Separate vacations?

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,389]

I am getting ready to head out to the midwest for a week to see family.  I'm taking our kids but my wife has used too much vacation already (prior family emergency) and is opting to stay home.  As a consolation I have arranged to have our regular male 3rd stay at home to keep my wife company while I'm gone.  We have only done something like this once before when he took her to Vegas and honestly we are all just fine with the arrangements.  Completely turned on and excited actually.

 

Does anybody else take vacation or weekends away with playmates - unaccompanied by spouse?

[njbm 2,871]

We’ve never done it, but never say never. I thought the husband was going to play on the road. 

Edited July 14, 2021 by njbm

[Anon321 522]

Both me and my GF have taken a few separate vacations.  They are mostly just weekend trips.  Actually right before the pandemic I was supposed to go on a weekend trip with 2 of my buddies to a casino which we do all the time.  We split a suite 3 ways but right before the trip I had a bunch of work that came up that I needed to get done and I wouldn't be able to get it done on the car ride up and didn't feel like bringing my laptop and just doing all the work in the hotel so I backed out.  Since it was all paid and I didn't want to ask for my money back my GF volunteered to go with them.

 

She had fun and obviously they had a blast with her.  They kept me in the loop during their sexual activities and I got a call from them in the car driving up while my GF was blowing my buddy and I could hear her gagging on his cock.  99.9% of the time I love hearing that stuff and being kept in the loop but I had so much work to do that weekend it was a distraction.  I would have enjoyed it more if I just got to stay home and relax without worrying about a deadline and enjoy the sex calls, pics, vids, etc.  It was still hot but I was up 2 straight nights working while they were gambling and fucking so not as enjoyable for me as them.  But still hot.

[Numex 2,416]

8 hours ago, hunterdonNJcpl said:

Does anybody else take vacation or weekends away with playmates - unaccompanied by spouse?

Daniela has gone on several vacations with her favorite couple.  For the three of them it is romance and sex.

 

I've gone on a couple out-of-towners with a woman (i.e., the wife of another man) with whom I share cultural interests that my wife and her husband despise.  For us it is theater, museums, concerts and sex.

 

As wonderful as it is, we all appreciate our spouses more in the end.  These adventures really burns bright and hot, but it does flame out because it is not as deep as what we have with our mates.  It does, however, build up for the next time. 

Edited July 15, 2021 by Numex

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,389]

I'm back from my midwest trip with an update: My wife spent the week at home with a regular single male playmate of ours and it was a fantastic experience for everyone!  The knowledge of them together was very exciting and arousing to me and added a nice extra layer of intensity to my days - which seemed to provide me with added energy.  It's hard to relax with visions of your wife and another man in your head.  Hard to describe.  But I was energetic and hard working (there was work to do).

 

As for my wife, she really enjoyed time off from family, going out on dates and being spoiled by an attentive lover.  They even visited Gunnison Beach last Saturday (sent me some great pics), and when it started to rain returned home to make love as the storm raged outside.

 

As for our friend - what's not to love?  He had access to my beautiful wife all week and didn't even have to share!  I would call it a win/win/win!

 

Now that I'm home my wife and I are energized and horny for each other like teenagers!  I will undoubtedly be doing this more often and highly recommend it to our fellow Lifestyle friends!!

[Numex 2,416]

9 hours ago, hunterdonNJcpl said:

My wife spent the week at home with a regular single male playmate of ours ...  I will undoubtedly be doing this more often and highly recommend it to our fellow Lifestyle friends!!

Sounds great.  My wife and I like being on both sides of both long-term adventures as well as the quick one during the weekday.  

 

10 hours ago, hunterdonNJcpl said:

The knowledge of them together was very exciting and arousing to me ...  It's hard to relax with visions of your wife and another man in your head.

Agree, and so is the surprise of one's wife coming home with semen in her vagina and pussy on her breath.