Swim Club Takeover

[Shore2Please 611]

When I was in high school there were stories about a swim club that would be rented out to a swingers club every year. I thought it was a myth or a story guys I knew made up because they worked the parties. Sex Drugs and Rock. 

 

We are now invited to our first real sex party at a swim club and it sounds just like the stories I grew up hearing. Our friends in another state, the couple we had our first swapped partners with, invited us to a party this weekend. I’m very hesitant not knowing what to expect and what I’m expected to do. I’m far from being an exhibitionist, preferring private swapping. Our past has been mainly with this one couple with their friends possibly joining, no true strangers. 
 

I don’t want to make this a Covid post, we are vaccinated, our friends and their close friends are too, this sounds stupid, do you ask others? 
 

Is it social to turn someone down if they approach? It’s hard enough for me in a group situation, now a very large group, I need an attraction that I’m thinking will be a physical attraction. I don’t think I will have time to meet and get to know people, I can only picture an unattractive man approaching me. I don’t want to hold others from enjoying and only stay with our friends. 
 

Happy Labor Day!!

[njbm 2,871]

Whatever you expect in swinging is not what happens. 

The vax or no vax question is sticky. You can get covid from a vaccinated person. I guess you have to decide if you are comfortable with the format. 
 

[lcmim 1,082]

These are real adults and not children in old bodies correct?

 

In that case assume to normal codes of conduct.

No means no.  "No's" while not desirable , are expected.

 

Most of us guys are gentlemen. Those that aren't usually get pushed out or at least to the perimeter.

 

Go, swim, have fun.

 

Due to health regulations that the pool needs to follow , I doubt that any carrying on of a fluid exchange nature will be allowed in the pool.

I doubt that beverages in glass will be allowed and most likely their insurance will be happier if they keep the drinking on the safe side of stupid drunk.

 

Set your mind for skinny dipping fun. I bet anything deeper will likely be off premise, in a nearby motel.

 

Edited September 3, 2021 by lcmim

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

If you are afraid to be around other people, then don't be around other people. Hopefully most people are vax by now and I think that everyone knows not to go out if they aren't feeling well. The world has changed and will probably never go back to how it was, but one cannot live in fear of living.

[Shore2Please 611]

Please Don’t Make This a Covid post. ?

1 hour ago, GoldCoCouple said:

 

If you are afraid to be around other people, then don't be around other people.

 

Not afraid, just cautious. 

 

1 hour ago, njbm said:

The vax or no vax question is sticky. You can get covid from a vaccinated person. I guess you have to decide if you are comfortable with the format. 

Thank you. No disrespect, we are educated. 

 

1 hour ago, lcmim said:

 

Due to health regulations that the pool needs to follow , I doubt that any carrying on of a fluid exchange nature will be allowed in the pool.

We aren’t sure about that. From what our friends told us, and they don’t know first hand, their friends said to expect anything and everything. It is a private party and the club closes down the day after for cleaning. I believe it because that is what the rumors were about the club when I was younger. The story was the pool was closed for a full heavy chlorine load and filter. Condoms were found all around and in the pool. I hadn’t thought about those stories until this invitation. I wasn’t there and only heard guy stories about it. That club no longer exists, only notorious stories. 

[Idahocouple6969 294]

As normal no means no. You should never feel like you have to take one for the"team". If you are approached by someone you are not interested in just say no thanks. 

We have several FWB and we have played with people we met 10 minutes ago. 

There is nothing wrong with folks wanting a connection before playing. We come to play and if a friendship develops great... but we are also fine with one and done. 

Your swinging rules can and should change as time goes by. Initially we always played in the same room. Now it's not that important, we have decided that we don't have rules but we do have things we don't like. 

I'm guessing that the pool would be clothing optional. My wife loves the water and I on the other hand like my water contained in the bathtub.

So long story made short decide before you go what is acceptable for both of you. And make sure you both agree to stick to your rules of playing this is important when you start playing with a larger group, clubs etc.

And if you decide that you are not interested in a group free for all say so, make your excuses and leave. 

[Shore2Please 611]

13 minutes ago, Idahocouple6969 said:

I'm guessing that the pool would be clothing optional.

I’m guessing very optional. We have been to a nude beach and hardly anyone has a suit on. I’ve heard about resorts like Hedo where things go on in the open, stories not personal experience. 
 

Funny thing is I never considered having sex with anyone but my husband and then I did. Touching a woman,  never and then I did. Now put me alone in a room with the right man and I want the time to go forever. Sex in front of others is another story. I am going with an open mind and praying it is exciting. 

[TricianMike 772]

13 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

When I was in high school there were stories about a swim club that would be rented out to a swingers club every year. I thought it was a myth or a story guys I knew made up because they worked the parties

I heard, never went, about that club. Don’t think it’s there anymore. 
Have fun with your friends old and new. Be safe around a pool, who knows you may meet great new people. Think about it, they are just like you, looking for a fun day. 

[njbm 2,871]

Report back! This could be epic. 

[Shore2Please 611]

10 hours ago, njbm said:

Report back! This could be epic. 

Yikes! Epic? Hope not epic, getting nervous now. 
We finally got to our friends late last night, no real sleep. I got to be with my second favorite bed partner. I know I have to keep my excitement down when I’m with him. I’m happy they live hours from us, it makes our time together special. My gf came out of the other room hugging my huggybear. Looks like they enjoyed their time too. 
My girlfriend is excited about today too. Neither of us are sure what it will be, she is filling me in on what she knows. She knows some of the people going to be at the club. She warned me about a few men. They also told me we passed the test to be accepted to attend the party, a panel goes over the guest list. 
Now if it just warms up, thought going south would be warmer. 

[njbm 2,871]

No pressure!

[Shore2Please 611]

On 9/4/2021 at 10:45 AM, njbm said:

No pressure!

There wasn’t any pressure. 
 

On 9/3/2021 at 10:13 AM, lcmim said:

Set your mind for skinny dipping fun. I bet anything deeper will likely be off premise, in a nearby motel.

Plenty of skinny dipping, some on premise sex, just not for me. Good natured fun, some light play for me while others went much further. I’m not the exhibitionist when it comes to sex, I was a watcher of others. I had many opportunities and invitations to join in tempting fun that Mr. S2P gave into. 
My fun came at an after party when a couple my friends know invited me to spend a night with them. I didn’t want to leave my husband alone until I knew he would have others to be with. I had expected to be alone with one man not a couple, the night was wonderful. I was treated as the honored one, a unicorn. They made the night about me not about them. 
The party sex continued Labor Day. 

[TricianMike 772]

Reading you had a good time. Things go the way you want them to go. 

[TricianMike 772]

We have gone to a few private pool parties and each one has been different from nude parties to full on sex. 

[lovefest04 699]

On 9/4/2021 at 7:03 AM, Shore2Please said:

We finally got to our friends late last night, no real sleep. I got to be with my second favorite bed partner. I know I have to keep my excitement down when I’m with him.

If I was your husband/partner I'd want you to be as excited as you possibly could, with him.

[Shore2Please 611]

1 hour ago, lovefest04 said:

If I was your husband/partner I'd want you to be as excited as you possibly could, with him.

He knows I get excited with him and our friend. There is no jealousy between us as we always talk about our nights apart. I don’t think we are as active as most people on here and I could name the people we have been with. The people we visited were our first and I wouldn’t be unhappy if they were our only and my husband would most likely say that would be fine with him not because the other people we met were not nice, it’s just I enjoy being with them. We even talk about how bad our second day with them six years ago was a nightmare for me and laugh good natured at what we enjoy now. The wife was my first lesbian experience, I hated it. Six years later and I’m first starting to relax and enjoy that part of our playing. 
Don’t we all remember firsts? I thank the lucky gods that my first extramarital sex was much more pleasurable from my first sexual experience. And because of the Swingersboard I’m reliving my excitement every time I relate it. 
I wish Mr S2B could have shared my excitement firsthand yet him being there would have made the experiences much different. We have had same room sex which is very different from alone times. I am still glowing from the night with a couple where every thrill was centered on me, I never felt used as a unicorn or as a toy. My friend warned the couple to treat me well and they did. 
Just so you know my husband wasn’t left out of a great night, he can’t wait to go back for a return weekend. 

[NoAngels 334]

Trust. The primary sign of a great relationship is trusting your partner. Your partner trusts you alone with others, you giving him the same trust.
I trust my wife to have sexual fun without me watching her or even asking her afterwards. She extends the same trust to me. The sexual dynamic alone with a partner is extremely opposite of having someone else included.