Monday Morning Confessions

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

Just to generate more activity in this group, I thought it would be fun to try something different. I want to start a thread for anyone that wants to write a post about what they did over the weekend. You can post about anything but please make it swinging related. Even better if it involves some hot cuckold action.

[Numex 2,416]

Nothing unusual for us, but it could be classified as cuckold: our daughter and I ran a few errands and did chores at home while mom was at another couple's house engaged in a threesome.

[reveur 60]

Wenn i left today morning the house to the work, my wife makes herself ready for the visit from her toyboy. 

[Numex 2,416]

On 6/28/2021 at 12:39 PM, PeeTWheatstraw said:

Even better if its involves some hot cuckold action.

Did my previous post strike anyone as cuckold?  Just curious. 

On 7/4/2021 at 4:35 AM, Numex said:

while mom was at another couple's house engaged in a threesome.

I just think of it as alone play, which is not uncommon among our group (and Daniela likes FFMing with this couple).  Either way is fine with me, we started with her hotwifing.

[couplers 4,645]

On 6/28/2021 at 12:39 PM, PeeTWheatstraw said:

anyone that wants to write a post about what they did over the weekend. You can post about anything but please make it swinging related.

Your question is interesting to me.  In our poly family we have an above average amount and variety of sex, but I no longer consider it swinging.  So, nothing to report.

[TeamCalgary 168]

Always a little bit unpleasant giving bad news; in this situation or any other for that matter. 

 

Meeting another couple this past weekend, FtoF for the first time and, unfortunately, they are wonderful people,

but there is just no connection. Never easy giving that news much as we feel it is 

always the right thing to do to be upfront and honest in all aspects of our life, including the LS. 

[EastInWest 1,524]

Confession from *last* weekend:

 

We have been playing around with apps more and decided to have a meetup. It was supposed to be a drink only but worked out.

 

We didn't realize it at the time, but the bumped "how many" thread got me thinking. Mrs. E managed to get over the hump to having intercourse with more men since she met me than when we started.

 

(Her first husband was #3, I was #7. This made #15.)

[cplnuswing 4,713]

12 hours ago, Numex said:

Did my previous post strike anyone as cuckold?  Just curious. 

No, didn't strike me as cuckold.  Just a happy swinging couple who sometimes play separately.

[Numex 2,416]

11 hours ago, EastInWest said:

Mrs. E managed to get over the hump to having intercourse with more men since she met me than when we started.

Congratulations.  Did you celebrate the occasion? 

[Numex 2,416]

10 hours ago, cplnuswing said:

No, didn't strike me as cuckold.  Just a happy swinging couple who sometimes play separately.

Thanks.  Not that it matters.  I was ready to accept the cuckold title at first, when my wife was playing and I wasn't, until I learned about the distinction about cuckolds being humiliated and hotwife husbands not.

[EastInWest 1,524]

2 hours ago, Numex said:

Congratulations.  Did you celebrate the occasion? 

There's a lot of other stuff going on now anyway, but no, we just kind of made a note of it and thought it was entertaining. We're leaving on vacation together next week and will celebrate a whole lot of things.

 

We are a long way from where we started, we're both vaccinated, and we have plenty of ideas for new adventures in front of us. I'm traveling home from a family thing and the woman I got to be a bull for right before the pandemic reached out last night, too.

[Numex 2,416]

14 hours ago, EastInWest said:

Mrs. E managed to get over the hump to having intercourse with more men since she met me than when we started.

Thinking about it, I achieved having sex with more women after marrying Daniela than before, 12.  But she is unlikely to exceed her number, around 60, because we now play within a closed group.

 

As my wife has pointed out, however, I had a lot more sex than she did, albeit with with only one woman, my ex-wife.  We had sex just about every day, and sometimes even during and after our divorce.  Although Daniela's number was five times mine, she didn't live with anyone so she had sex only two or three times a week.

 

Since we got married and especially since we started in the lifestyle, she's been making up for lost time.  Ten times a week maybe, five with me (I'm older now) and five with one of her play partners.  And to think that when we got married Daniela said that she was ready for monogamy after living a life of overlapping lovers.  She didn't need much convincing to go back.

 

I'll need to do some calculations to determine when her total number of intercourse exceeds mine.

Edited July 6, 2021 by Numex

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

Well damn! Seems like everyone got laid over 4th of July weekend except me...? Just kidding! Not kidding about not getting laid though. Glad to see everyone posting. 

[couplers 4,645]

On 7/6/2021 at 8:42 AM, Numex said:

Although Daniela's number was five times mine

There is something in there that makes me admire both of you.

[EastInWest 1,524]

So this is a new experience, not quite a Monday morning confession.

 

A sub I've played with once before got back in touch a while ago, and basically indicated that while her husband is letting her play, he's not "playing" with her. With full knowledge of both her husband and Mrs. E., she wanted me to roleplay with her a little sharing pics and stories about her activities so she can experiment with exhibition. She has a second date tonight and thinks it might go somewhere, so has been teasing about what might come. It's been entertaining and she likes having a male sounding board, but we keep it purely about sex.

Separately, Mrs. E and I both installed Tinder at the beginning of the pandemic for laughs, to chat and be social with new people. We didn't really take it seriously, but we've left it installed.

 

Mrs. E has been at a conference for her job in a city about two hours away and got an interesting match on Monday with a grad student. We've discussed this type of situation and don't need permission to pursue it up to a point, but she ran it by me anyway last night, and hinted that it's only fair - which it is. She proposed meeting him for drinks after diner tonight. He's in. I'm much more excited than I would have expected. We've played separately before but never solo off an app. Cocktails are at 8 at the bar caddy-corner to her hotel.

 

I feel like I'm going to be looking at my phone a lot tonight.

[couplers 4,645]

9 hours ago, EastInWest said:

I feel like I'm going to be looking at my phone a lot tonight.

Please share the details as they come in.  And prepare for some good reclaiming sex when she gets home.

[EastInWest 1,524]

10 hours ago, couplers said:

Please share the details as they come in.  And prepare for some good reclaiming sex when she gets home.

Phew.

 

The Sub's date didn't go anywhere. It is what it is, she was happy and flirted solo at the bar for a while.

 

Mrs. E's was more interesting. She had a good chat, got felt up, liked what she felt in his pants and had an excellent vibe, so went with it. She wasn't quite ready for intercourse but they ended up exchanging oral in his car until he came in her mouth. She's pleased with the experience and driving home now after her morning sessions ended, taking her out for drinks myself at 5:00.

 

Definitely going to be intercourse after.

 

 

 

[couplers 4,645]

22 hours ago, EastInWest said:

Definitely going to be intercourse after.

?  

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

I finally got the opportunity to play with a married woman that I have had a crush on for a couple of years. She is a middle aged woman with wide hips and a big ass. All of my friends know that is my kryptonite. Met her and her husband at this BDSM event I attend every year. The first year we met neither of us made a move. Im sure she saw me staring at her ass a couple of times as we passed each other at the event. The next year she asked me if I wanted to do a scene with her. I took her up on that offer and later that evening we went to the dungeon and I spanked that ass. Well, actually it started out as a spanking and then she told me that she would prefer if I just used my fist. I was more than happy to oblige. 

 

A few weeks ago she messaged me and asked if Id like to schedule another playdate for this year's event. Of course, I replied. The plan was to bring my paddles, floggers, and some canes to work her over properly but she told me that she wanted me to use my fists instead. I didn't ask a lot of questions and agreed to meet her one afternoon in the dungeon for our playdate. After watching her wiggle her ass up on that spanking bench and listening to her moans, I got turned on and asked her if I could taste her. She said yes so I got down on my knees and started to kiss, lick, and fondle that pussy. When I was done she turned around and we made out for a few minutes and I couldn't take it anymore so I asked if she would like to fuck. To my surprise, she said yes, so we moved to the sex swing. She proceeded to get down on her knees and suck my cock. I was so excited it didn't take long before I was hard and ready to go. She got up, positioned herself in the swing, and I moved in closer so that I could position myself to properly fuck my friends wife. 

 

 

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

Just before the holidays I got a message from a couple on SDC. The wife explained that her husband travels for work and sometimes she travels with him. We chatted up until the night they were supposed to fly into BWI. I received a text from her the next day telling me that they had landed safely and she was looking forward to meeting me that night. I got excited. At this point, I was hoping that they wouldn't have a change of heart because I really wanted to get laid. 

 

I arrived at the hotel about 8:30 pm that night and sent the address to her. She confirmed receipt of the text but I didn't hear from her again for a while. I thought for sure that they were going to stand me up. Finally around 10:30 pm she texts me that they are leaving and she be arriving at the hotel shortly. I got excited again...lol. Fifteen minutes later I get another text letting me know that they have arrived at the hotel. I go down to meet them and walk with them back to the room. 

 

At first there was a bit of awkward silence, I was worked up and ready to go but I could tell that she was not. I offered her an edible. She accepted. I bought two bottles of wine and between the three of us we finished those. I stepped outside to go smoke and she decided to join me. While outside she gave me the rundown, told me what there rules where, and then said "mf your loyalty is to me and not him". I simply nodded and said "ok". 

 

I take it that she was feeling a lot more relaxed when we got back to the room because she immediately started getting undressed. He was in one bed sleeping. We got into the other bed and started making out. Played for a while and then took a break. She threw the covers back on the bed we were in and then slid into bed with her husband. I watched as she sucked him off and he fucked her. After they were done, she rolled over and got back into bed with me. I got an instant erection and we played again.

 

Now this is when I got nervous. I think it was close to 1 am when we got finished playing, I had to go to work in the morning, and I could tell that she was no where close to being done. We stepped outside to smoke again and as soon as we got back to the room she got undressed again. The second round started just like the first round but when she got out of my bed and into bed with her husband I rolled over and went to sleep. I heard them sucking and fucking but I had nothing left to give this woman. When I woke up they were gone. I would love to play with her again but several things that she has said since make me think that I will never see them again. Oh well, at least I have the memory from that one time that this hot wife made me tap out. 

[EastInWest 1,524]

On 8/27/2021 at 11:34 AM, couplers said:

?  

I guess I never responded to this. What I meant was that *we* were going to definitely have intercourse after she got back and we had our drinks out.

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

I had the opportunity to meet a new cuckold couple over the Memorial Day weekend. The encounter was different because I did something that I have not done in a long time.  We met on another social networking site and I only saw a picture of their genitals. No face pics and we didn't even talk on the phone. Normally I don't meet anyone that I have not had a conversation with on the telephone. 

 

Despite the many times that I have been stood up when I did this in the past, I decided I was going to take a chance. I was pleasantly surprised. After reaching out to them and telling them that I was going to be traveling to SW VA, the wife sent me a reply telling me they had planned to be in that area for the holiday too. I was excited as it has been a while since I played with any cuckold couples. 

 

I told her to keep me posted and let me know when they get close to the hotel. She text me and said that they were 30 min away. I showered, got dressed, and got to the hotel at the same as them. To set the mood we smoked a joint and had a little to drink. Everyone was horny and ready to go by then. I started taking off my clothes and then ordered both of them to get undressed. 

 

I had both of them kneel in front of me and start sucking my cock together. She told him not to forget my balls. He started on my ball and she continued to work the shaft. I got so turned on I had her stand up and then kissed her in the mouth. He continued sucking my cock until it was erect. Then I told her to get on her hands and knees and scoot towards the edge of the bed. I ordered her cuckold to prep her so that I could let her feel my cock. 

 

As soon as he moved away, I slid my cock into her. We played twice that night. They decided to stay in town and get a room the second night. I went by to smoke and have a drink with them. Ended up playing again the second night. Like I was saying, this was totally out of character for me because I usually don't even leave the house until I have seen pics of both people and talked to them on the phone. However, I took a chance that weekend and it really paid off. 

[couplers 4,645]

On 9/13/2021 at 12:55 PM, PeeTWheatstraw said:

The plan was to bring my paddles, floggers, and some canes...

Damn, all that equipment.  One of the things I like about sex is that it doesn't require special clothing or equipment.   Everything needed you always have with you!  I'm always prepared if there are a few minutes and a little privacy. 

[EastInWest 1,524]

13 hours ago, couplers said:

Damn, all that equipment.  One of the things I like about sex is that it doesn't require special clothing or equipment.   Everything needed you always have with you!  I'm always prepared if there are a few minutes and a little privacy. 

Last year, I connected with the submissive I play with occasionally at the tail end of some travel. I brought (with Mrs. E's permission, of course), a set of restraints we use, the blindfold, and the suction vibrator, threw them into a slot in the back of my carry-on.

 

When I was boarding my flight, I was waiting in line at security and remembered they were in there. I'd checked it before and wasn't about to have a conversation about this in line now, so backed up and diverted over to the checked luggage counter.

 

Of course, when I got to the hotel and opened the bag, there was a big "THIS BAG WAS SEARCHED BY THE TSA" card. I wager I'd been flagged for walking away from security and somebody must have had a good laugh opening that pocket. Better than ending up holding up the line explaining how the Womanizer Duo works to a TSA agent, but still, LOL.

Edited June 9, 2022 by EastInWest

[couplers 4,645]

21 hours ago, EastInWest said:

Better than ending up holding up the line explaining how the Womanizer Duo works to a TSA agent,

No one who has ever seen my pussy has asked me, "How does that work?"

[NerdsAreFun 226]

On 6/8/2022 at 9:43 PM, couplers said:

Damn, all that equipment.  One of the things I like about sex is that it doesn't require special clothing or equipment.   Everything needed you always have with you!  I'm always prepared if there are a few minutes and a little privacy. 

Sex-cessories may not be needed.  But they absolutely can add to the fun.  Hanging a sex swing in our basement has led to some of the best sex we've ever had.  Add in restraints and a blindfold, even better.

[TnA83 309]

12 hours ago, NerdsAreFun said:

Sex-cessories may not be needed.  But they absolutely can add to the fun.  Hanging a sex swing in our basement has led to some of the best sex we've ever had.  Add in restraints and a blindfold, even better.

I want to try a sex swing.  We have a ski lift chair hanging on our deck.  I love plowing my wife as she leans back, just at the riight height, and angle...

[cplnuswing 4,713]

On 6/10/2022 at 1:27 PM, NerdsAreFun said:

Hanging a sex swing in our basement has led to some of the best sex we've ever had.  Add in restraints and a blindfold, even better.

 

This is on my DIY list.  We've got a basement room that was more of a shop at one time, is mostly storage now, but the plan is to make it where by pulling some accessories like sex swing out of their hiding places and getting some dim lighting going, instant playroom

[NerdsAreFun 226]

On 6/11/2022 at 6:53 PM, cplnuswing said:

 

This is on my DIY list.  We've got a basement room that was more of a shop at one time, is mostly storage now, but the plan is to make it where by pulling some accessories like sex swing out of their hiding places and getting some dim lighting going, instant playroom

Yeah we have a nook in the unfinished part of the basement that is perfect.  Exposed joists made mounting the hardware simple.  And the chains are hung to it on carabiners for a quick disconnect and hide away.  Have a light fixture in there and just threw one of those smart bulbs in there where you can change the color and brightness to whatever you want.  Over time will probably finish it into a proper play room behind a hidden bookcase door or something.

 

Netflix has a show coming up next month called How to Build a Sex Room for ideas.

https://people.com/home/netflix-announces-how-to-build-a-sex-room-show-all-about-renovating-intimate-spaces/

[MS1999 38]

We've been able to try a sex swing a few times at a sexy resort we go to. The angles are perfect and, although I wouldn't want to use one daily, it's a fantastic treat 

[couplers 4,645]

On 6/13/2022 at 8:28 AM, NerdsAreFun said:

renovating-intimate-spaces/

Maybe I'll redecorate my vaginal walls.

[NerdsAreFun 226]

On 6/13/2022 at 1:28 PM, MS1999 said:

We've been able to try a sex swing a few times at a sexy resort we go to. The angles are perfect and, although I wouldn't want to use one daily, it's a fantastic treat 

Also great when you've got a bad back, either in giving or receiving.  Can let the swing do a lot of the work.

Edited June 15, 2022 by NerdsAreFun

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

3 hours ago, couplers said:

Maybe I'll redecorate my vaginal walls.

Please keep me posted on how this one turns out. Im asking for a friend...lol. 

[couplers 4,645]

7 hours ago, PeeTWheatstraw said:

Please keep me posted on how this one turns out.

Will do.

 

Don't want to mess too much with near perfection. I've been told that the walls are a nice pink, so that will stay the same.  Maybe look for any damage the kids did on their way through and patch that up. 

 

The illumination isn't great, perhaps add some mood lighting.  A couple of Georgia O'Keeffe paintings would be appropriate. 

 

I'm not a fan of bling, but what's the female equivalent of a Prince Albert?  That would give the guys a surprise. 

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

It was a cold night in SWVA, but that didn't stop me from trying to get laid. I sent one of my favorite cuckold couples a message on Fetlife. Lucky for me, both of them were going to be off from work for the next couple of days. So I got in my care and made the 2.5 hr drive. Yep, I sure did.

 

This was only the second time that I planned to meet up with these folks. The last time we hung out I had a blast. When I arrived at the hotel I sent them a text to let them know I had made it to the destination. She text back that they were on their way. 

 

The first time we met there was a lot of talk before playing. I took a different approach this time. She told me that she had bought some lingerie and she was wearing it under her clothes. I encouraged the cuckold to undress her so that I could see what she looked like in her new lingerie. Immediately, I got hard. Before he could finish helping her get out of her clothes, I moved closer to the two of them. I started making out with her. The cuckold seemed like he was shocked that she would start making out with me while he was helping her get undressed.

 

As he stepped away to put her clothes in a bag, the two of us lay on the bed and continued making out. By the the time he came back to the bed, she was already mounting me. We switched positions and he tried to stick his cock in her mouth, but when I grabbed a handful of her hair, it ruined any chance of that happening. The more she moaned the more turned on I got. We switched positions again. I climbed in between her thighs.  The cuckold tried to position himself to get some head again but there was no room for him to join us. She had reached down to grab her ankles. My hands were on here tits and around her neck. Finally, I heard her say Im sorry baby! Pretty sure my erection would have lasted longer than 4 hours after she said that, but it was late, so we finished up and they went home. 

 

The next day as Im driving home I started to wonder if I had been too aggressive with them. I mean, you never know in these situations. I have played with people, thought we had a great time together only to never hear from them again. All of a sudden I see a notification pop up on my phone. It was a text from the couple. When I read the message it said something to the effect of....."We are off again today. Are you still here in the city"? 

 

 

[TeamCalgary 168]

On 9/13/2021 at 12:55 PM, PeeTWheatstraw said:

I finally got the opportunity to play with a married woman that I have had a crush on for a couple of years. She is a middle aged woman with wide hips and a big ass. All of my friends know that is my kryptonite. Met her and her husband at this BDSM event I attend every year. The first year we met neither of us made a move. Im sure she saw me staring at her ass a couple of times as we passed each other at the event. The next year she asked me if I wanted to do a scene with her. I took her up on that offer and later that evening we went to the dungeon and I spanked that ass. Well, actually it started out as a spanking and then she told me that she would prefer if I just used my fist. I was more than happy to oblige. 

 

A few weeks ago she messaged me and asked if Id like to schedule another playdate for this year's event. Of course, I replied. The plan was to bring my paddles, floggers, and some canes to work her over properly but she told me that she wanted me to use my fists instead. I didn't ask a lot of questions and agreed to meet her one afternoon in the dungeon for our playdate. After watching her wiggle her ass up on that spanking bench and listening to her moans, I got turned on and asked her if I could taste her. She said yes so I got down on my knees and started to kiss, lick, and fondle that pussy. When I was done she turned around and we made out for a few minutes and I couldn't take it anymore so I asked if she would like to fuck. To my surprise, she said yes, so we moved to the sex swing. She proceeded to get down on her knees and suck my cock. I was so excited it didn't take long before I was hard and ready to go. She got up, positioned herself in the swing, and I moved in closer so that I could position myself to properly fuck my friends wife. 

 

All of my friends know that is my kryptonite

I hear you friend; those hips, hmmmmmmmmmm. Just something about the shape/feel of a woman's hips. 

[couplers 4,645]

18 hours ago, TeamCalgary said:

something about the shape/feel of a woman's hips. 

My hips are somewhat narrow.  What others find interesting is how the front of my hip bones stick out.

 

And without much of an ass, you have to put a pillow underneath. 

[TeamCalgary 168]

And that's the beauty of it couplers; women, you are all beautiful.

[TricianMike 772]

A cuckold is the man whose wife is unfaithful. I am not unfaithful because I have sex with Michael’s knowledge so he’s not a cuckold. I am not demeaning him by having sex even if some of the ungrateful guys try making fun of him. 

[Numex 2,416]

On 3/22/2023 at 5:09 AM, couplers said:

my hip bones stick out.

I like that.

[couplers 4,645]

On 3/22/2023 at 2:10 PM, TricianMike said:

I am not unfaithful because I have sex with Michael’s knowledge so he’s not a cuckold.

Michael, like my husband, is not a cuckold, he is unselfish and generous.

On 3/22/2023 at 2:10 PM, TricianMike said:

I am not demeaning him by having sex even if some of the ungrateful guys try making fun of him.

Very early in our marriage, before our poly family formed (and I was full of myself) I started having sex with a man like that.  He just couldn't understand why my husband was ok with it.  Rather than being grateful, he demeaned my husband and said he must be sexually inadequate.  I dumped him.  The experience humbled me and made me appreciate my husband and boyfriend more.