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By dazanconfsd
So, not ENTIRELY new, but not experienced either. Two swinging experiences under our belt and loving it.
We were contemplating having a not new to the lifestyle but new to us couple over to our house on a weekend. We hang out and have a bonfire and just drink and BS, it's our version of bliss.
We have a clean house, liquor, plenty of condoms, water bottles... What else should a good host have? Appetizers? Music? Towels lol?
Seriously though, we're nervous for our second first date in 15 or so years. Any advice or stories appreciated. Thank you.
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By Fundamental Law
Hot tubs and swingers go together. That said, swingers who are fortunate enough to have hot tubs use them for more than playtime.
If you own a hot tub, how do you find yourself using the hot tub when not playing with others? Is it simply hydrotherapy? Do you entertain vanilla friends as well? Is it a safe space where you feel comfortable talking about things with your partner (or friends) that might feel awkward discussing somewhere else? More generally, what draws you to your spa other than entertaining other LS folks?
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By morgan78
DH and I have been in the lifestyle for quite a while and always wanted to play in a hot tub but was always worried we would catch something since hot tubs are full of weird things.
My question is there a way to play safe in the tub?
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By Wildsailor1986
My wife and I are relatively new to swinging but we have found a great couple and we both have explored our bi side to the extreme with them. My question is we have these friends visiting us from across the country for a sex vacation. We have rented a nice condo in lake Tahoe with a hot tub. What are some fun games to play in the hot tub to get the mood and fun going?
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By TeamCalgary
So, we are contemplating hosting our first house party and we are in a quandary!
We have been to house parties in the past and think we have an end goal in mind - but how do we get there!
Our concerns revolve around the following:
1. guests - who do you invite (couples you have played with, couples you have met, couples you are hoping to meet) etc?
Our thinking is that the event is likely not the optimal venue for meeting another couple for the first time, especially being the hosts we will
likely be distracted in performing our hosting duties. Do we encourage guests to bring along other couples unknown to us?
2. environment - we have been to house parties in the past and they have been all over the map in terms of the mood/environment created.
It is our intent to create a welcoming, no pressure atmosphere that will encourage socializing, and, perhaps, lead to more.
Everyone knows why they are there but at the same time, no one should feel pressure. How to best do this from a physical perspective
(room layout, furniture) to allocation of space (making private, closed door areas available).
3. pacing - creating a "flow" to the evening that encourages people to feel comfortable and act out on their desires. We don't want this to feel
contrived or artificial (such as telling everyone its time to now do move the other room and take your clothes off etc).
Those of you with experience in this area, we would welcome your input please.
Many thanks.
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