Before or after?

[tkntd 59]

So, a question...My wife is not attracted to uncut cocks at all. Is it rude to say something about this up front with potential “friends,” or how should you handle this kind of thing? It’s honestly kind of a dealbreaker for her. We’d never want to hurt someone’s feelings - although this post may already have. Sorry, but any advice would be appreciated ??‍♂️

[Lionheart72 2,190]

Everyone has their particular things when it comes to attraction... no judgement here. The key to successful swinging is open, honest communication... and not just within the couple. Therefore, I would say it is absolutely necessary for you to be upfront and honest about this with any potential play partners. Better to let someone know at the start that they aren't an option than find out when the pants come off.

[njbm 2,880]

If you are meeting people through an online site, you can put it in your profile.

 

My wife much prefers cut, but has worked thru her share of uncut. The uncut guys are very grateful and relieved to get no complaints. 

Edited February 28, 2021 by njbm

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,391]

This is why it's a good thing for single guys to post a few dick pics on their online profile. You don't want to wait til the moment he drops his drawers to find out if he has the kind of cock your Mrs. likes.

[MidwestHoneys 359]

I can see sucking a uncut cock could be a change, is fucking any different? Honey said she can’t tell when a cock is in her. 

[Baconheads 432]

I've heard that many women dislike uncut cocks, some are the other way.  Truth is that the uncut guys are the lucky ones. The foreskin is the most sensitive part and the glans when covered doesn't produce keratinized skin.  Much better feeling to the guy, so I hear.

[shy_couple 459]

On 2/27/2021 at 3:12 PM, tkntd said:

So, a question...My wife is not attracted to uncut cocks at all. Is it rude to say something about this up front with potential “friends,” or how should you handle this kind of thing? It’s honestly kind of a dealbreaker for her. We’d never want to hurt someone’s feelings - although this post may already have. Sorry, but any advice would be appreciated ??‍♂️

Mrs. Shy is exactly the same. It is clearly posted in our profile. 
 

Since we are soft/oral swap only it is 100% mood killer and deal breaker. 
 

First one was a surprise with a chance encounter at a club. She checked it out and reluctantly played with it a little. Luckily he was a giver and didn’t object to the minimal reciprocation but after that she said never again. 
 

I believe its one of the reasons she prefers Caucasian American guys in our age range to minimize the risk of any future surprises. 

 

 

[herpob 564]

Yes - ALWAYS post any dislikes upfront!  We state my preferences and our others...

Edited August 16, 2021 by herpob

[Billygoat 443]

This is easy.  When you are talking with potential players it is part of your dos and don’ts like dislikes hard and soft lines.  That is part of being in the lifestyle.  If you like we had two systems we used.  I am not a shy guy and usually spoke for both of us.   She would speak to me of an interest and I would be the advance man (for many obvious reasons)  and would in casual conversation express her/our interests to the male single/couple and layout the rules/guidelines.  And ask of his/theirs.  This always went well and never did we get a negative response.

 

Not everyone can speak easily or casually and interject interests, desires, activities of this nature.  We learned this years ago while hosting our own parties.  So we took something I made for ourselves, Re polished it and offered them to our friends.  An introduction card.  Yeah it’s old fashion from…..damn I do not want to say how many years…but it is very classy.

 

We designed these using basic business card design apps.  Decent card stock.  The single/couples name or aka.  A image (some used their image others used…whatever….a way to contact them (email and or phone number.  Never an address….sometimes a state or general area they would travel in.  And a list of activities, requirements…..likes and dislikes…..all on a business card you only give those you are interested in.  This became very popular for a while with those comfortable in the lifestyle

 

it boils down to you have to talk…express yourselves not just to each other….but to those around you.  And maybe one half of the couple can speak for the other….so they do not feel uncomfortable……or use the introduction card.

[Thegreyarea 100]

Find your voice. Use your words. No one else will look out for you except you. Communication is essential to the lifestyle.