CorvySully 0 Posted June 16, 2021 We’re new to swinging and just setting up our SLS profile. What do people generally put in the teaser text? I was thinking a quick blurb about our non-swinging interests because we’re hoping for friends that can become lovers but he was thinking it should be like a sales pitch. Quote Share this post Link to post
adamgunn 1,460 Posted June 16, 2021 I like something you can laugh at, a double entendre . . . Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted June 16, 2021 Check out others on the site and then write what you feel is similar. You are both right in what to include. You are trying to sell yourselves but knowing what other interests you have, since you are looking for FWB, is probably important as well. Quote Share this post Link to post
bbarnsworth 2,637 Posted June 17, 2021 Hi CorvySully! Welcome to the wonderful world of swinging If you have any questions, feel free to ask us. We're a helpful bunch. On your profile; yes, it is an opportunity to "sell" yourself, so to speak. You want to put your best foot forward. I wouldn't be too short with the profile, or too generic like "We want to have fun". I mean, duh, right? If you want a FWB situation, then make it clear that's what you're after. You also don't want to write a novel either; nobody will read it. Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,868 Posted June 17, 2021 The funniest one I read: We like to travel, camp out, BBQ. And, oh yeah, we like to fuck our friends. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted June 17, 2021 Yes, as pointed out: you don't want too little, as in only a few sentences, since that looks like you aren't really serious and only entered enough to let you set up a profile. You also don't want to put too much, because if they wanted to read a novel, they would just find a good book. You don't want to be too crass, since it then sounds like a guy wrote it without any input (or probably knowledge) from the wife, but you also don't want to make it too 'clean' since most people reading also are interested in finding out what you are expecting and see if that matches what they are looking for as well. It's a fine line towards creating the perfect profile. Try to say who you are, what you are interested in, what you are looking for, and what your match will be...in a couple of paragraphs. In other words, keep it kind of simple and to the point...easy, right? Quote Share this post Link to post