How do you guys handle not going to parties during pandemic?

[Kate B 14]

Do you guys just see a few people or do virtual stuff? 

[enhancer 1,585]

We have just been enjoying the hell out of each other throughout this pandemic and are both more then okay with that!  We are planning on waiting until it is over before resuming any play with others.  Sure it is fun being free and playing with others,  but it is not the end of the world if we are not.  Our sex life together has never been lacking and each other are always our first choice for great sex anyways.  There is no shortage of people out there still actively playing though from the amount of messages we are still getting.  We choose not to be part of the problem as far as this thing spreading further.  Others can make their own choice.

[PonderingCouple 58]

We tried to explore some virtual but just didn’t pan out. Our first real go with a couple teased in Jan 2020 and the follow up got postponed per above - we do not want to be part of the problem.

 

now we are very interested to get things going but just trying to be patient. We are open to virtual but tbh, we feel like we made the effort several times and was a waste... so we got turned off to virtual but with the right person/people who made an equal amount of effort we would have a go again.

[PonderingCouple 58]

29 minutes ago, enhancer said:

We have just been enjoying the hell out of each other throughout this pandemic and are both more then okay with that!  We are planning on waiting until it is over before resuming any play with others.  Sure it is fun being free and playing with others,  but it is not the end of the world if we are not.  Our sex life together has never been lacking and each other are always our first choice for great sex anyways.  There is no shortage of people out there still actively playing though from the amount of messages we are still getting.  We choose not to be part of the problem as far as this thing spreading further.  Others can make their own choice.

This too! Our sex life better now than ever. We worked hard to keep the fire alive despite all the craziness of 2020 including working in healthcare and homeschooling and all the other shit.

[cplnluv1 872]

We have never been party people and enjoy contact with one couple at a time. Our best most exciting experiences have been with newbies, first timers with curious wives. 
We had met a couple last year just before shut down, their  first time ever meeting a couple and her first time doing anything with a woman. When we left we had a tentative time we would meet for more fun. We enjoyed them as a couple and they liked that we didn’t push any situation. 
Through lockdown Linda kept contact with the wife and spoke with her many times. I kept saying to just text I don’t like people who might think we are going to answer every call. With all this going on it was good for them, Linda too, to have social calls. 
Now we are all vaccinated and plans are in for a second meeting. We are looking forward to some fun with them and according to the phone calls it’s all the wife can think of doing. 

[Idahocouple6969 294]

On 3/22/2021 at 2:44 PM, Kate B said:

Do you guys just see a few people or do virtual stuff? 

Now that we are inoculated we are going out. Albeit tentatively. We have each other and talk about sex all the time lol. 

 

We aren't into the video thing. I wish we were but it kinda makes us uncomfortable. I think it's a generational hang up. I hate using the speaker phone too. And no I don't have a rotary dial phone hahaha.

[njbm 2,871]

Our husband has two vaccines, plus 13 days. Tomorrow, I am fully vaccinated. Our wife’s first vaccine is in early April. Will Dr. Fauci give guidance for swingers?

[Fundamental Law 2,885]

25 minutes ago, njbm said:

Our husband has two vaccines, plus 13 days. Tomorrow, I am fully vaccinated. Our wife’s first vaccine is in early April. Will Dr. Fauci give guidance for swingers?

No. 

However, there are now "real world-data" from first responders etc, just published. The first dose provides about 80% protection at 14 days. The second dose pushes that to 90% at 14 days. 

https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/70/wr/mm7013e3.htm

 

Assuming that immunity is the same as unable to transmit--and that is an hypothesis, the probability that two of the four  not immune--one to be potentially infected with the virus and one to catch the virus is pretty low--a fraction of 3%, depending on how well-or badly behaved the non-immune person was in the prior couple of weeks. 

 

Dr. Fauci is not going to tell you what's safe. Remember, he also led the national effort against HIV/AIDS. 

[njbm 2,871]

We will be careful even after my wife’s second shot plus 14 days. We realize it’s not a magic bullet. But we are encouraged as our friends and relatives get vaccinated. 
 

i was kidding about Dr. Fauci. Don’t think he’s focused on swingers. 

Edited March 30, 2021 by njbm

[ROCKlandCpl 451]

14 hours ago, cplnluv1 said:

We had met a couple last year just before shut down, their  first time ever meeting a couple and her first time doing anything with a woman.

Meeting a couple for the first time is an exciting experience when they have played with others before. A virgin couple needs to be tension packed and you need to be commended on taking it slow. Going from talk to action for women on woman can have traumatic results if a woman is pushed into the act. To have sex with a woman, another man and seeing your spouse having sex for the first time brings back flashbacks for me. 

[PonderingCouple 58]

On 3/29/2021 at 4:35 PM, cplnluv1 said:

We have never been party people and enjoy contact with one couple at a time. Our best most exciting experiences have been with newbies, first timers with curious wives. 
We had met a couple last year just before shut down, their  first time ever meeting a couple and her first time doing anything with a woman. When we left we had a tentative time we would meet for more fun. We enjoyed them as a couple and they liked that we didn’t push any situation. 
Through lockdown Linda kept contact with the wife and spoke with her many times. I kept saying to just text I don’t like people who might think we are going to answer every call. With all this going on it was good for them, Linda too, to have social calls. 
Now we are all vaccinated and plans are in for a second meeting. We are looking forward to some fun with them and according to the phone calls it’s all the wife can think of doing. 

This sounds amazing! And along the lines of what we want/prefer - hope you all have a great 2nd meet up!!!!

[cplnluv1 872]

2 hours ago, PonderingCouple said:

This sounds amazing! And along the lines of what we want/prefer - hope you all have a great 2nd meet up!!!!

Good morning. We found there are sooo many couples that don’t know how to start. We didn’t know either when we were looking for someone. I keep in touch with some of the women we have met giving advice and support in how to go forward. We don’t meet the same couples more than a few times just that we think some become clingy. We have met some where Alan never gets to play, just watching is all he gets to do. 
This couple was just like many of the others who never did this, she was very curious about women and told us she wasn’t positive she could have sex. She told me she wants to do more if we meet again. Talk is much easier than actions and we never do more if they don’t want it.