How do I find a couple to swing with

[Doyoureallycare 0]

How do I find couples to have fun with

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,423]

This board is not really the place for hooking up (Although I'm sure that has happened here). You might want to start with one of the lifestyle websites like swinglifestyle or kasidie, or even better just visit a swing club in your area and check it out.

[lcmim 1,086]

Look for a local group and go to one of their parties. There is not much information on your bio. If you are a single guy, or playing as one, then you may have some issues gaining admittance to both local groups and clubs.

[couplers 4,718]

7 hours ago, Doyoureallycare said:

How do I find couples to have fun with

Depends on several factors.  If you are a woman, you should have little problem finding a couple you like and on your own terms.  If you are on the young and attractive side, you can make pretty much any demands that you want.

 

If you are a guy, you are one of many and will have to try longer and harder, keeping yourself in shape and well groomed.  You may have better luck finding a woman with the same mindset where you both enjoy each other's company and can swing together as a couple.  In any event, be kind and generous, looking out for other people's pleasure before your own.

 

Good luck and keep us updated. 

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

Top of page "please visit our sponsors". Most let you set up a free account and contact other people, HOWEVER, most paid members will ignore the free members. If  you are serious about finding other couples, spend the few dollars and join. It shows that you are really serious about finding other couples and are not just some guy looking for fuel to masturbate to...

[enhancer 1,586]

As already mentioned a good start is to set up a paid account on one of the swingers sites available!  
 

If you are a woman you will have no problem finding lots of interest regardless of what you look like!  Women are in high demand in the lifestyle. 
 

If you are a man playing alone be prepared for to put a lot of effort in on your part!  Unfortunately the playing field is not so great for single males.  For every woman in the lifestyle there are probably about 100 men.  As said above being in good shape and well groomed is a good idea.  Anything you can do to stand out from the sea of men will only help. Also suggest not trying to use dick pics to attract women, because it does not work. Usually gets you blocked and ignored.  

[Lionheart72 2,191]

55 minutes ago, enhancer said:

If you are a man playing alone be prepared for to put a lot of effort in on your part!  Unfortunately the playing field is not so great for single males.  For every woman in the lifestyle there are probably about 100 men.  As said above being in good shape and well groomed is a good idea.  Anything you can do to stand out from the sea of men will only help. Also suggest not trying to use dick pics to attract women, because it does not work. Usually gets you blocked and ignored.

 

To emphasize the point, under the heading of "anything you can do to stand out" - your dick will not make you stand out. No matter how impressive you think your dick is (or how impressive your dick might actually be), your dick will not make you stand out, Neither will your sexual stamina nor your talents at cunnilingus. Guys with self proclaimed superhuman stamina, and horse-cocks, who love to eat pussy are, in fact, common as dirt on most swinger sites... and, as enhancer says, those traits will get you ignored and probably blocked.

 

You want to stand out, talk about your love of jazz or your skill at dancing, post pictures of your nice coat and tie, or your best cowboy hat (or you best coat and tie with a cowboy hat while jazz dancing). These things will make you stand out from the crowd of dicks.