Viagra & Swinging

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

Anyone here use Viagra while swinging??

 

I haven't tried it but have kicked the idea around. I don't have a problem getting it up but sometimes my cock tires out before I do.

 

Or we have to take time out breaks to let "him" catch his breath so to speak.

 

Would Viagra eliminate these issues so you could have 4 or 5 hours of straight fucking?

 

These are serious questions so please don't jump on me!! (Unless you are an attractive woman )

[pairbond 19]

Well, I hate to burst your little bubble, but your viagra fantasy is just that - a fantasy. While I have not yet ever needed "help" at home, at my age (late 50s) I usually take 50 mg of viagra before swinging. It's sort of my "Linus security blanket" and keeps me from worrying about my performance, and that itself is all the help I probably need. But so far the only thing I've noticed it does for me is make my erections happen FASTER. It doesn't seem to have that hoped-for effect of allowing you to go without a recovery time between "encounters." However, you may find that when you DO recover, you can regain just as hard an erection as you had the 1st time.

 

I'm thinking of trying Cialis, just to see if I can perform repeatedly for 36 hours!

[Jenanay70 15]

The Mr. and I played with a couple this weekend. He only uses viagra when we swing, for the purpose of staying hard in between rounds. This night, he came 3 times and stayed hard the whole 3 hours.

 

He was more impressive than normal that night. I give Viagra a great big YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[DandS 15]

Mr Naughty, I would recommend talking to your Dr. and getting a free sample pack so you can try it out and see how it works for you. Based on our experience I would highly recommend it. My hubby uses it when we swing, not because he needs to, but because it enhances the experience.

 

Mrs DandS

[frenzb4sex 15]

Naughtys---

 

I utilize the Blue Wonder every time we swing...I actually third my 100 mg pill, and it keeps me pretty much at attention, even right after a round is over and then some! Like Pairbond said, it is my "Linus security blanket" and seems to work very very well. Been using it now for about a year in the lifestyle, and it's been a pure joy--for me and (hopefully) for others!!!!

 

I am sure every one is different, and checking with a doc is the best thing to do beforehand, but if it is something that is within your ability to take, Go for it!!!!! It is nothing but GOOD!!!!

[BradAndJanet 70]

Yes, and why not? It's harder and hard more often. I dunno, but that seems to please the ladies , so if your doctor says, "OK", then go for it. Once in a while won't hurt 'ya.

 

Enjoy!

[GirlieZ 15]

Anyone here use Viagra while swining??

 

I havent tried it but have kicked the idea around. I dont have a problem getting it up but sometimes my cock tires out before I do.

Or we have to take time out breaks to let "him" catch his breath so to speak.

 

Would Viagra eliminate these issues so you could have 4 or 5 hours of straight fucking?

 

Thsese are serious questions so please dont jump on me!! (Unless you are an attractive woman )

 

Mr Naughty,

 

I'm certain that you will hear several viewpoints on viagra. I can only give you ours. So here goes

 

Hubby is a smoker and has borderline hypertension. He noticed over a few months that his erection just wasn't what it used to be. He at first thought that it was a mental block and ignored it--which really made me feel bad. Finally I talked him into going to the doctor after not having sex for almost three weeks. To make a long story short he got a sample pack of viagra 25 mg. Hubby is a big guy and needs 100mg to work..so we were discouraged the first few times. Good communication with the doctor told us to increase until we achieved desired results...WOOHEE..it worked at 100mg. It comes in increments of 25mg.

 

Things that we have found to be true about viagra:

 

It does last about four hours. The desire has to be there though in order for it to work. Avoid heavy fatty meals before taking it, eat light.

 

The amount of sex that you can have with one dose does vary. We haven't hit our maximum yet or an average. Each time is different. Four or five hours of straight fucking is not possible. You have to go through that whole cycle of erection and refractory phase and arousal etc etc.

 

Viagra works part in use of flush niacin (I'm not sure if you have ever heard of flush niacin): Nicotinic acid. It can cause intense flushing and sometimes itching and burning of the skin..even to touch the skin can feel warm. That is because niacin causes those little capillaries to open up and the histamine effect that follows hence resulting in the dilation of the blood vessels. Now I am not saying to go out and buy flush niacin because the side effects can be quite strong. I know--I've tried

 

Viagra is expensive. Lucky for us hubby has excellent insurance--we pay only a tiny fraction of the cost.

 

I would suggest talking to a physician about risks and benefits of viagra. For us it has been a good thing!

 

Zgirl

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

My ex used Viagra several times while swinging and it never helped him last longer.... or recover faster. It did help him get it up easier (as that was an issue with people we didn't know really well).

 

I think it really depends on you, so it's worth a try, get that free trial from your doc and see what happens.

[mxdtxn774 17]

Hey Mr. and Mrs.

 

Give us an update to this. From my own personal experience, the "V" works . I noticed in my early to mid 20's that I was having problems. By my late 20's it was so bad I couldn't get it up for anything. After going to the doc, I started on 50 mg. of viagra, with no side effects other than a stuffy nose. But seriously guys, also look at other things in your lifestyle to change that can cause erectile dysfunction, as many doctors will tell you that it is the warning shot for major heart problems. I have learned that something as seemingly harmless as sudafed can cause problems. Add smoking, bad diet, and no exercise(in my case) to that mix, and you can see how bad it can get.

[wrnakedru 38]

Maybe I'm asking this in the wrong place - as evidently those who are using Viagra don't have medical reasons that they cannot use it.

 

Hubby is a regular use smoker [it's a rare day he doesn't smoke over a pack - sometimes as much as two]. He is approaching his late 40's and up until now E.D. has not been an issue so we don't have any experience with Viagra.

 

Hubby's line of work [through a local union] is such that each and every time he goes to work for a different company, he is sent for a drug screen and pre-employment physical. About a year ago, the physical revealed higher blood pressure readings than the company's stated limits which are 160 for the top number and 100 for the bottom one. [sorry, EBF, I can never recall the proper medical terminology for these readings!] His problem was the bottom number.

 

The procedure to get him OKed was for him to visit our family doctor and get cleared through her. Time limit of three days before he could retest, as it was felt even if medication was given it takes that long before it's working. Sure enough, doctor put him on medication. Three days later he passed the pre-employment requirements and was put to work.

 

Next time out through the union hall, he passed the requirements fine. But the next time once again his blood pressure was in excess of their range despite the medication. Back to family doctor, and the dosage was doubled.

 

I have heard and read that blood pressure medication can result in E.D. The "Catch 22" of this situation is that the medication helps the blood pressure but assists in causing E.D. - - and those with high blood pressure severe enough to require medication are not suitable candidates for Viagra.

 

So, anticipating a time this may become an issue for us, what is the solution for those in his circumstances since Viagra can be life threatening for them?

[mxdtxn774 17]

Hi wrnakedru,

 

I felt that I had to respond after reading. The blood pressure readings would concern anyone, including me. If memory serves, the diastolic(lower number) should not stay above 90. That was one of the reasons I quit smoking, my blood pressure was too high on both systolic and diastolic. The only solutions that I have to give on this would be the same any person (doctor, nurse, a friend, etc.) would give.

 

1. Quit smoking. The nicotine drives up blood pressure by constricting the blood vessels. The tar and other chemicals present can cause him to wear out after a few minutes of sexual activity.

 

2. Exercise. Very important, this will help to counter the effects of smoking assuming that he quits. It will help to increase cardiovascular endurance, and overall endurance.

 

3. Dietary changes. Now I did not notice anything in your post about his eating habits. If they are like mine, then they would need to change. High cholesterol amount would be no good when coupled with constricted blood vessels. And no extra salt either. We get more than enough just by what we eat to add extra from a salt shaker.

 

4. Stress. This can kill an erection just as fast as anything. It can also force the blood pressure higher.

 

Now you have said he isn't having any problems right now in the action department, that's good. But just from the 4 examples above, you can see how bad it can get for men. And this only covers the physical side. By changing his habits now, it may be possible to steer him away from ED. Hope this helps, as it sure helped me.

[wrnakedru 38]

mxdtxn774-

 

Thanks for taking the time to write such a carefully thorough and thoughtful reply. I know from having read your other posts that you are speaking from first hand knowledge of these topics, so your sharing is helpful.

 

1. The smoking issue is one our family doctor has plagued hubby about for years. He suffers from some allergies, although they are not severe. Mostly slight to mild reactions to mold, mountain cedar and Johnson grass. However, his allergic reaction to these items is respiratory in nature - and an added burden to the strain imposed by many years of smoking. I quit for two years [a few years back] in hopes it would help provide sufficient incentive for him to follow suit. He felt no desire to quit, however, and the aggravation to me of his continued smoking became extremely divisive to our relationship. I took the habit back up to ease the tension, but stand at the ready to stop the instant he expresses the urge!

 

2. Hubby is a pipe-fitter and welder and this work exposes him to a great deal of less than perfect breathing conditions. He is presently working Q.C. inspection on the new terminal addition at DFW airport. The good part of doing this is that he is not exposed to the dust, gases, and pollution levels he was doing the work he now inspects after others have done it. Additionally, there is the benefit that the inspection role requires him to walk many miles a day, crisscrossing all over the huge terminal area as different areas become ready. A good thing!

 

3. We eat very little fried food here at home, preferring to grill or bake most foods. He had a bad habit of automatically salting food without even tasting it first. It has taken a while to break him of that. Salt shakers here at home have been replaced with Mrs. Dash in it's assorted flavors, and NoSalt. I am endeavoring to teach him to read the nutritional information on all food packaging. Many of his past favorites have been those with high salt content so we have searched for appropriate substitutes that are better for him. This is an ongoing battle - and hopefully awareness of the levels will help. He had developed a taste for canned items - never the best choice. He has learned the value of draining out the fluid, washing the contents, and adding fresh water for cooking instead. He now feels this actually improves the flavor.

 

4. Stress. Hmmmm. Always hard to gauge with accuracy I suppose. He is a very laid back, easy going sort of fellow - very slow to anger, comfortable with himself in most situations. He has none of the classic characteristics of an "A" personality type - but that isn't always a clear indication of what's going on inside, I know. And the past three years or so haven't been a piece of cake for many, if any, of us in this world.

 

Thanks for your advice! I love my man and my motivations are not simply to insure an avoidance of E.D. - - I want him by my side for as many years as possible.

[mxdtxn774 17]

kewl she says i was thoughtful I am more than glad to offer any assistance as many people including yourself have helped me to get ready to enter a new chapter in my own personal life. When and how that goes down, I don't know yet. But this I do know. When it happens you guys will be the first to know. So I guess this is thank you for helping me.

 

Also noticed some of your dietary habits(like draining the liquid from canned vegetables) I would have never thought about that! So thanks again!

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

Well,

I have tried it...

Twice.

 

With mixed results.

First night (Saturday) I had NO recovery time.

Second time (Sunday) I did need some recovery time.

 

But both nights definately gave me extra stamina!!

 

So all in all its a thumbs up for us!!

 

Thanks everyone for their input!!

[frenzb4sex 15]

Daaaaaaaaaaaang Naughtys!!!

 

Double dipping??? You go, guys!!!! *Standing ovation*

 

One thing I must say is that I do notice quite a difference in taking on back to back days. For one, I believe that the natural thing is that the body "gets used" to the presence of the drug, which therefore decreases the "stiffness" and recovery. It doesn't so much decrease the time taken to "rise to the occasion", but still is something that, in my experience, is a little more natural on the second night of use than the first, where it's literally supernatural!!!!!! booooooooiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiing!!!!!!

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

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Daaaaaaaaaaaang Naughtys!!!

 

Double dipping??? You go, guys!!!! *Standing ovation*

 

It was a good weekend!!

 

Thanks for the info though. I didn't think about that :

 

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One thing I must say is that I do notice quite a difference in taking on back to back days. For one, I believe that the natural thing is that the body "gets used" to the presence of the drug

[let's do it again 414]

I take viagra when swapping and I can usually get 3 rounds in then I am spent! Viagra helps me get up faster and makes me last longer, much longer than the first time. With viagra and a woman that is very good at 69, it doesn't take long between rounds.

[ConfusedHubby 118]

Not viagra, but I'll use Cialis sometimes.  Especially when it's more of a party setting or if it's a scenario where we'll be using condoms.  I feel like I can get hard again faster or stay hard after cumming easier and have better quality erections (especially gloved).   

 

That said, it's not a magic bullet and unless you've got the cardio and stamina for 4-5 hours of fucking the pill ain't getting you there.

[enhancer 1,584]

I don’t take drugs I don’t need and I don’t need boner pills!  Eating healthy and keeping the weight down is all I have had to do to be able to perform well and long.  

[EastInWest 1,524]

iOld thread, but for the record, 5mg daily use Cialis is extremely cheap through Amazon Pharmacy. 5mg the day before and 5mg the day of is a very effective insurance policy to make sure you can perform under pressure and probably do it again.

 

Interestingly, I was recently diagnosed with an early-stage and reversible condition that is generally associated with hypertension, despite not being hypertensive. However, it runs in my family, so I've been doing a lot of research into heading that off. It turns out that unless you have a kidney problem, it's generally recommended not to simply reduce your sodium, but to eat 2-3x as much potassium as sodium, because potassium is very beneficial in helping your body counterweight your sodium. Americans generally get the opposite, hence the epidemic levels of hypertension. With the Cronometer app, I've found it very easy to identify some of the worst offenders of my sodium intake and to improve my potassium intake with a daily banana and/or a cup of coconut water along with the usual good choices of greens, etc. 3x is a very hard target to hit if you eat any processed/restaurant food whatsoever, but 2x is very achievable.

 

Notably, there's a dose-response relationship between weight and blood pressure, and controlling the sodium intake has made it a lot easier to eat at a calorie deficit. That last ten pounds I wanted to lose to hit my goal melted off over the summer and I've been getting positive feedback on my arms looking more "cut".

[Only4Fun85 6]

5mg (low dose) Cialis seems to be the happy medium for me. Can always pop two if a big night out. I get wicked congestion and sometimes even headaches from 20mg. Nothing worse than good intentions ruining the fun. 

[NWAtlSwing 522]

2 hours ago, Only4Fun85 said:

5mg (low dose) Cialis seems to be the happy medium for me. Can always pop two if a big night out. I get wicked congestion and sometimes even headaches from 20mg. Nothing worse than good intentions ruining the fun. 

Same here for me. Don't want to trigger a sinus headache