Tahoe 6 Posted December 10, 2021 We are planning to either going to a bar/club or out of town to a swinger club. If we decide to go the bar route and take her/him back to a hotel. Do you let them stay over night or tell them they need to go? How do you handle that? Husband has no problem letting them stay but I wouldn't feel comfortable. Do you cuddle with the extra person afterwards? Would you let your spouse sleep with them in the same bed afterwards? If so how did you handle seeing your spouse in bed with another person? Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,068 Posted December 10, 2021 Don't go to a bar...you probably won't find other swingers there, you might find a guy just wanting to get laid but isn't prepared to understand the dynamics or emotions of swinging (in other words, potential DRAMA). Go to a swingers club...they almost always have swingers there, people who are at least comfortable with the idea of swinging. The other reason is that you can play at the club and not worry about what happens afterward...usually you all get dressed and leave separately. Quote Share this post Link to post
NWAtlSwing 526 Posted December 10, 2021 Let people know up front they don't spend the night. also agree with going to the club Quote Share this post Link to post
