Do you remember your swinging anniversary ?

[Pklon 62]

Do you remember your swinging anniversary ? And do you all do anything special ?

 

For me i kinda have 2 of them. Since I began swinging before I meet my husband. The first one happen soon after my 18 birthday . And the second one is onMarch 3 when I meet my husband.

For my anniversary I like to setup a gangbang, before COVID i always made a request at at my local swingers club at the request board. And the other anniversary with my  husband, we  always try to plan a 3 or 4 some with my bff/gf and with her husband.

[adamgunn 1,460]

We do - the Friday after Thanksgiving we finally decided to do something, we went to a Swinger's club.

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

I always remember that I purchased my first computer the summer I graduated from college. A month or two later, I went to my first swingers party. 

[NC_Seniors 518]

2 hours ago, adamgunn said:

We do - the Friday after Thanksgiving we finally decided to do something, we went to a Swinger's club.

Same here … except it was on Saturday.

[Pklon 62]

Wow, only 3 reply’s so far. I am surprised. No one here remember there swingers anniversary???  I thought there would be more. 

[findinganswers 369]

We remember. Our first time was with friends, friends we spend much time with. Our first anniversary is not their first anniversary, they were well into swinging when my wife and her friend coerced me to play. We don’t need a reason to celebrate, we do it quite often with them. 

[Numex 2,416]

On 6/21/2021 at 1:01 PM, Pklon said:

Do you remember your swinging anniversary ?

I remember our lifestyle anniversary, the day Daniela first did the hotwife thing at my urging.  I don't know if she does.  After that, it was a progression to MFMs, couples swaps ("swinging"), and variations thereon, which I don't remember the dates of.

 

On 6/21/2021 at 1:01 PM, Pklon said:

And do you all do anything special ?

No.

 

The swinging or lifestyle line is kind of blurry, even for vanilla people these days.  Before marrying me, and becoming swingers, Daniela would have more than one relationship going at a time.  Does that count?  And after my divorce from my first wife, I had a couple of relationships, but my ex and I still got together because the sex was always good.  I suspect that many vanilla people who are generally serially monogamous have had overlapping relationships with multiple sexual partners at some point. 

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

We don't 'celebrate' any anniversary, birthday, or holiday unless it is for the benefit of others. Christmas is for the family, so that one is in, (grown) children's birthdays too, but we both believe that it's more important to celebrate every day as special instead of having a special day to acknowledge our partner (birthday, valentines day, etc). If we find something we think that they might like, we wrap it up and surprise them with a present, just because we love them and thought that they would like whatever it is. We do acknowledge our anniversary with the other couple that we've been dating because they like that, but we try to celebrate every day we have together as a special day (because every day should be treated as special and you never know how many you will get).