Almost happened

[Tahoe 6]

We were out of town a couple of weeks ago for a few days. Met this guy and chatted with him on and off for a few days. One day he caught us making out ( we were talking about me having him as my first  mmf) I don't think he heard us. Hubby and I had the plan that hubby would make up an excuse to leave so  he and I would have a chance to talk alone. I wasn't nervous but I was not  attracted to him at all.  How do you handle not being attracted to someone? Do you just go through with it or wait? I want to wait until I am at least attracted to him a little. Hubby didn't pressure me at all he said maybe next time.  

[adamgunn 1,461]

If you're not attracted, just say thanks but no thanks and walk away. You want your first time to be enjoyable, it won't be if you're not into it.

 

Other guys will come by, I promise you.

[Tahoe 6]

 His voice  was a REAL turn off i could imagine having sex with him and that voice would kill the mood. Maybe i am being a bit of a snob about it.

[njbm 2,901]

Everyone is allowed to have their preferences. 

[Tahoe 6]

29 minutes ago, njbm said:

Everyone is allowed to have their preferences. 

The only turn off was his voice( talks way to much).  Maybe I can over come that in the future. Heck he may not be attracted to me only time will tell.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

If it isn't working, for whatever reason, just walk away. Otherwise it's called 'taking one for the team' and is one of our very few remaining rules. Don't compromise, there are just WAY too many men that are more than happy to have been in his place. Just keep looking and the right one will turn up.

[enhancer 1,586]

You are not a snob by not having sex with someone you are not attracted too!  Be as picky as you want.  It is your body and your choice.  No shortage of other people out there.  Take your time and find the right ones so it is worth while.

[bbarnsworth 2,652]

Concur with others; don't play with someone you're not attracted to. It's not worth it. Would you date someone you're not attracted to? Of course not. Same applies in swinging. Plus, if you're not attracted to them, the sex isn't going to be very good either. What's the point?