What happened on her cruise?

[Radslash82 8]

A couple years ago, my wife of 13 years went on a cruise with a bunch of ladies. She is in her early 30’s and is beautiful. She is about 5’4, 135 pounds, dirty blonde hair, great breasts (C cup), plump ass, and her legs look amazing (especially when she’s in heels). She is a great woman and an awesome mom to our kids and I would never worry about her cheating. But I do know she has a kinky, sexy side to her, especially when music and alcohol is involved. Just watching her dance turns me on (and probably every other guy around).

 

Like I said, a few years ago, she went on a cruise with a bunch of other ladies her age (during spring break) and I found out that there was a group of younger guys who a took a “liking” to my wife’s group of women. I can see why, as my wife bought some super sexy rompers and bikinis that flatter her breast’s and ass very well. 
 

Anyway, when she got back I noticed one of the guys had friended her on Instagram. I also was told she was dancing pretty provocative at the club on the cruise and know that these guys were around, as I saw my wife in the background of some of these pics. I know she was wearing some very risqué clothing and was in a sexy bikini quite a bit.  I instantly got excited thinking of the possibility of my wife Grinding on these guys while they were on the dance floor. I found myself hoping that she might have hooked up with some of these guys, not that she was intentionally trying to cheat on me, but I maybe she had a few too much to drink, they were grinding on the dance floor, the guy was rubbing up against my wife and kissing on her neck and secretly I hoped that maybe they went back to the room and had a random night of crazy sex. 
 

I find myself thinking of this often and fantasizing about it during our sex. My question is, is it unreasonable to think that this could have happened? And two, how do I bring it up that it turns me on at the thought that it might have happened? 

[njbm 2,868]

Sounds like you are interested in swinging or at least hotwifing. You can tell your wife that this line of thinking turns you on. Be careful not to insinuate that she cheated on the cruise. It would be easy for her to take it the wrong way. 

[NWAtlSwing 522]

And she might be embarrassed in retrospect, no matter how hot you think it is.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Ask her! Let her know that it doesn't matter whatever may have happened...if fact you think its hot if anything did, and see if she will tell you. If you ever want more to happen, you HAVE to be able to communicate better with her and she needs to be able to trust you with the information. Start there, or start by telling each other your sexual fantasies (and not when you are in the bedroom) and see where things go from there (might be nowhere, or it might be everything you ever fantasized about). The first step is always to start talking about it.