Hotel Parties

[NWAtlSwing 522]

Does anyone here ever host hotel parties? Any suggestions on a good way to go? One of these days the kids will be out of the house and we can host here but until then ...

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Covid has put an end to them (for awhile) but I believe that they will start happening again as we come out of that dark time. Just keep paying attention. Also, most parties are promoted on the swinger meeting sites (SLS, SDC, Etc). If you haven't joined one, then what are you waiting for?

[njbm 2,869]

We know people who have hosted hotel parties. I think the key is to select fairly well behaved guests who you know or who your other guests know. You don’t want your crew to act like the movie Bachelor Party. 
 

The other key to success is to have a “Start Play” time. You can ring a bell or make an announcement that the play room or rooms are now open or you and your partner can get it started. We have been to hotel parties that were hours long staring contests. Sometimes we just went home before anything happened. 

Edited May 13, 2021 by njbm

[Billygoat 443]

With everything now at a new normal I thought I would add our hosting experiences using hotels, which when done well can be a great venue.

 

First we have always believed in and practice “hiding in plain site”.  It is reliable and very easy to keep things “normal” as well as functional.  It is our belief and experience that getting one or two adjoining rooms and inviting a crowd draws too much attention.  It can easily get out of control, loud and attract hotel staff/management attention or inquiry.  We attended a few held at residence inns that featured kitchenette, small living room and two bedrooms.  Much easier, better and having private direct entrance. But only really worked well with those who know and play well in group activity…..or orgy style sex play.  Those that prefer couple or solo play need not apply lol.

 

When we hosted house parties we would also host once or twice a year a swing weekend getaway, Friday night through Sunday.  We used the Redroof Inn most often.  We would send out an announcement to gauge how many would be interested.  We mostly would invite couples.  But an equal number of solo/single ladies and men.  We would block X amount of rooms all in the same hall….some times a whole floor.  No cost, 6 - 8 weeks out we would announce the block of rooms to our group and the event name the rooms were under.  Those interested would call the hotel, ask for a room in the block….their room.  Some would share a room…..being in our group.  We would get a master room with an attached, door connected room.  That would be the common room where everyone would meet and socialize.  To play you would go back to your own room.  Or even hold your own group play or what ever activity you wished.  Breakfast, lunch and day activity was up to each individual/couple/group.  We would make dinner reservations at a local restaurant (as many as 40-50 people) then back to the hotel for pool and or evening adult fun.  This was always a great hit.  Loads of fun. Loads of activity.  Loads of laughs.  each couple or single with a room could host their own mini party or theme.

 

Again…..hiding in plain sight.

 

 

 

 

[NWAtlSwing 522]

Great Idea BillyGoat

[cplnluv1 872]

Hiding in plain sight! I love that. 
 

Alan and I had stayed with one couple at time for almost eight years, meeting mostly newbies, then we changed deciding to enjoy those we loved being with. We always let the others choose where to meet, their house or a hotel of their choice. We’ve been told that some felt a walk of shame sharing a room with us which caused me to laugh. Hiding in plain sight as you said, only we knew what was happening. Leaving to others did find us at motels I rather not stay in as well as very high scale hotels that would be a stretch for us. 
For a quick getaway with friends we shared a room with two queens in a corner room. We didn’t want others to hear us when walking in the hall. Hiding but not hiding. 
Our new favorite if having a party is someone’s house. I am not ready for too many strangers meeting, going for a few friends and possibly a friend’s friend or two. I still don’t want to be with multiple men, maybe three in the course of a party. 
I am interested in LS cruises or a cruise with a few friends, leaning to the latter. Renting a vacation home or cabin with others might be an option.