Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else?

[ackjae0 16]

the thought of watching wife take cock is the most stimulating of all sexual visions..after the orgasm its like significant shrinkage of all sexual desire..then that goes away and you still have the memories filed...all sexually good

[hannah_mark 15]

We love it. For us it's one of the best, of not the best, thing about swinging. I love seeing Rob with another girl. Even the thought of it turns me on. It's a 2 way things though, Rob gets really hot when he sees me having sex with another guy.

[mjsocal 15]

For me, watching her is the most erotically compelling aspect of the lifestyle, which I've enjoyed with four different women over the years. With each, we would begin by swinging equally but would progress to my watching. The images of her with another make for the most potent memories.

[WeMayTryIt 120]

We both think it's very hot to see the other one with someone else. While I (the male), really enjoy the variety of other women, there is nothing--and I mean NOTHING--like watching my wife receive pleasure. When she's being pleasured by someone else, the view is so much better, even though it's very hard to beat the view I have when I'm behind her

[lakeluvrs 65]

I'd have to say watching my wife cum with another man is the hottest thing I've ever seen. The feeling from watching it the first time is hard to describe. I actually submitted a story about it, so there's my attempt at describing it.

[velbuzz 17]

I am with the majority. Watching my wife with another (male or female) is exciting. Extra bonus when she reaches a climax.

 

And then the extra fun of licking up the leftovers.

[Formybubu 55]

There is nothing as hot as watching my wife get laid. The sex we have have with others is hotter and when we get home it is the hottest.

[steve as is 19]

i just love watching my wife being pleasured by another guy she loves the feel of a different cock in her and knowing we are both enjoying it and the sex is always great after.

[red96 17]

We have only had one experience so far and I was totally turned on seeing my wife with another man. It was a fantasy of ours for several years to have a MFM encounter and when we finally made it happen. It was everything we expected and more. I did have a few apprehensions at first but after things got going we were both very comfortable in the situation.

[MV325 16]

Watching each other is great and hits the "arouse" button. It gets HOT when we join in, which we often do.

[chrisunion 19]

The fact of the matter is when I share my wife with another man, and see how much sexual pleasure she gets from it, it brings me sexual pleasure. To see her so turn on and horny, and not giving a dam about society rules, does sexually turn me on. My wife was so innocent when I first met her, so allowing her to be fucked by another guy, so she can experience the ultimate sexual high of being the center of attention with two guys at the same time. To be her sex slaves, to sexually stimulate every part of her body, has made her a better fuck.

[bydforever511 18]

Watching my wife with another guy is definitely something that I enjoy and am very turned on by. We're in a situation where we've been lucky enough to successfully involve a good friend in our activities. It works in our case because we spent quite some time building up to it, and we all talked about it very openly for months prior to any sexual activity actually occurring. After our first "get together" we all discussed again and found that we all really enjoyed the encounter. Open discussion was especially important because the friend is at our home quite often for non-sexual activities and we didn't want any uncomfortable feelings or worse, a ruined friendship. Luckily our approach worked and we now have a good, trustworthy friend we can involve when the mood strikes. It's also nice because we can go weeks or months without anything "happening" and the friend never "expects" anything from my wife.

 

So that's the background... and the truth of it is (in direct relation to this question) there are times when we'll start out as a threesome and then I end up sitting back and just watching my wife with my friend. She was admittedly a little nervous at first (as we all were), but now that everyone's comfortable (and most importantly, SHE is completely comfortable) it's especially hot to watch her "do her thing" because she really lets him take her with no fear of any jealousy on my end. I know that if things were different and she was just going through the motions for my benefit I'd feel completely different and probably wouldn't get any arousal from it. The arousal really comes from knowing that she's comfortable and knowing that SHE wants it to happen, too. Perhaps I'm one of the lucky ones where reality actually ended up being even better than the fantasy.

[hunnynun 15]

I love seeing the look of ecstasy in my hubby's face and the moans of pleasure as he screws a hot babe. I try to give him a kiss just as he fills her hot pussy and tell him to fill her up with your fuck juice so i can lick her after to taste their cum cocktail.

[JustMrJ 178]

I'll speak for myself and let my lovely bride chime in when she gets to this thread.

 

I chose 'for man - it arouses me', BUT, that only scratches the surface.

 

I don't even have to see her as she is a 'singer' when she has sex. I don't mean I hear a musical singing voice, but rather different pitched moans coming from her direction. She has been called 'Scales' more than once as her pitch changes from moan to moan, getting higher and higher. When a man has her at the top of her 'range' and makes her keep hitting that note, I KNOW she is getting off! I can usually hear her clearly on the other side of the home we are in for a house party!

 

That alone is a turn on for me, but watching her get it on with a guy is great, two is fantastic... three... well... it only gets better.

 

I know she is having fun and feeling wonderful and is in a super erotic place, and I love seeing and hearing her there.

[hondo43 15]

Yes it arouses me, love watching wife with another dick in her. She is 63 yo and has 32 yo lover. he comes to visit on weekends and they spend most time in bed. most aroused when she told her first black to fuck me harder.

[Miss Sunshine 29]

It is very exciting for me to watch him pleasure another woman or be pleasured by a woman and or man.

[ahs1961 67]

My wife and I got into the lifestyle at a later age and we arranged for her to have two younger male lovers with whom she works in a home decorating business. They have known each other for several years hand have always had a great working relationship. The chemistry is great among them so I suggested that we approach them. They were flattered that an elegant older lady would consider them as lovers. The day of her first date she had to wear a pad because she was so wet in anticipation. Her lovers fulfill all of her sexual expectations and have liberated her sexually. She has become multi-orgasmic and very oral, a complete change from our sexual life together. To see her penetrated, pleasured, loved and dated by these gentlemen turns me on to no end. When they orgasm with each other it is a melding and melting experience of their souls clinging together in the afterglow. I encourage her to travel with them on buying trips so she can fulfill her every desire. Her lovers are the very gentlemen that I can trust her to, and they treat her like a queen. They are welcome in our home anytime together or singly. Watching her blossum sexually has been very gratifying to me.

[Jim&Shelley 17]

I find it very arousing when she has sex with another guy. I think same room swaps are very arousing because you can see what is going on. However; when we go to seperate bedroom to play it is VERY HOT...because my imagination goes wild and sometimes you hears noise and sometimes you dont....

[olycouple 62]

The last time we were with another couple I found it hard to multitask, I was too busy trying to watch Mrs.Oly. I find it very erotic to see my wife giving a blowjob or getting eaten out by either sex. I have yet to see her get fucked but its on my list

[Guest Slinkysdew]

Seeing each other having sex is a huge part of the experience. love it

[Speed & Trixie 163]

It seems we both feel the same way... We both love to see each other with another person. Either being the aggressor or the acceptor

[steve as is 19]

i just love watching the enjoyment on my wife's face when she unleashes her wildside, of course I get aroused watching her being pounded at both ends, it's just magic.

[Guest az40scpl]

Aroused? AROUSED? thats an understatement! I love watching her enjoy herself!

[cocpl2007 170]

Very much a turn on... for both of us. So much so, that as a result of our extended session after the other couple had departed, we made it to sunrise... only to end up in the Dr's office... the outcome: just abrasions! Whew!!

[Willing29 66]

I couldn't believe how hot it was watching my wife in action. Actually last time I was holding her and caressing her while she was having sex and it was very hot for both of us. Can't wait until next time.

[Chitowndk4u 32]

I can say it arouses me.

 

One time when we were having some issues, my wife cheated on me, but I don't hold it against her. It happens, it was first time having sex with someone other than me in her life. In a way I was proud of her for doing something that she wanted to do.

 

Anyway, the one time we did do a full swap last year, I was right there watching the other husband having sex with her and taking pictures of it.

 

It was the hottest thing I have ever seen.

 

I love watching people have sex, so it was a real turn on for me. She was enjoying it too. I loved seeing the look on her face while she was being pleasured.

[Guest Trellken]

Not really sure how to answer the poll as there isn't really one that fits my point of view.

 

Seeing my girl with another girl is an INCREDIBLE turnon. We've been to a swingers club in Atlanta twice now and on both occasions she got involved in some fun play with another girl - kissing, caressing, nibbling and some oral as well. I was unbelievably turned on and even the thought of it gets me all worked up.

 

The idea of seeing her with another man has quite the opposite effect. I have no interest in it and luckily that's not her interest.

[Rackir 159]

Toss up another vote for "Hot, but I also have sex when swinging, so "arouses"". Seeing her with another man is one of the single most erotic sights I have ever seen (it's like watching porn and going "HEY! I know that lady!"), only slightlly hedged out of first place by the sight of her with another woman. HOT HOT HOT!.

[Elena 42]

It completely turns me on to see the Mr fucking another woman. We have always played in the same room, so while I am getting fucked, I can look over and see him banging the other woman. It is definitely hot. I also love to watch him fuck a woman while she is eating me out. I can look down and watch him and then turn my head and and give the guy a BJ. To say that it arouses me is an understatement. LOL

[mixtupcpl 169]

I voted "OK" but its sort of a qualified OK... It *is* arousing, but I think possibly not to the level that I see many of the posters here describing. The voyeur in me of course likes it, and seeing her enjoy herself is of course a turn on, but I wouldnt say it is my *main* focus.

[couplers 4,635]

Hi, it's Petra. I have to answer for all three of us since the men aren't into reading about or discussing swinging, only doing it.

 

Hubby David is neither aroused or put off by seeing me have sex with Red. Ususally I play alone with Red, and whether I've just done it or am fresh as a daisy doesn't matter to David. (Although it does make a difference in how he takes me.) Once or twice a year we three will go on vacation together. (The one other thing we are all into is skiing.) David can either be in the room while Red and I are screwing or off doing something else. The only things that matter him is that I am happy and he is getting his share of me.

 

Red, on the other hand, doesn't like to see or talk about me having sex with David. He is something of a jealous lover. It's a long story, but all goes back to the fact that he was my first, we were a couple for several years, and almost got married. The sex just continued after I met, fell in love with and married David. Red likes me to say I still need him, that this is still your pussy, you can have me anytime you want, etc. Which is all true I guess, it is still a relationship, but Red is not husband material and it all worked out for the best. (Hubby has heard this pillow talk and finds it nothing more than amusing.)

 

Now to me. Although my relationship and marriage with David started with his accommodating my continuing relationship with Red, I was one jealous girl when it came to him. Then when a friend of mine (recently divorced, horny) said she thought David was cute, I showed them (er, me)! My heart was pounding 200 beats a minute, but in a fit of sexual competitiveness, I told her that if she would like to have him, it could be arranged. I knew I could out screw her. (No doubt Hubby would go along. David is the most straight-forward, honest person I know. He is clear about liking sex and lots of it, although he gave me both my freedom and his loyalty in our marriage. So I didn't need to guess what he would say about having something extra to play with.) I was unbelieveably turned on by the prelude to, the time he was at her place, and when he came home after screwing her. (I had soaked through my pants with anticipation and sucked his dick the moment he got home.) That continued for about a year, although I never got to watch them. There have been other girls for David since and two have allowed me to watch and participate. The intensity of my longing and love for David is greatest when I see my husband having sex with another woman with my consent. To see that, tell him I love him, then get him back smelling of her is the most intense sexual experience.

 

Thinking about it, Red is actually the non-swinger among the three of us, his sex comes only from me. Now I find THAT kind of exciting too because he was the experienced one when we met, and was proud of the several women he had had. In a way I think he has found his place as the beta male.

[HardTongue 31]

Yes I love to watch my wife fuck other men, especially bareback, but actually I find watching her suck cock even more erotic, especially if she is watching me at the time and winks as she licks his cock. Of course I don't always get to watch, but it can also be very erotic waiting at home, knowing you wife is out getting some strange cock and will soon be home with a warm creampie..

[smoothwaitress 15]

Watching my husband with another woman is so hot. The first time we swapped I was afraid I would be very jealous,but the opposite happened. He feels the same about me with another.

[mrsmother1 15]

Watching my husband with another woman is so hot and arousing for me, especially when he goes down on them and then manages to send them off into a wild squirting orgasm, which he is well known for in our circles. After which he usually follows this up with a good bareback ride culminating in a flowing cream pie being left in his partner and if they still have someting left they then settle into a 69 mode and clean each other up.

 

In the meantime I know that he enjoys me being with other men (and women too) giving them BJ's to completion, so I can swollow my desert, and then work at getting them good and hard again so we can enjoy some good old barebuck fucking.

 

Now our favorite is when I am really horny and I decide to take on several people at the same time, usually it's two or three guys and they make me airtight by filling all three of my holes with their hard cocks and we all start thrusting away until we all cum and then collapse in a big heap. Now this is what really gets my hubby aroused and hot.

[Pioneer Swinger 16]

Yes, I’ve enjoyed watching Angie being pleasured by (and pleasuring) other men since our college days back in the late 1970’s. Although Angie’s preference is for black men, when at parties she’ll “go vanilla” as she puts it, and let a white guy fuck her. My favorites: When she mounts a guy and he plays with her breasts while they fuck; Angie letting a guy cum in her in rear-entry; but most of all watching her cum when another guy is cumming inside her. -Rick

[lovers 25]

The male half loves to watch me get banged by a guy I'm really into. Conversely I LOVE to see hubby fuck another woman. In fact I think I may be the only woman in the world who really loves to see hubby go at it. Am I weird?

[2lovers 87]

Of course, I am very aroused watching my wife screwing another guy. We were lucky that we hooked up with a guy through AFF and we're very comfortable with him, so comfortable that wy wife can go bare back and let him cum inside her.

[swingingcoupleU 15]

Seeing my wife with another woman make me crazy horny. Nothing is more beautiful to me. Seeing her with another man arouse me in a different way, but not nearly as much as with another beautful girl.

[UserNameTaken 15]

The wife and I get sooo turned on by seeing, and hearing, each other in the throws of passion with another person. I (the male) could just kick back and take in all the visual and auditory pleasures she dishes out when she's with another man. When she's with another woman, it's really hot to see it, but not in the way that I like to see her getting a stiff one.

[jessicat78 23]

There is nothing better than watching Jess has sex with other men and women! So fucking hot and naughty!

[Mistral Wind 54]

When a woman is hot she turns into a cannibal first she eats her man then swallows him up all inside her, this turns Tim on big time and so do I watching him being "cannibalized" by a hot woman.

 

Sex is the best game in the world so lets just accept we all get turned on watching partners once we get past the jealousy stage. It is that simple.

[mikeandjan 15]

We are new to swinging and one of the most exciting aspects for us is watching each other having sex with another partner. The first time we played with another couple we had switched partners and were all naked on the bed together. That was an erotic sight in itself seeing Mike with another woman and Jan with another man in intimate circumstances. But when we started to play it was such a turn on for both of us. For Mike being beside Jan while she sucked the other guy's cock and then laying on her back and opening her legs so he could fuck her was a huge turn on. Similarly for Jan seeing Mike's cock penetrating the other woman and then watching while they fucked to orgasm was very exciting for her. There is no doubt that we are both highly aroused by seeing each other having sex with someone else. It is one of the real benefits of swinging for us.

[lustylearning 705]

I would not say that I'm aroused by it, but it pleases me. I'm happy for him.

[joaninla 162]

I seldom get very excited watching my husband with another woman, however he absolutely LOVES watching me and another man. (I'm not complaining!)

[carl01tx 17]

Yes, after seeing her with a guy, it triples my ability to perform with her once we are alone.

[ramsey 15]

it's hard not to get aroused seeing sex whom ever is involved, assuming it's done well

[Drof 15]

I am absolutely turned on by watching my wife with another man! We both know that after she is finished with him/them, I will do all I can to give her one more big "O" once were alone! I love when she describes how each experience made her feel!

[psycdr 64]

Hell yeah...I love knowing my wife is getting it from another man; I have not watched but she has audio recorded it for me, plus she tells me hot stories while we have sex or sometimes to tease me.

 

I want to hook up with a female, but we have not met any females that want to play without their hubby. My wife and I are also looking for a different room swap couple, but it is difficult to find them. If I don't hook up I am ok with that, because what turns me on is her hooking up.

[Frank&Sasha 16]

It is absolutely hot for me to watch Sasha stroke, suck & fuck another cock. But it's even hotter when I join in and watch her work on the two of us at the same time.

 

As of right now, I am not having intercourse with any of our FMF 3 somes, but we haven't played with a couple yet. Maybe when we do it, Sasha might allow me to do it, but I am content for now with how we play. I hate wearing condoms, so putting one on just to fuck another girl doesn't sound like much fun to me. I'd much rather enjoy a BJ from the other girl while Sasha is getting pounded from the other guy.

 

Frank

[MN Tom 251]

Yes, I definitely am. Ive watched (and joined in) with my wife and her regular, and Ive listened in before too, plus seen video and pics. I revel in her recounts of the nights too.

 

She has gotten a lot more interested in my playtime too. At first she was blase about it, now she is interested in hearing it and it has shown her a different appreciation for me.