Jump to content
MidwestHoneys

Different Positions for different partners

Recommended Posts

When we have sex alone we do change positions even if we seem to do a few most of the time. We will fuck with her on top or me fucking from behind almost never Mish. Oral is again her on top in a 69. 
When she is with guys she will do what others want. Some will fuck her standing, I can never get that done. She’ll fuck on top, reverse. She’ll suck a guy on his back, and eat a gal the same way. 
Just wondering if ur partner does sex with others in positions you never do. Do you talk about what she wants or doesn’t. 

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post

With ourselves, we have about three go to positions. With others, we both like to find out what they like and try it. 

  • Like 4

Share this post


Link to post

You learn plenty when you have sex with others, you try new things that you think your spouse wouldn’t like. I knew my wife was enjoying new partners when she came home and tried many new acts and positions. An open marriage and swinging has been very educational when it comes to sex. Sharing what we have learned while with others has made our home sex much better. 

  • Like 3
  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

Having met many newbies we are the ones teaching new things that freshen up the others sex life. None have had sex with others and that brings up so many new positions. We are normally contacted to teach and guide, curious wives the primary reason. I usually position myself with my vagina near her face while trying to relax her into allowing me a path to hers. All have had oral sex, none with a woman causing great tension that can lasts seconds, minutes, hours or never relaxing. Them giving oral to a woman, even touching or kissing is even more tense for most. 
I can normally sense the husband not know what to do. I try to give them new sensations and will ask if they like certain things. Husbands who never had a total bj, having a mouth on the boys or but touched. 
Mike and I make sure both partners are involved and will try as many positions to make everyone happy. 

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

That's part of the fun, isn't it... picking up new tricks and techniques.

 

There is one position my wife picked up from a couple of guys she played with back when she would go to a club by herself. These guys evidently got very excited when they found out how limber she is. They liked to put her ankles up on their shoulders, or spread her legs wide, and drive in deep. I think it's a very porn star kind of move but now any time she does this position at home, it drives me crazy because I know it was these couple of guys who did it with her on nights when I couldn't be there. So, of course, now she does it just to drive me nuts.

 

Excuse me, I need to go find my wife... ;)

  • Like 1
  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

We mix up positions and have our favorites when together.  Any DP positions she'll usually do with other guys because I'm not a big fan.  One of my friends likes to pin her legs back behind her head so he can pound really deep.  Also him and some other guys do a lot of facefucking positions which we don't do privately.  Her head hanging off the bed and him standing over her so his dick is going down her throat and balls slapping on her face.  Also on the bed her laying down and him kneeling over her face.  I am sure there are plenty of other positions as well but I haven't given it much thought.

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

Not so much different positions with different partners for us as we are all over the place when it is just the two of us!  Definitely different things we have done that can’t be done with just the two of us though.  

 

Her bent over getting fucked while her face is buried between another woman’s legs, having my cock sucked by her and another woman at the same time, her sucking and stroking another guy and myself at the same time, her being spit roast by another guy and myself, her 69ing with another woman well I take turns fucking both of them,  her fucking a woman with a strap on while I am fucking her, her on her back legs up in the air getting fucked by someone else while I fuck her face and boobs and the list goes on and on.  

 

These are the things we are in the lifestyle for!  The things we can’t do with just the two of us.  The younger adult me would never have believed that these things would ever happen in my life, but they have and they will leave lifelong memories of incredible experiences I got to share with the most amazing sexual person I have ever meet.

  • Like 2
  • Hot! 2

Share this post


Link to post

I have done several positions that involve deep penetration like: 

Viennese Oyster and pile driver, those are considered "party positions" for me, I like the feeling of being "owned" in front of others especially my husband, I really enjoy when they pin down my legs wide open and taking the deep strokes.

 

I have never had sex with my husband in those positions, it is simply not appealing to do it by ourselves in private.

  • Like 1
  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

Yes we do different positions but I think for me it's more how you fit with your lover. Some positions just work better depending upon size and also for me depends if we are in bed , how firm a mattress. For me, fucking on a miracle foam mattress just don't work with a shorter woman

Share this post


Link to post

The first position with the first man was missionary if I remember. I know we had other positions involving the wife. 
Think about our home sex we rarely have old fashioned missionary, are we the only ones? 

Share this post


Link to post

Yes, each partner enjoys different things. If it were all the same why bother. 

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
On 11/12/2021 at 1:06 PM, MidwestHoneys said:

Just wondering if ur partner does sex with others in positions you never do.

Yep. That's the beauty of having sex with others.

 

On 11/12/2021 at 1:06 PM, MidwestHoneys said:

Do you talk about what she wants or doesn’t. 

Again, yes. We opened he door to the lifestyle by talking about what we liked or didn't like about past partners.

 

On 11/15/2021 at 10:20 AM, Anon321 said:

Any DP positions she'll usually do with other guys because I'm not a big fan.

I am a fan of DP but with other women because if my wife wants it I like to watch. More than her fucking, sucking, or anal alone.

 

On 11/12/2021 at 1:06 PM, MidwestHoneys said:

almost never Mish

If it's just me and my wife it's almost always missionary, unless she's just fucked a guy missionary, then I flip her around and take her doggy. Don't know why, just seems right for sloppy seconds to do it the other way.

Share this post


Link to post
On 11/15/2021 at 6:26 PM, enhancer said:

 

Her bent over getting fucked while her face is buried between another woman’s legs,

That's my favorite of anything for a threesome. 

 

On 8/18/2024 at 9:27 AM, Half MT said:

Think about our home sex we rarely have old fashioned missionary

For an MF twosome, we flip it around for a while but missionary is my preference when he cums in me.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
11 minutes ago, couplers said:

For an MF twosome, we flip it around for a while but missionary is my preference when he cums in me.

Thinking about our primary position it is me on top or him behind me. 

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post
2 minutes ago, Half MT said:

Thinking about our primary position it is me on top or him behind me. 

Ours is usually missionary or cowgirl.  Just the other night she rode me until we both exploded…..very hot and very wet!  We do try different positions with each other, but usually finish in one of these.  

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post
On 8/30/2024 at 5:38 AM, Half MT said:

him behind me

There is something animalistic about doggie that makes it different, interesting, very appropriate at times.

 

On 8/30/2024 at 5:43 AM, Jersey Shore Couple said:

Ours is usually missionary or cowgirl.  Just the other night she rode me until we both exploded…..

Riding cowgirl from beginning to end is for when I want control and am willing to do the work.  Never reverse though.  We like to look at each other and have hand and mouth tit play.

  • Like 1

Share this post


Link to post
1 hour ago, couplers said:

Riding cowgirl from beginning to end is for when I want control and am willing to do the work.  Never reverse though.  We like to look at each other and have hand and mouth tit play.

Yes!  Totally agree.  Marie loves her nipples pinched and sucked while she’s riding me cowgirl.  She also likes when I reach around and spread her ass cheeks a little.  Results in a deep vaginal orgasm every time!  

  • Hot! 1

Share this post


Link to post

Reverse cowgirl wasn’t new for us when we found new fun in it. I saw my wife on top when the other wife told her to turn around lean back carefully. She knew what she was doing going down on my wife and husband at the same time. 

  • Hot! 2

Share this post


Link to post
20 minutes ago, ToeDippers said:

Reverse cowgirl wasn’t new for us when we found new fun in it. I saw my wife on top when the other wife told her to turn around lean back carefully. She knew what she was doing going down on my wife and husband at the same time. 

I’m glad to hear the other wife emphasized the need to be careful while enjoying the pleasures of Reverse Cowgirl. I have a mild preference for Cowgirl, for reasons that others have elucidated in prior comments. But with Reverse Cowgirl I get a better view of my partner’s and my interlocked parts. Plus,if she’s got a cute asshole I have a nice view of that. 
 

However, with Reverse Cowgirl there is a risk of getting one’s dick broke. Which is super not good. Check this out from the a national Institute of Health. And while this case was addressed with a relatively straightforward surgical repair, that’s not always the case. Play carefully campers. 😉

 

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10382743/

  • Like 2

Share this post


Link to post

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.


×
×
  • Create New...