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We've been using Pink Silicone for quite a while after some playmates turned us onto it, but lately it seems to be irritating her and causing UTI.  We don't always use lube, and maybe it was coincidence and the lube has nothing to do with the UTI's, but every time she has gotten one, lube was used when we last had sex before the UTI. We liked the Pink because even though had silicone, it didn't feel quite as "chemical" as some of the others we've tried.

 

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We have been using JO H2O for years and find it works great!  Usually buy the flavoured ones.  Can be bought on Amazon or most sex stores.  We stay away from anything with silicone or the ones that heat things up ourselves.  Although she produces a lot of natural wetness from being multi orgasmic and being a squirter we still find lube a good idea for long sessions to keep things from getting raw. 

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Our choices show our lack of sophistication, but saliva works fine for us for vaginal intercourse (I get wet pretty easily, but sometimes I need a little just at the entrance to get started).  Mostly there is pussy licking going on before fucking anyway, so it's not a problem.

 

For anal play, if it's just a finger in my/her bum, pussy juice will do, otherwise we use astrolube for dick-in-bum sex.  My obsession is with products for cleaning up his dick afterwards.

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Years ago, I was watching a behind the scenes documentary about the porn industry. One of the things brought up was lube. At the time, the lube of choice was Albolene. I search for it for years on toy sites and such to no avail. Finally found out it was a makeup remover/moisturizer. Got some and loved it, especially for anal. The industry has now migrated to coconut oil. It works quite well for intercourse and masterbation. Albolene still seems to be a better  choice for anal. My opinion.

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Liquid coconut oil for us as we aren't playing yet and we don't use rubbers with each other 

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Over time, we have come to the conclusion that the least complicated formulations--those that do not include scents, silicone, parabens, and so on--are the least likely to cause problems with the biology of the vulva, urethra, and vagina. The KISS principle, "Keep it Simple, Sexy!", applies. 

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We like Spunk and BadDragon's cum lube.  For the extra bit of naughtiness of making it look like sloppy seconds.

 

Bad Dragon's is water based and paraben free.

https://bad-dragon.com/products/cumlube

 

Spunk is a hybrid.  Amused when googling for a listing(as we usually just pick up at a local sex shop) that it is available at walmart.

https://www.walmart.com/ip/Spunk-Hybrid-Personal-Lube-8-Ounce/151580678

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5 hours ago, NerdsAreFun said:

We like Spunk and BadDragon's cum lube.  For the extra bit of naughtiness of making it look like sloppy seconds.

 

Bad Dragon's is water based and paraben free.

https://bad-dragon.com/products/cumlube

 

Spunk is a hybrid.  Amused when googling for a listing(as we usually just pick up at a local sex shop) that it is available at walmart.

https://www.walmart.com/ip/Spunk-Hybrid-Personal-Lube-8-Ounce/151580678

 

13 hours ago, J&Wu said:

We like Good Clean Love Almost Naked.

 

Wow, we've just kept with AstroGlide. I'm amazed at all the options here. 

 

To those who use these lubes we've never heard of, have you used AstroGlide? I'm curious why you switched to something else, and any opinions on why you like the current stuff better than it.

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12 minutes ago, MrMrsswinger said:

 

 

 

 

Wow, we've just kept with AstroGlide. I'm amazed at all the options here. 

 

To those who use these lubes we've never heard of, have you used AstroGlide? I'm curious why you switched to something else, and any opinions on why you like the current stuff better than it.

Have used astroglide in the past.  It doesn't perform as well as others we have tried since and it was occasionally irritating.  Also now that they have xylitol we wouldn't get it as we don't allow any xylitol containing products in the house.

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We hadn’t bought lubes before and then we met with friends that had Lube Life. I never minded the taste of pussy, damn I enjoy the taste. Now I enjoy Cotton Candy pussy. Now the wife is using water based lube on her toys, I don’t think her pussy knows it’s flavored. 

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On 11/8/2021 at 11:42 AM, MrMrsswinger said:

 

 

 

 

Wow, we've just kept with AstroGlide. I'm amazed at all the options here. 

 

To those who use these lubes we've never heard of, have you used AstroGlide? I'm curious why you switched to something else, and any opinions on why you like the current stuff better than it.

We've used AstroGlide and it works fine but the containers tend to leak when we travel and make a mess in the packed liquid/lotions bag so we were looking for an alternative anyway besides coconut oil which Wu has found irritating and a messy cleanup. There is a U of Maryland Medical Center Assistant Professor of Urology, Rena Malik, MD who posts a weekly YouTube on a variety of urologic subjects. She's strictly the facts and easy/clear to listen to. She had one a while back, "Everything you NEED to know about LUBRICANTS | What to know BEFORE you buy LUBE." One of the ones she discussed was Good Clean Love, we tried it and like it and hopefully it might travel without leaking as we start flying again over the upcoming months.

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No need to keep your lube in the original bottle.  Find a nice pump bottle you like to store next to the bed and a good travel one for on the go.

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