Can we get access to your private pics?

[enhancer 1,585]

So we got a message from a couple on one of the sites we are on that says we can’t stop looking at your pictures can you give us access to your private pictures!  Open their profile and there is not one single picture on it.  Meanwhile we have close to a hundred pics of both of us on our profiles.  
 

Why in the hell would we want to give access to our private folder when we already put ourselves out there so much and they have put absolutely no effort into giving anything of themselves?

 

Are people really that clueless about what it takes to get interest back?

[NC_Seniors 518]

28 minutes ago, enhancer said:

Are people really that clueless about what it takes to get interest back?

Uhhhhh … evidently!   ;-D

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Yep! We don't understand why you would go to the trouble of signing up for a swingers site and then not post a single photo. We understand editing the photo so you cannot be easily identified, we do the same, but nothing at all...unless you are just another guy fantasizing about how you wish your life could be. If that is the case, then like it was said in the Rocky Horror Picture Show: '...don't dream it, BE it'. Take the steps you need to get your relationship where you can be posting pictures as a couple looking for others. As for us, if you have no pictures, you don't even warrant getting a response when you ask...

[enhancer 1,585]

If there was a setting on the sites that only allowed people with pictures of everyone who wants to be involved excluding useless cock pics to contact us we would install it.

 It would save us a lot of time reading and ignoring messages from people that do not have them.  

 

We all have real lives and would like to keep them private.  No one is more special then anyone else in this regard.

[NWAtlSwing 522]

They are not wanting to swing.

 

They want to look at pictures.

[njbm 2,871]

We have face pictures that we will open if the inquiring couple has opened their face pictures. 

We have no interest in viewing other people’s junk nor displaying ours in pictures. 

If we meet a couple and have mutual interest, the junk will come out. 

 

 

Edited December 1, 2021 by njbm

[cplnuswing 4,713]

On 12/1/2021 at 9:43 AM, enhancer said:

Are people really that clueless about what it takes to get interest back?

 

Yep.

 

My favorite was when someone sent us a message that hit upon every single thing that our profile says we aren't interested in (i.e  girl-girl, etc).  Feeling nice, replied with a brief but polite "Thanks for the interest, but we aren't compatible" type reply.  A month later, another message, again hitting on every single thing our profile says we aren't interested in.  Feeling less nice, started to type out another more lengthy less polite reply, and then halfway through just said awww, the hell with it, waste of time trying to give the truly clueless a clue.

[NC_Seniors 518]

1 hour ago, cplnuswing said:

 

waste of time trying to give the truly clueless a clue.

Next time, try this … “We can explain it to you, but we can’t understand it for you!”   ;-D

[Idahocouple6969 294]

I really hate it when you get a request to see your private galleries without even saying hi first. Seems only polite.