Just wanting to watch each other

[curiouscpl42 2]

Me and my wife have been talking. We’ve decided we have an interest in watching/ being watched. We are wanting to find someone a little bit away from where we are. What’s a safe way to do this. We don’t have a desire to do any swapping or touching other people. But the idea of watching someone make love or us being watched is exciting. 

[lcmim 1,081]

That is a perfectly acceptable place to start.

Other than the usual, Groups, , Clubs, SLS and the like there is not much to offer up without a bit of information.

 

In General what area do you live in? We might be able to suggest specific groups or clubs.

What is your risk tolerance, both COVID and discovery?

[curiouscpl42 2]

We are in western Tennessee. Because of her job we want to do this around Nashville maybe. Clubs may make her nervous to be seen by someone she knows. I have a friend who swings with his wife, but I’m not gonna go over that boundary and ruin a friendship I’ve had for a long time if things get weird. 

[njbm 2,868]

Join SLS and either meet another couple or attend a function (meet and greet, etc.). Take baby steps to start and only do what you are both ready for. Go as slow as the slowest partner. 

[oldbutable 32]

We live in South East MO. Would be glad to meet with you and maybe we can help each other, We are also new to this L.S. we have experience several MFM but would love to just watch and be watched also.

 

[lovefest04 698]

There are also folks that would be up for video conference sex. Might put that in a profile. Not as personal or able to trigger the senses, but..

 

I personally don't care for the technology as people can record. It seems more difficult to record in person without all consent.

[Idahocouple6969 294]

2 hours ago, njbm said:

Join SLS and either meet another couple or attend a function (meet and greet, etc.). Take baby steps to start and only do what you are both ready for. Go as slow as the slowest partner. 

Following these suggestions is a great way to start. We highly recommend the meet and greet scenario. We have met some FWB, some one and done and have met some people that have become really good friends. In all honesty we would rather hang out with LS friends than vanilla friends ?. That way I don't spend the night having worry about saying something off color.  

[curiouscpl42 2]

Ok I’ll have to check sls out. We just talked about it a few times. I’m not sure if she would be up for a meet and greet with a lot of people. We have been on cam with our faces covered before. It was exciting so she may go for that. 

[lcmim 1,081]

Once you are in the pipeline things will come up from different groups in your local area. We started out on SLS, joined a local group, heard from other people in that group things that were going on elsewhere.

 

It is rather much like if you want a job take any job in a place and watch the hiring board same theory.

 

Most of the meet and greets that we've gone to have been pretty tame. Those that weren't real tame we're still very far away from full blown orgies. I think you would find it a safe place to be. Who knows you just might meet somebody.

 

[Numex 2,409]

On 1/28/2021 at 8:59 AM, curiouscpl42 said:

the idea of watching someone make love or us being watched is exciting.

Although we swap with other couples, there have been times when we've gotten together with another couple with the expectation of fucking each other's spouses, but ended up with our own.  Just because, and very exciting. 

[robaval 219]

Numex,

When the venue and situation is right and comfortable, we definitely agree!  We enjoy watching couples make love, and it can be really exciting (and educational). 

 

Making love with others watching can be really hot and exciting for us (performing).   We had these experiences  several times last summer on our open bow runabout on the lake's west end.   Once past "The Point", the water is shallower and the big bolts and sail boats don't go there, so it's pretty much nude.   People know this so families don't go past the point.

 

Best Regards,

 

J& R