amand 18 Posted November 3, 2021 So, I have been wondering when is it good time to stop being a part of this lifestyle. A friend couple of ours once fine day told us they have decided to stop swinging all the way... The husband said, this may be a short stint for now they are out of it, they are same ag as ours early 40's So, it made me think, we will laos someday quit, but when will this be... Need to know from the users / fraternity here , what are your views. Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,901 Posted November 3, 2021 We know several people with adverse effects from HPV. Has not knocked them out of swinging yet. Too old for that vax. Quote Share this post Link to post
Lionheart72 2,191 Posted November 3, 2021 Health, money, age, interest, change in relationship, change in family status or living conditions.... there are as many reasons to stop swinging as there are people who swing, I expect. As with anything else, no one reason is the reason for everyone. The question is what will be the reason for you. You'll know it when you get there. You'll talk about it with your spouse and and you'll both figure out how to make the change from swingers to people with nice memories of some wild times, 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,068 Posted November 3, 2021 It's called life...things happen. A lot of the time it's not even a conscious decision and things just stop while other things take priority. But things will continue to change and suddenly you find that you are wanting to become swingers again. Never say never to anything, because just when you do, life will change things once again... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Sophy 571 Posted November 4, 2021 Life, education, culture and priorities are different for everybody, a friend couple of us that we played several times and had amazing sexy memories, decided one day to start a family and put the swinging life on hold, they now have 2 children and they have been out for almost 5 years. Quote Share this post Link to post