comes home for lunch). 
       
      She said, "Ok, I get it, but I hope this is coming to the end of it."  I then had her call John and had her say the following to him, "I hear  you have a job opening for me, can you confirm the dress code and expectations that I just heard from my husband."  She listened to his response and said "When do you want me to start?.  And for the next three months she arrived at John's house, always with a sweater on in case she got stopped by a police officer or if something weird happened on her way "to work." And the first thing she did when she got in the house was take her sweater off. 
       
      The very first time she was to go to work she came downstairs and took her sweater off and said, "Does this meet  your approval?"  She was obviously braless, wearing a thin, low cut tank top with low arm holes exposing plenty of side boob, and you could make out the color of her nipples through the top.  I told Sue I couldn't have picked out better work attire and then she went to work. 
       
      During the three months doing this I had to go on a business trip for a few days so I called John and told him to call Sue and ask her out to dinner and make plans to spend some time at his house.  I also told John I wanted "photo proof of him fucking her so I know she went."  This was also going to be a test to see if Sue would be honest about telling me what she was going to do. 
       
      About 30 minutes after talking with John, Sue called me.  She told me that John had asked her out to dinner and wanted to make sure I was ok with that?  She said it felt like she was going "on a date" rather than just being a friend with benefits.  I told her it felt the same way to me, and considering that she pretty much "went on dates" with the previous John without my knowledge, that she now needed to realize that she was about to start dating John WITH my knowledge.  She asked how much longer she needed to go through with this and I told her I hadn't even started to think about that yet because I had been hurt so much. 
       
      So Sue and John had their first "date" while I was away on business.  John sent me an email that included an attachment.  He laughingly wrote: "As you requested, my first date with your wife happened.  I also told her that you asked me to inform her that you wanted her to agree to start "dating me" rather than just me fucking her.  And she agreed to it, so once she's back teaching and can't come over during the summer anymore, she is going to start seeing me for longer periods of time rather than coming over for an hour to fuck each other, we'll grab dinner or take a drive somewhere."
       
      John also told me to watch the attachment as he sent "more than a photo".  I opened the attachment and saw two things: a photo of my wife's face with his cock in her mouth, pressing her cheek from the inside so I could see his cock bump pushing out her cheek. And he also sent me a video that lasted a few minutes of him fucking her.  He told me not to worry, that he'd delete both the photo and video, but I told him I wanted him to keep it so he'd always be able to look back on how they looked fucking each other. 
       
      And that relationship lasted around 15 years.  After fucking John about 10 times Sue told me that she noticed something different and wanted to be honest with me.  I asked her what she was talking about.  She said it felt like John was "fucking" her at times like he was paying for it but other times it was more emotional, it was starting to feel like he was "making love" to her. I told her I guess that would be normal after seeing someone consistently that you liked.  I told her I was ok with that. 
       
      She then said she was starting to feel like she was making love to him at times, that it was emotional for her as well feeling like she was giving her body to someone she cared about as a friend.  She wasn't having any feelings of being in love with him, but she was getting some emotional connection where she wanted to give herself to him when they saw each other.  It turned me on. The frequency of sex got less over the last couple of years but he and I estimated, that not counting the three months she worked for him and they fucked anywhere from 2-4 times a week, that he had fucked her somewhere between 50-100 times. 
       
      And to this day, years later, the thought that she's been fucked so much by the same guy is a turn-on.  We all still remain friends today.  I thought that would be the end of our openess in our marriage but there would be two other men that would enter our lives, both of which got substantial time with my hotwife.  And she wanted it. 
       
      If you'd like to read about it, let me know and I'll write it up.
    • By MenPoundMyWife
      My wife and I have been married for over 10 years. She is 5'4, about 130lbs, 34F, and very fit. 
       
      We dated for couple of years before getting married. From the very beginning, she was the most sexual woman I had ever met. Soon after we started dating, she started to push me to talk about her former lovers. Slowly, I started to get turned on by the stories and became more and more curious about her past sexual experiences with boyfriends before me. Eventually, we got married, and few years later, she started to throw hints of wanting to raise her score. I quickly got on board and we started to regularly talk about how other men would fuck her and so forth.
       
      Finally, during a trip to Vegas, we decided to visit a sex club and she was very excited, although a little nervous. She wore a new tight black dress with red lingerie underneath. We got to the club and just hung out. She was very uneasy and she said she had never been to a place like this. About 30 minutes in, we were starting to talk about leaving, she suddenly pointed at a slightly older guy and said: "Go bring him here." My dick was hard as a rock. I walked up to the guy and asked if he is interested in my wife, he had been staring at her the entire time. He quickly smiled and said, "Oh yes, let's go."
       
      They shook hands, introduced themselves and we all decided to find the area with beds and more privacy (so to speak). We found a room downstairs that was only enclosed by a curtain. She told me to go and get condoms so she can get to know the guy for a few minutes. When I came back, they were just talking, slowly, she walked up to me and started kissing me. Once I let go, I gestured to the guy to go ahead; he quickly moved in on her. They started making out, he started kissing her all over the place, slowly, she dropped backwards on bed and pulled him on top of herself. 
       
      He lowered her dress and started sucking her big tits. She asked me to join in. We each had a tit in our mouth and we were both fingering her pussy at the same time. Slowly, I moved down and started eating her pussy. She is always fully waxed like a porn star. As soon as I stopped eating her pussy as she came, he went down and started eating it. Slowly, I moved back up and she took my dick in her mouth. 
       
      To our surprise, a crowd gathered and four other men wanted to fuck her. She shook her head but they all watched her get pounded. 
       
      The guy that went in there with us, quickly got naked and tugged at her red thong. She took it off and handed it to me. This whole time, she was playing with my dick, it's about 5.5". The guy was much larger, about 7". She looked at it and winked at me. She told him she likes it rough.
       
      He had it fully up and moved close to her pussy. She stared into my eyes, grabbed his dick and guided it to rub her pussy. He took his clue and shoved it in. She reminded him to not be gentle. He obliged and fucked her like a whore. She begged for more by saying, "Oh yeah, fuck me, fuck me hard...look babe, he is fucking me so good, he is so big, look, he is fucking your wife right in front of you....oh yeah, fuck me." About four other guys and a couple were now watching her get fucked. I asked her if I should tell them to leave, she said no, she likes it. She slowly turned to them so they can get the full view of a dick in her pussy while she was playing with mine. 
       
      Once the guy got done, she said, "Okay honey, this was awesome," and kissed me multiple times thanking me for a great experience. She said she wanted to stay for a few before we walked out. She wanted to walk around and be noticed as the woman who had just been fucked, since rest of the crowd was just hanging out.
       
      We cannot wait to do it again.  
       
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