Three Couples Together

[ROCKlandCpl 451]

Our first Party with two other couples was strange. 
Several months ago we met a couple that guided us around the bumps of a first swing. We are so grateful we met this couple who were patient with our stop and go signals. 
I let my bestie know what Rock and I did and that led them to wanting to be with us. It left me in a predicament, Rock said he wanted to and I felt strange. Friends? Being the ones to do it and screwing up? Messing up a friendship. 
I hooked our friend up with our first couple and now they are good friends. 
We did finally play with our friends, a crazy fun giggly time. Went pretty well with full sex, the hardest silliest part was me and my bestie putting on a scene for the men. 
Me and Bestie can’t stop talking about our mentors. Bestie has become close with our new friend and asked her to join us at the beach this last weekend, weather didn’t cooperate and we all went to my place for a bbq. 
Starting to play we all looked to how starting, who would play with who. Our new friends suggested that she would start watching us play. 
Things were fun, just strange with a third couple and getting us all to play. I feel third couple didn’t feel left out, they are very giving. I just don’t know how three couples play getting everyone involved together. 

[Fitlakecouple 451]

58 minutes ago, ROCKlandCpl said:

I just don’t know how three couples play getting everyone involved together. 

Three couples can easily become: 3 couple swaps, a foursome(MFMF) and a couple(MF), 2 threesomes (MFM)+ (FMF), or a pile of six people. It can be a fluid situation with people taking a break, joining another 'group'.

[adamgunn 1,460]

We've found that sixsomes (or more) tend to last longer than a foursome. A group of four people starts to wind down after an hour (more or less) then after a break a second round may start up.

 

When there's more people involved the party just goes on and on. People can take a break as it suits them, refresh themselves. But it goes on as long as at least one woman is still interested.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Seems like you sort of got your start the same way we did. We haven't seen our two couples - together or separately - since 2019, but you'll get the hang of this pretty quickly. adamgunn above is 100% on-target that having a third couple's energy in the room helps keep things going.

 

It's often the case that a member of one or more couple is ready to take a break, or that six people want to break up into two groups, and then two different groups later. We intentionally booked two queen beds instead of a king for these types of meetups.

 

 

[cplnluv1 872]

11 hours ago, ROCKlandCpl said:

Things were fun, just strange with a third couple and getting us all to play. I feel third couple didn’t feel left out, they are very giving. I just don’t know how three couples play getting everyone involved together. 

You are new and still finding out what you enjoy, don’t rush, sex isn’t going away. Some couples enjoy big crowds, some like parties and some enjoy one on one with a special couple or in your case, friends. The third couple saw your relationship with your friends and allowed you to have fun with them instead of diverting your play to them. I’m sure they didn’t mind enjoying you having fun. 
The third couple knew when to get involved and when to let the play continue naturally. My guess is if they felt left out they would have told you. You now have that special connection with your good friends, make sure to protect your friendship and be mindful they are on the same new path as you. 
I normally approach the wife if things slow down and lead her to the third man, letting the husbands play with the other woman. Believe some men are happy to just watch. 

[TricianMike 772]

We didn’t get the invite ?

The more you play the more things come naturally. You won’t have to worry about who does what to who. Mike and I enjoy the smaller parties, 2 ,3 or 4 couples or even an extra man or two. I enjoy being with 2 men, Mike enjoys 2 women, so 3 couples are perfect for us. 
I forgot to welcome you Rockland, to the board and the fun. 
 

[Numex 2,416]

When our group goes for a multi-couple get together we plan on two houses: one for the adult play and one where we take all the kids.  Sometimes we get a couple of babysitters, other times one of us will take on that responsibility or several rotate.  

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

The problem with three couples (and we have experienced this) is usually one couple is the 'hinge' (they know both of the other couples but the two other couples may not know each other). We'll call them couple AA. Unless all three couples feel a connection (we are all about connections, not just sex) then one couple can easily feel left out. With three couples, the paring usually only goes one way: AB - BC - AC. Any other pairing will leave someone or some couple out. If couple BB or CC don't connect, then the only option is AB - BA - CC. Not saying that it can't work, just that it is a challenge from the start.

[Numex 2,416]

Much depends on how many of the participants are into same sex play and whether anyone prefers to be a voyeur. 

[ROCKlandCpl 451]

23 hours ago, Numex said:

Much depends on how many of the participants are into same sex play and whether anyone prefers to be a voyeur. 

All of the women are open to same sex, new for two of us, the men are straight. Our mentor couple made it easier for us, everyone agreed that my bestie and I would play and needing one of the men it was just a simpler choice to have our new friend join us. 
The men played with our new girlfriend. Our FMF was much easier to accomplish, none of us afraid to touch or be touched. The Big Act happened with my girlfriend first. 
The MFM was a little trickier as the men were still new to this act and having them together making sure neither was touching was a factor. One giving oral, one getting oral kept them far enough away. My husband went first leaving our friend as second in. 
I don’t know how things could have changed for a first time three couple party. Other than three mf play with straight swap, two threesomes is the way. 

[Numex 2,416]

58 minutes ago, ROCKlandCpl said:

All of the women are open to same sex,., the men are straight.

Same for our group; interesting how that always seems to be the case.  We do have one "pillow queen" who will let another woman go down on her but won't return the favor.  But all the girls keep at it.

1 hour ago, ROCKlandCpl said:

One giving oral, one getting oral

Usually an unsustainable situation since it leaves one set of genitals unused.  Something happens. ?

 

 

[ROCKlandCpl 451]

3 hours ago, Numex said:

Same for our group; interesting how that always seems to be the case.  We do have one "pillow queen" who will let another woman go down on her but won't return the favor.  But all the girls keep at it.

Usually an unsustainable situation since it leaves one set of genitals unused.  Something happens. ?

 

 

Had to look that up, no pillow queens here. All mouths and genitals were used. 

[couplers 4,639]

On 7/29/2021 at 7:56 PM, ROCKlandCpl said:

no pillow queens here

Us neither.  I like licking pussy more than sucking dick.  My mouth fits better (no chance of gagging), lips locked with labia, and the subtleties of my tongue movements are more greatly appreciated. 

[ROCKlandCpl 451]

On 8/3/2021 at 12:37 PM, couplers said:

Us neither.  I like licking pussy more than sucking dick.  My mouth fits better (no chance of gagging), lips locked with labia, and the subtleties of my tongue movements are more greatly appreciated. 

I cant say I like one more. This is still all new to me and I’m enjoying all the new things. It’s years since I sucked a new cock and am very familiar with Rock’s. I know what he likes, what was every spot on it, what it smells and tastes like. I’m still exploring pussy, so foreign trying to please another woman. 

[Numex 2,416]

On 6/1/2021 at 9:31 AM, adamgunn said:

We've found that sixsomes (or more) tend to last longer than a foursome.

For both men and women, getting re-excited is much easier with a different partner.