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Bi-sexual women - how far do you like to go?

Bi-sexual women: what do you like to do in the sex you have with other women?  

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  1. 1. Bi-sexual women: what do you like to do in the sex you have with other women?

    • Kissing and caressing.
      137
    • Fingering.
      124
    • Giving oral.
      122
    • Receiving oral.
      135
    • Mutual use of vibrators and 'standard' dildos.
      90
    • Using a strap-on to receive.
      52
    • Using a strap-on to give.
      58
    • Rubbing pussies together (Tribadism).
      80
    • Using double dildos.
      66
    • Other (describe in your post, if you wish)
      11


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For the bi-sexual women here . . .

 

Following a conversation we were recently party to - allied with our own experiences - it seems to us that there are a good many more shades to female bi-sexuality than we originally envisaged before we became 'active'.

 

Care to add your own preferences to the poll? How far do you like to go?

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I selected pretty much everything that doesn't involve toys. I'm not uncomfortable with using toys with women specifically; I'm just not into toys in general.

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I didn't vote because I haven't had a bi-sexual experience yet.

 

But I can imagine enjoying everything listed in the poll.

 

Mrs. LM

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I voted, but as you know I haven't experienced it yet. I just think that I would like to kiss, caress, give and receive oral and maybe use some toys. The double dildo however does nothing for me in my fantasy.

 

 

Kiss!

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As a bisexual grrl....I like everything except for the strap on. Those kinda scare me lol...I haven't really tried them and probably once I try them..I'll probably like them!

 

Zgirl

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Only 4 actual posters thus far, but with 19 participants in the poll, the results already are supporting what we've come to believe from our recent conversation and our experience.

 

Kissing and caressing appear to be the greatest attractions of fem-fem sex. Is that because women excel at those art forms? Is the gentle thoroughness of a woman in that most delicate type of foreplay the thing most desired by bi-sexual and bicurious women?

 

While there's only a difference of one vote at the moment, it does support the supposition that there are some women who are quite happy to receive oral, but not prepared to give it in return.

 

And contrary to what porno films might have us believe by their portrayls of female bisexuality, pussy rubbing, double dildos and strap ons are only enjoyed by around 50% of women.

 

Hopefully, there will be more participants in the poll. It will be interesting to see if the stats continue to support these 'conclusions'.

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Originally posted by Brit_Pair

Kissing and caressing appear to be the greatest attractions of fem-fem sex. Is that because women excel at those art forms? Is the gentle thoroughness of a woman in that most delicate type of foreplay the thing most desired by bi-sexual and bicurious women?

 

While there's only a difference of one vote at the moment, it does support the supposition that there are some women who are quite happy to receive oral, but not prepared to give it in return.

 

Hopefully, there will be more participants in the poll. It will be interesting to see if the stats continue to support these 'conclusions'.

 

I love reciprocating oral....not to honk my own horn--its something that I do really really good. But Hey! I'm a woman and I know what "I" like--its good math to deduct that she would like the same.

 

The ONLY time I do not "return favor" is when she is not shaved. Usually upon first talks and meets I ask--Its that important to me. I hate---absolutely abhor-- pussy hair that has not been tended to. I notice a definite difference in the scent and munchability of an unshaved puss puss. If that girl wants me to stay and play she should shave. I keep mine very neat and clean--she should do the same.

 

My favorite part of the experience is the touching, caressing, kissing, licking, teasing. I LOVE breasts--I'm orally fixated on them. I love it when I find someone who can orgasm from nipple stimulation. My husband can--I get lots of practice on him. So--if I can get him to orgasm from nipple stimulation--imagine what I love to do to a woman once I get my hands on her. facelick

 

Pussy griding really does nothing for me---my clit needs more contact than that provides--BUT---add a double dildoe and maybe a low speed vibe (high speeds desensitizes my clit), and I am there.

 

I think the reason why porno's portray bisexual women sex the way that they do is because men make those movies. I believe that it is their opinion that women can not achieve sexual pleasure with out a cock.

 

Zgirl ;)

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Originally posted by GirlieZ

I think the reason why porno's portray bisexual women sex the way that they do is because men make those movies. I believe that it is their opinion that women can not achieve sexual pleasure with out a cock.

I don't suppose the men making pornos are alone in thinking a woman requires penetration - by penis or penis facsimile - for pleasure.

 

On that thought, are there any companies out there making pornos that portray female-female sex from a non-stereotypical viewpoint? Presumably there must be somone attempting to cater for the lesbian market.

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I was really surprised that there are women who are less likely to give oral than to receive it. If I were just going to receive it - I would stick to men. My opinion is the same w/ the strap on. If I needed the penetration - I would be doing a man. I enjoy the soft, delicate yet erotic touches of a woman from time to time. Giving back those touches is completely awesome!! I love being with men - but sometimes the f/f just cant be beat :)

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Originally posted by Brit_Pair

On that thought, are there any companies out there making pornos that portray female-female sex from a non-stereotypical viewpoint? Presumably there must be somone attempting to cater for the lesbian market.

 

Actually--I used to own one. By Vivid-- Where the Boys Arent

 

But its very "lipsticky" Not at all butchy.

 

 

Zgirl

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The stats continue to bear out our suppositions - less than 50% of the participants are interested in the strap-on, which possibly represents the more extreme end of female-female sex, and not many more interested in double-dildos. Kissing & caressing remains out-and-out favourite, though strangely enough, not with *all* of the voters. Hmmm. And there are still some women out there who like to receive oral, but not to give in return.

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As a bi-female I love touching and kissing another woman and pleasing her orally. I don't get into the strap-ons. A vibe is alright to help out with the pleasure, but that's as far as I would go.

Just my 50 cents worth of opinion.

Hugs and Kisses from Missouri.

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I voted for everything but the pussy rubbing. I guess I get off more from penetration. My favorite is the strap on, although I have found that alot of women don't care for that. I've always had a case of penis envy...lol! The receiving oral is always good, but I have to admit I don't always return the favor. There have been only a few times when I have just felt so compelled to go down on her too. But when I do it's great!

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I have to clear this up. Pussy rubbing is known as tribadism. Just thought you all might like to know that.

 

And Zgirl, I'm curious, how shaved are we talking here? You say you keep yours neat and clean; I'm wondering what that means.

Landing strips, 70's style, or all the way?

 

I like pubic hair.

 

2N

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Everything I selected in the poll has to do with kissing and touching. I enjoy skin to skin contact and just haven't had the desire to try pleasing with toys - just enjoy both the giving and receiving tactile sensations.

 

Mrs. Idaho Couple

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Originally posted by 2neophytes

I have to clear this up. Pussy rubbing is known as tribadism. Just thought you all might like to know that.

 

And Zgirl, I'm curious, how shaved are we talking here? You say you keep yours neat and clean; I'm wondering what that means.

Landing strips, 70's style, or all the way?

 

I like pubic hair.

 

2N

 

I do landing strip and all the way. Depends on the mood!;)

 

Zgirl

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I really enjoy kissing and carressing to warm things up. Grinding on each other and touching as foreplay. I love giving and receiving oral sex from a woman.

From time to time not to often though we have toy night. Where we get out the vibrators, strappons, double headed dildos, and lotions and go to town and have a good time.

I even do that with my spouse. We sometimes get out the toys and lotions and experiment it is fun.

I have to share my favorite experience with a double headed dildo. My spouse, myself and another couple had spent the night at a swing club and were on our way back home. Had our toys packed up in our bags. Me and my girlfriend were still feeling frisky. We had not used our toys at the club and decided to use them on the way home. The back seat was awesome for using the doubleheader. We were facing each other crocth to crocth, using the door frame for leverage for pushing into each other. It felt awesome and oh so good. The poor fellas had a hard time concentrating on the driving.lol. It felt like we covered the 30 some odd miles in no time flat. lol.

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Originally posted by 2neophytes

I have to clear this up. Pussy rubbing is known as tribadism. Just thought you all might like to know that.

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I love this place! I'm always learning something new. :)

 

-B

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And to show appreciation for 2neophytes precision, the appropriate poll category has been updated!

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The poll results continue to back up the suppositions we'd formed prior to it being posted.

 

The biggest surprise is that kissing and caressing with other women is not something that all the bisexual women here like to do. When the poll was created, that was the one entry I might have sworn all the respondants would say 'yes' to.

 

Anybody here who didn't tick that choice prepared to say why? It would be very interesting to know.

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One rule that some couples have is no kissing. And that could extend to women when the female is bisexual, so that could be one reason. Perhaps kissing and caressing should each have their own *slot* but then you could end up with a poll that's 18 feet long in options.

 

As for myself, I do it all or have done it all on the list and even have done an all women BD a few times. Like the one poster here (sorry, don't remember who), I seem to have a breast fetish and like my SO, adore them (and even my own :D ). I'm always, in some way, touching, sucking, kissing, playing with the other woman's (womens) breasts. Even when my face is buried between their thighs, at least one hand is playing with a breast, hers or mine and it sends me in orbit when someone's buried between my legs if they're talented enough :rofl: to play with mine.

 

Because of this *fetish*, a strap-on can be equally fun. Nothing like being in missionary and reaching up or leaning upwards to fondle or suck on a large swinging tit with a hard protruding nipple. For those that have never tried a strap on...technology has given us many absolutely wonderful strap ons that has both a clit stimulator for the user and the usee. While expensive (I paid over $100 for the last one I bought as it was double headed), it's well worth the investiment!

 

Quin

:nono:

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One rule that some couples have is no kissing. And that could extend to women when the female is bisexual, so that could be one reason. Perhaps kissing and caressing should each have their own *slot* but then you could end up with a poll that's 18 feet long in options.
A valid point, Reg, and it might be indicative of one of my own preconceptions having crept into the poll creation process. We are of the "no kissing" brigade when it comes to the opposite sex, but when the females play together, kissing - along with everything else on the poll - are on the menu. The idea and reality of two women kissing passionately just doesn't seem to push the 'anti-kissing' buttons for us.

 

That said, I can see how some people might enforce the no kissing rule regardless of gender. Perhaps future voters can take note of this, and post a comment accordingly.

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I seem to have a breast fetish and like my SO, adore them (and even my own :D ). I'm always, in some way, touching, sucking, kissing, playing with the other woman's (womens) breasts. Even when my face is buried between their thighs, at least one hand is playing with a breast, hers or mine and it sends me in orbit when someone's buried between my legs if they're talented enough :rofl: to play with mine.

 

Because of this *fetish*, a strap-on can be equally fun. Nothing like being in missionary and reaching up or leaning upwards to fondle or suck on a large swinging tit with a hard protruding nipple. For those that have never tried a strap on...technology has given us many absolutely wonderful strap ons that has both a clit stimulator for the user and the usee. While expensive (I paid over $100 for the last one I bought as it was double headed), it's well worth the investiment!

 

Quin

:nono:

I love a womans body. I like to START with kissing and fondling. There's just something about the soft touch of a woman. I actually prefer to give rather than receive oral sex. I love knowing that I'm the one making her squirm. I of course enjoy penetration, but have yet to use toys with another woman.

 

What brand strap-on is your favorite? I've been looking, but just not quite sure what type to buy.

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I agree kissing is so sensual I can get so turned on if someone kisses me right. Caressing woman to woman is almost electrifying its so soft and warm I get goosebumps just thinking about it!!!And last but not least oral is so good I love the taste of pussy I have yet to find a girl who can eat pussy as good as me, but i am still looking.Maybe i like to give more than recieve??? :confused:

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I voted for everything mentioned as well as some of you others. Although, I have played with toys while playing with another female. None were the double or strap-on. They were regular vibes. I absolutely love the kissing and breast fondling, caressing, everything really. I look forward to my first time using the strap-ons and doubles. I love a good vibe, though. Don't get me wrong. ~shivers~ That and the thought of ****ing a girl with a strap-on. My God-What an orgasm... Ok, I'm done now. ~giggles~

 

Beloved1982

 

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