Upclose gynecological pix online: Turn on or turn off?

[njbm 2,843]

I never found close up pictures of genitalia in online profiles to be a turn on. I much prefer to look at happy faces or even erotic outfits. Microscopic shots of pussy and penis don’t rev my engine. Am I alone?

[Lionheart72 2,189]

Nope... I'm a breast man, personally. Breasts, eyes and hair. A lovely close up of well-shaped tit can be very aesthetically and erotically appealing to me. Still, generally, I like images in context. I think close-ups of any body part tend to be lacking when compared to well framed picture of an actual person.

[TricianMike 761]

Off Off Off. No Dick or Pussy pics. We usually think they are fake and stupid. Close ups of anything is never good. Hardly any are posted by women, that tells you something. Want to impress us, a picture dressed in a normal situation tells us plenty about you. Do we enjoy a nude picture? Sure, it does say something too as does some sex shots, just no close ups please. 

[adamgunn 1,460]

Not me. I love seeing a nice vagina in context, when you can see the rest of the woman. But just the folds of skin? Nope.

[shy_couple 457]

Never forget it but believe it was AFF, girl posted a closeup pic. It looked like she had her shoulders on the floor and had rocked her pelvis back almost to her face. Has everything spread wide open, grinning ear to ear, with little toilet paper rolls stuck to her twat. Nasty!!!

Edited February 23, 2021 by shy_couple

[Lionheart72 2,189]

1 hour ago, shy_couple said:

Never forget it but believe it was AFF, girl posted a closeup pic. It looked like she had her shoulders on the floor and had rocked her pelvis back almost to her face. Has everything spread wide open, grinning ear to ear, with little toilet paper rolls stuck to her twat. Nasty!!!

One of the top rules of nude photography... make sure you are clean. As I understand it, professionals have makeup artists. (The things you don't think about...)

[njbm 2,843]

3 hours ago, shy_couple said:

Never forget it but believe it was AFF, girl posted a closeup pic. It looked like she had her shoulders on the floor and had rocked her pelvis back almost to her face. Has everything spread wide open, grinning ear to ear, with little toilet paper rolls stuck to her twat. Nasty!!!

Cock block!

[cplnuswing 4,712]

Yeah, not really a selling point for us either in profile pics.  Nothing wrong with some nudity, but a screen 100% filled with cock or pussy not our choice. Kind of depends on the whole gallery too, if there's a good mix of pics then no big deal to have the occasional more hardcore one, but if that's all there is, then that's a turn-off and probably a good sign we aren't going to be compatible.

 

When it comes to just porn viewing in general, just depends on my mood how much of it there can be before turn-on turns into turn-off. Hadn't really thought about it before, but interestingly, my tipping point there would be more generous than it is looking at profile pics of someone we might be interested in actually meeting.  Random anonymous internet T&A vs real person you might be interested in actually meeting I guess.

[GoldCoCouple 4,062]

Dick pix should never be allowed...don't care how big (or not) you are, for most women it's the skill not the size (understanding there are a group of women who only care about the size). Most guys posting dick pix are usually dicks themselves and therefore someone we are not interested in meeting. We prefer personality and intelligence more than looks. Ban the dick pic!

[Anon321 518]

Doesn't turn me on or off.  I guess I'm indifferent on it.

[lcmim 1,070]

A thought about the Dick Pics.

They are a handy indicator.

It is just such an obvious red flag.

They save a lot of time reading before discarding.

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,346]

As long as they're not super closeup we're fine.  My wife is not fiercely anti dick pic.  She considers one or two dick pics to be a normal part of any guy's online swinger profile.

But the one thing that makes her want to puke is when there is a toilet in the pic - and it's amazing how many guys take dick pics standing over the toilet.

The other thing she can't stand is when you can see their place is a mess in the background of the shot.  Again, amazing how much of that you see too.

[Idahocouple6969 294]

We have been to parties that had both massage tables and gyno tables complete with stirrups. If that's your thing, great. But not us. We just don't find any instruments used in a Dr office even slightly erotic.

[AndrewandAnn 360]

I think some of you are answering a question different than the one that was asked?

 

If we are limiting the subject to on-line lifestyle profiles, extremely explicit photos right out of the gate are generally not cool. At the start, we would expect something far, far more demur.  Someone who thinks posting granular pictures of her hoo-ha is the best way to find play partners...?  Yeah, that would be a solid indication we would not be a good matchup. I'm not saying I would mind looking at them... lol... but that doesn't mean we'd have any interest in making a connection.

 

If we are talking about on-line erotica and porn, it entirely depends upon my/hers/our mood/s. Most of the time, we surf stuff that is fairly main stream. But, sometimes... raunchy is exactly what the doctor ordered ?

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,346]

18 hours ago, Idahocouple6969 said:

We have been to parties that had both massage tables and gyno tables complete with stirrups. If that's your thing, great. But not us. We just don't find any instruments used in a Dr office even slightly erotic.

We used to be members of a swing club that had a gyno room complete with examination chair stirrups and speculums lol.  NJ/PA peeps here may know that club.

We never played in that room.

[Fundamental Law 2,877]

If your profession within the healing arts involves examination of genitalia as part of clinical responsibility, you might well be likely to opine that closeups that belong in textbooks...belong in textbooks.

 

We find them socially unappealing. 

[couplers 4,507]

On 2/23/2021 at 12:22 PM, njbm said:

Upclose gynecological pix online: Turn on or turn off?

From my Lesbian side, an up-close picture of a pussy can be a turn on - all those beautify delicate parts like a flower.  From my hetero side, dick pix do nothing for me, although I like pictures of nice testicles.

[enhancer 1,581]

We assume people that only have pics of their vagina or penis are fugly, clueless and have nothing going on for themselves!  Totally ignore them and instant block if they contact us.  We also assume any female with just a pic of her big old boobies is heavy.  If there are not full body shots of everyone who wants to be involved on a profile we don’t give them the time of day.  Don’t care if they are fully clothed or naked.  If we can’t see their body type to start out with there is nothing to talk about.

[Baconheads 421]

On 2/23/2021 at 3:07 PM, Lionheart72 said:

One of the top rules of nude photography... make sure you are clean. As I understand it, professionals have makeup artists. (The things you don't think about...)

And clean up the room behind you!

[discreetplay 235]

Me (Mrs) am not much of a visual person so I'm indifferent. Doesn't bother me, not a turn on. The Mr, very visual person. Doesn't mind the photos at all, as long as there are others mixed in.

[MidwestHoneys 354]

Unless I took the pic I rather be up close in person. A nude pic in context is much better. 

[NoAngels 329]

I’m not one to exchange pictures, I have looked at the Gallery pictures on here. I pass over all genitalia shots and enjoy pictures that show a happy couple together. 

[hkdilbert 181]

On 2/25/2021 at 12:33 AM, GoldCoCouple said:

Dick pix should never be allowed...don't care how big (or not) you are, for most women it's the skill not the size (understanding there are a group of women who only care about the size). Most guys posting dick pix are usually dicks themselves and therefore someone we are not interested in meeting. We prefer personality and intelligence more than looks. Ban the dick pic!

I agree with how you feel about the dick pixs, but not on your conclusion.  Do they tell me something about the poster - yes and my interpretation of them mirrors your general impression.   Where we differ is in that I would rather know who I am dealing with upfront than get blindsided later.  So go ahead and keep the dick pics - better we see the warning signs in advance.  ?