David Lovell 160 Posted August 21, 2021 My hall pass date, Melissa, has found a boyfriend. He's a kind and hansome black guy called Mack. Last weekend we met him and Melissa and my wife exoeriencedllll her first black cock. We went with condoms for safety but hopefully everything will check out fine and we can enjoy the real thing soon. We have been swinging for over 3 years and have now got 3 couples to swing with. Including hall passes, we reckon we have now had about 20 sessions. That's not so may about once every two months. Is that a low average? Any comments on how frequently the rest of LS folks swing? 9 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
lcmim 1,082 Posted August 21, 2021 (edited) The question about averages depends a lot on what else you have going on in your life. Researching your placement on the curve is one rabbit hole that I would advise staying out of. The question is . Are the two of you content? Edited August 21, 2021 by lcmim 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,871 Posted August 21, 2021 (edited) Men cannot be tested for HPV. Condoms are of dubious value against it. If any of the parties are under 45, they can be vaccinated. Unfortunately, we know several women who have had medical procedures due to HPV. Also, women in the lifestyle should have regular Pap smears. I am not a doctor, but talk to your doctor about it. They assume that married women are monogamous. Sorry to be Debbie Downer, but swingers don’t want to talk about it and it is very prevalent. Edited August 21, 2021 by njbm 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
zonaboy801 38 Posted August 22, 2021 Congrats David! You guys are living large. Hope you move on to the real thing soon! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post